Duchess Willow

Happy Pride, Happy Juneteenth, and Happy upcoming Ebony Femdom birthday to ME.  Today we’re going to discuss the importance of communication.  One of the things I’ve noticed in my tenure as a Distance Femdom, and erotic service provider, is the lack of communication skills many men have. Now I say men as a generalization, but I am referring to mostly people born with penises who may also be trans…

Miss me? Good, because absence makes the beatings stronger. Just kidding, I have had a lot on my plate which is why I haven’t blogged. This is just a quick update that next month is hot Domme summer, or Ebony Femdom summer, and I have a birthday coming up at the tail end of the coming month. Not much to say here at the moment, just a few reminders of the services I offer. Ebony Femdom Updates:…

This one’s for all the filthy good bois and gurls who love ass. Specifically smelling it, worshiping it, licking it, being under it. You get the idea. Now I have written about Ebony Femdom ass worship before, but I wanted to specifically hone in on the ass sniffing fetish. Because for some ass sniffing fetishists, scent play is a huge part of your ass worship. Because you love that anal aroma,…

Imagine leaving your house wearing a tshirt that reads: “MY DICK IS SO SMALL I WON A CONTEST FOR IT!”  And the looks of judgment, shame, amusement, disgust and horror coming from every woman you pass who reads the shirt. Congratulations darling, here’s your chance to be relevant in the food chain. The small penis contest is live in the assignment store. And that’s in addition to Ebony Femdom…

Happy Valentine’s Day from The Ebony Femdom. I grew up partially in an era without the technology we have today, back when people had to send snail mail, record mix tapes, and write love letters. At a time when if you wanted to order something, there was no online store, there were mail order catalogs with the option to use toll free numbers and wait 4-6 weeks for delivery. The world has sped up,…

Hello all you pretty gooners and happy Black History Month. Yes I’m talking to you. Really quick, I’ve got a brand spanking new audio for sale in the phone sex audios store titled: You’re So Pretty When You Goon For Duchess Willow. And it’s for all the gooners, goonettes, jerkoff junkies and pump drones. For your aural and visual stimulation. You’re going to want to stick around for the preview…

Are You A Cuckold Or Just A Closeted Cocksucker? Let’s say you are consumed with the topic of ebony cuckolding, if you will. You tingle in your nethers with the mere thought of watching your partners ecstasy.. just not with you. But, lately you’ve been getting into the more extreme side of cuckolding, which involves not just watching, but participating. You start to question your sexuality: Do I…

You read correctly. Chastity, as in the Ebony Femdom is your keyholder. Slut, as in submissive and willing test subject for Duchess Willow who likes to have fun being an object. The year is 2026 and Ebony Femdom Distance Domination is a discussion we need to have, right now.  Here’s my top ten reasons why you need to be my chastity slut this year. Ebony Femdom Girlfriend Ignore Sessions…

Ebony Big Titty Gooning Plapgasm is a concept some of you are already familiar with. And for the rest of you…. Imagine for a moment that you have no other purpose in life but to goon endlessly to my visuals and slap your balls with a dildo until you do something that resembles spooging yourself into a puddle. The gag is, you are locked in chastity while doing as described above, and your only…

Think of Ebony Femdom BNWO Himbo Forniphilia Training, as something akin to those etiquette classes where they make you walk with a book on your head to improve posture and grace. You will need both of those things to be able to sit, or kneel for long periods of time as a piece of white furniture for my cocktails and tea, or a charcuterie board. You’re going to need to look good and be in shape,…

Welcome to the 2025 Halloween blog train, and happy Monday the 13th.  If you’re just joining us and haven’t caught up yet, please head over to Mistress KayMarie’s blog and start there.  If you’re already caught up and just coming from Mistress Olivia’s blog train post, buckle up, and I hope you brought your swimsuit, things are about to get wet. I present to you: Nothing Beats A Jet Two Holiday:…

Let’s face it. If women held men to the same standards they hold women to, many of you would be pussy free. There’s a difference between serving hunky ken doll aesthetic, and looking like golum from lord of the rings in drag. Some of you are not going to make the cut even if you prayed to satan himself. However, caring for your appearance is just as important as pleasing a Femdom and following…

It’s hot, and I’m thinking about the spanking fetish. But first I want to tell you a funny story about what not to do if you encounter Duchess Willow in the wild of the virtual world. Guy reads my profile which clearly states I’m a Femdom, IM’s me, receives a “gift” and makes small talk, and then launches right into a “so what are we?” scenario. Sir…. I don’t date on virtual. But I do like…

First of all, Happy Pride Month Yall. And now for my Ebony Femdom Thoughts. You get out of it what you put into it. That goes for everything. That’s my answer for Distance Domination and life in general, if you want a quality experience use your words and state your business. Now that we got that out of the way I’d like to discuss my thoughts on sissies. Oh and… my birthday is at the end of the…

Happy Ebony Femdom Masturbation May and… May The Fourth Be With You. I’m a Star Wars nerd of sorts and I simply could not pass up an opportunity to honor the celebration of Star Wars Day and Masturbation Month. I do have quite a bit of ground to cover and I want to make sure you know about a couple of things. So let’s start with me being a guest on Whore School tonight, at 11pm Eastern with…

Welcome everyone, we made it! And by we I mean me. It’s time for spring renewal, and I be your guide, and Ebony Femdom easter bunny, as the April Mistress Of The Month. So let’s go over some ground rules and discuss the fun stuff, too. Ebony Femdom April Mistress Of The Month Let’s cut to the chase, you get 5 free minutes with me for the month of April, with a paid call of 10 minutes or more. …

A while back I wrote a blog post for The Daily Cock titled: Things You Can Do During An Ignore Line Session and in that blog one of my suggestions was handwriting assignments. I was very serious about that. So serious in fact that I gave one of my lily white subbie bois that task. Now he is a very good subbie boyfriend, but……. he struggles with certain things. So we’re going to have a little chat…