hannah

Reasons to let go: 1. If he doesn’t text back. Whether it be because he claim’s to be a horrible texter or is busy, he should get back to you whenever he gets the chance and not just leave you hanging. It doesn’t take too long to send a simple sentence or even a single word, and if he can’t do that then he doesn’t value you just as much you do him, and you deserve it all. 2. If he can’t keep his hands off of you everywhere, every moment. Personal boundaries are meant to be respected. If someone is all about their hands and not enough about other things such as their words, their thoughts, their secrets, their insecurities, their strengths, then you are more objectified than anything else. Remember, you should be wanted by more than just your body. 3. If he doesn’t respect your values. Don’t compromise your morals if he isn’t willing to do the same. If he is stubborn and threatens to leave you for not changing, let him walk away or do it yourself.  He doesn’t understand you and understanding is key in a relationship, and neither does he love you whole. 4. If he smirks more than he smiles. Smirking is linked to flirting whereas smiling is linked to truthful emotions, nothing disguised or portrayed as something else. It is a genuine sight that appears. If he smirks at you more than he smiles, he finds you hunger-fulfilling and once his hunger is satisfied, he will move on to his next prey. 5. If he rarely introduces you by your name and cuts straight to introducing you as his girlfriend. You are not just his girlfriend, you are also your own person. A person in love with you would want the world to know how much of an amazing person you are and wouldn’t hide you away. 6. If he corners you in an argument by trying to intimidate you. If he can’t talk to you in a collective manner and either starts self-pitying himself or blaming you for things he did himself or makes you feel like you are obliged to stay with him, then he is too unsteady and too unhealthy for your mind. Be with someone who makes you feel soft even when they’re raging, vice-versa. 7. If he turns cold randomly. If he is all friendly and nice one day and then completely shut off the next, you will do nothing for yourself except waste your time because he will never change. He is immature and loves playing games—don’t let him label you as his favorite toy. 8. If he is the reason why you’re reading this.

Don’t marry a man unless you would be proud to have a son exactly like him.

I need someone who will sit on a rooftop with me at 2 in the morning and will tell me their favorite songs and their family problems and how they think the earth was made