Everything kinkier than everything else

I get a lot of questions about my plugs… so, here’s the long-awaited butt plug post !!!!!!!! 

🌟Presenting a breakdown of some of my favorites with context and links. 🌟

Remember: the longer you plan to wear your plug, the softer it should be. I recommend a soft plug for any wear that is longer than 3 hours.

Squarepeg Egg in SuperSoft - This is the plug for longterm wear. It has the curved T-base that will fit snug between your cheeks and is very soft and squishy. The softness makes it flexible and easy to wear for long periods. It’s probably not the best plug to start with due to the higher price tag and the thicker neck. You’ll be stretched the whole time the plug is in - something I love and it helps make anal sex less painful. 

Fetish Zone “Ballistic Penetrator” - I don’t have this one, but I’ve seen it recommended a lot. Again, a nice T-base for long term wear. This plug is nice because you can choose your specs - size/base color/tip color/firmness. Again, if you’re looking for a long term plug, order SOFT. The base may chafe a little because of the round center. 

nJoy Pure Plug - A solid choice longterm choice if you want the weight of steel (something I’m quite fond of!). It has a tapered stem that won’t keep your sphincter stretched like the Egg. Favorite thing about this plug… you never forget its there. The weight simply doesn’t let you. 

Ergo Plug - Another option for longterm use as it is available in soft. 

Anal Trainer Kit - If you’re new to anal play, this is my FAVORITE training set. This set is not cute, but it’s practical. If you are prepping to be fucked in the butt, stretching will make the experience much more enjoyable and much less painful. The bases of these plugs are thick, forcing you to work your muscles continuously when they are inside you. This is super important if you’re training for a cock because there’s no tiny skinny bases for your butt to close up around when you’re being fucked. When I’m training, I do about an hour of stretching on the largest size each night before bed with 10 minutes of active fucking. 

Princess Plug Set - The classic feminine aesthetic cute plugs that are the perfect finishing touch for all of your nudes. These plugs have the weight and looks, but they are not a good choice for training or longterm wear. The skinny base allows your sphincter to relax which won’t help prep for fucking, and the round jewel can chafe if you’re trying to spend a whole day in the plug. 

Cleanstream Relax Desensitizing Lube - My go-to lube for all things anal. There are tons of options, but I love this one because it lowers the pain for me quite a bit and allows me to enjoy being fucked/plugged.

Some of the plugs I recommended are pricey, but if you take care of them properly… they’ll last forever. Think of your plugs as an investment in your sex life - they’ll make anal sex so much more enjoyable! 

Also, if you have plans for longterm wear, DO NOT GO CHEAP. You want to be able to focus on the fun discomfort of the plug, not on the painful chafing/the plug falling out in public - which WILL HAPPEN if you don’t get the right plug.