You know what I love? I love when people ask “what did I do” when you’re upset with them because they didn’t do something they said they would do
You DIDN’T DO ANYTHING and that’s the problem. Don’t say you’re going to do something and then not do it, it’s frustrating especially if the other person is looking forward to it.
Don’t say you’re gonna treat them for their birthday and then don’t.
Don’t say you’re gonna buy them something and then don’t.
Don’t say you’re gonna do ANYTHING for them and then don’t
Don’t
Don’t
Don’t
JUST. FUCKING. DON’T.
Being let down so many times just leads people to never believing you and living in a constant state of disappointment and eventually coming to never expect anything different. Do you know how that feels? To automatically expect to be disappointed every time something is supposed to happen.
It’s numbing to live like this, to constantly have “it’s better to be disappointed but not surprised than to be hoping and crush” playing on a loop day in and day out.
So just don’t. Please.














