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This was my second touchscreen (my first lasted 3 years but they’re so cheap I didn’t care too much)

But one year???? That’s insane

I ordered this one

Its out for delivery but Kevin is really pushing me to go back to Apple (my last mac broke in 2021ish but I wasn’t working at the time and didn’t want to drop so much $$$) and I think I’m going to do it

I can’t explain it but I didn’t like her energy AT ALL and having her around me for 4 hours made my skin crawl

She had a dark energy, I didn’t love her tone when correcting the kids, she seemed annoyed that Atlas wanted to walk around the house and she had to follow him, I could tell she was not going to be able to patiently deal with Sky’s ADHD, especially if I’m not around I can see this girl yelling.

It was supposed to be 5 hours but I couldn’t take it and I found an excuse to cut the day short.

She is 18 and Latina as well, and after she heard me chatting to my Mimi in Spanish she was like, “oh, are you like half or something??”

I'm so excited for this card! I "only" have to spend $4k in 3 months (I'm vvv responsible with my cards, I always pay them off or keep balance low because credit bureau doesn't want to see you with 0% all the time) and I get 75k airmiles

I currently have about 120k via AA and Kevin has another 100k via his business card but I hate being locked into AA and their partners (I've had my Citi Platinum card for 11 years and my Chase Sapphire for 2) so I am stoked about having the freedom to book via Capitol One's travel portal.

Even though there is a $395 yearly fee, all of the travel credits, yearly bonuses, etc that we will definitely use have it come out to $5/yr after the first year (which I only get charged $99 for the first year)

I also have access to the Capitol One airport lounge and that brings my anxiety down by a lot when it comes to international travel -- we can always have a place to chill with the kids if there's a delay or hours long waits between connections. I have never been in a lounge before so I'm excited AF!!

To @earianne who asked about what styles I go for to make me feel confident with Diastasis Recti ⬇️

• shirts length should go down to my C-section scar (NO more tanks with belly button showing / lower abdomen showing)

• cinch my waist with a belt or wear dresses that accentuate my waiste/hips

• high waisted shorts & pants 👍🏽

The following style 🚫 🚫 🚫

That type of fabric you see on the green pants? ILLEGAL ON THE MIDRIFF (I’m kidding do whatever you want but you asked ME and that’s my opinion 😬)

Edited to add: something like this would look AMAZING ⬇️

And then they blanche when I turn it around on them and ask,

"And what kind of life is it to get a job I don't want, to be able to make as much money as is required to afford a home in one of the most expensive cities in America / the world, be away from my children 40-60 hours per week, have them going to a school that doesn't fully meet their emotional and physical needs and have to ask permission to PISS for 14 years, while doing the same exact thing every fucking day and only knowing the same 30 kids for their entire youth????"

I would estimate 80% of these clothes were thrifted via Thred Up and it's the only reason why I have a FULL warm + cold weather wardrobe.

From SUPER cute 10-15$ dresses to an amazing Lucky Brand Teddy bear style, full length coat with tags that was $60 for NY winters

I also go to the Ross that is a 5-min walk from my building in Miami and I have snagged a few pieces for under $10 too

I've probably spent like $100ish on Amazon but it's really only when I cannot find what I want on ThredUp (I.e a canvas bag I wanted for my Toronto day trip, a very versatile summer top that was 50% off and so effing cute, etc).

I didn't invest in new clothes after Sky because I was so ashamed of my body and didn't want to buy new clothes + Covid lockdowns, so I wore tshirts and yoga pants e v e r y w h e r e for 3 years

The last 2 sitters I hired (and were amazing) are blonde and blue eyed

One of them (my top contender) is also blonde and blue eyed 😅😅😅

I’m so confused???? They just all happen to be the most bubbly and energetic looking and I need those qualities for Sky — my daughter NEEDS someone who can run and jump and keep up

I feel so bad but the subdued ones who are all shy and walking on eggshells… I cannot give my spunky 5yo someone like that to hang with lol she needs someone witty and athletic

so many emotions - I felt so bad for my Mimi to have to drop us off at the airport and be sad because we were only there 1 month

i know this is the right place to be though. all of sky's cousins came out to the street of our cul-de-sac to saw hi to sky because they were so excited that she's back - I wanted to cry

had my first nanny interview this AM and shes coming by for a trial day on Monday - she seems great!

signed sky up for gymnastics camp

signed Atlas up for swim lessons

taking kids to library in a bit when baby wakes up

taking sky to sign up for either art or music classes tomorrow

our apartment is getting booked up very nicely for July/Aug despite it being low season (thanks FIFA tourism, ily)

my mil let us sleep in until 9:30 and I love her SO MUCH

gotta reach out to my PMDD PhD acquaintance that goes to Columbia and pick her brain and figure out how I can volunteer for the PMDD group she runs

Kevin was already accepted by an NYU PhD student to run a meditation study completely on his own and he's so excited!! We are both pursuing higher degrees to become therapists; him a PhD and me a Masters in Social Work

This has been my best thrift haul to date on ThredUp. This dress is AMAZING and is $100+ on the website 🙌🏽

They had a GENIUS trick for the Covid / Strep test

The nurse asked Sky to blow her nose but not to wipe — so she blew her nose to get all the boogies down her nose, then he took the swab and was done in 3 seconds

We did two tests on her ourselves and she fucking RAGED against us — like soooo mad we did that to her so I was praying for the poor nurses soul but thank goodness he was amazing

Thank goodness she didn’t come in at the height of her illness so we haven’t seen her in 6 days

Watching videos of little Brazilian kids going OFF while Scottish dudes play their bagpipes (please forgive me if that’s not what they’re called, I am but a humble Cuban American) is so fucking cute 😩

My husband says the Scottish guys were so sad after they lost… he went in the pool for an evening swim and he said “there were a lot of beefy Scottish men walking around in kilts looking VERY sad” (our building is partly a hotel so always lots of tourists around)

We about to have a Scottish / Latin baby boom here 😂