अहिंसा

Ahhhhh it’s almost time for a reread of the series in preparation for October!!!

I don’t want that bastards money.

But… am I an idiot to throw away what could become tens of thousands of dollars for my kids in decades of accrued interest???

Money is money. I’m not voting for him or endorsing him in any way, but if it’s truly no strings attached free money… should I just take the money and at least be glad they get SOMETHING out of this horrendous Cheeto man’s existence????

I have the Acer in its box, ready to go back. I bought the Apple Mac Neo and I haven't had a Mac since like 2022 and I'm never going back - this is amazing

If you don't need memory for your computer to work for anything but emails, small tasks, and Netflix, definitely not worth the price tag

But the Acer was $650, the Neo is $699 + Kevin got it financed for 0% for 36 months by getting a BB card. Hell, yeah. Plus, aesthetically it's simply amazing and sensory wise the keypad is heaven.

These laptops are our livelihoods re: work and soon we're both going back to school and these are necessary purchases for us (Kevin has had his Mac Pro for 6 years and it works so he will use it to "run and upload" stuff but the new one will be his primary computer). Sky gets my 1.5 year old drunk Lenovo that glitches and goes sloth-level slow.

She’s only here through August because she goes to school in Nebraska but I’m going to Miami in September and I now have a lotta babysitters’ contact info so if I need help every so often, I’ll call one of them

But the girl I hired Is 100/10 the best and I felt comfortable with her, like I could speak without a huge filter because we understand eachother

She’s studying to be a special needs teacher and came over with a binder of lessons for Sky and I was so impressed. The interview was us taking the kids on a walk to DD and back, which I had never done a “walking interview” before but I think it was a good idea!! Less awkward than just observing them in your house lol

- signed Sky up for a hybrid soccer & baseball program 1/week and she’s excited 🥹

- 3 more nanny interviews today, I had 3 duds so far

- found out that my GPA from college is high enough to apply for my Masters in SW 🙌🏽 (graduated 2016, after 5 years of family & financial instability and my grades were not good in maths/sciences like Chem)

- I have a meeting with an academic advisor for my masters program today

- tough to find a gym with childcare, but I will persevere

- I’ve had a blank TikTok that I did not use for years, finally got the ⚽️🏀⚾️ to start posting just my unfiltered content re: motherhood, PMDD, body acceptance, etc and it feels good. I don’t care what comes of it, but it’s good for me to do it. I can feel it.

Had the most disappointing nanny interview today, good lord in heaven

Picking up Kevin @ the train and there’s a bakery across the street rated 4.9

Last time too many of the kids in her group were like feral animals that just created constant chaos

She went 2 days this week and will probably continue until end of summer & tomorrow I’ll take her to sign up for pottery / art classes

I tried to convince her to take BJJ but she is anti-any type of fighting apparently 😆

Going to see if she wants to add acting / singing classes OR soccer to her schedule

This was my second touchscreen (my first lasted 3 years but they’re so cheap I didn’t care too much)

But one year???? That’s insane

I ordered this one

Its out for delivery but Kevin is really pushing me to go back to Apple (my last mac broke in 2021ish but I wasn’t working at the time and didn’t want to drop so much $$$) and I think I’m going to do it

I can’t explain it but I didn’t like her energy AT ALL and having her around me for 4 hours made my skin crawl

She had a dark energy, I didn’t love her tone when correcting the kids, she seemed annoyed that Atlas wanted to walk around the house and she had to follow him, I could tell she was not going to be able to patiently deal with Sky’s ADHD, especially if I’m not around I can see this girl yelling.

It was supposed to be 5 hours but I couldn’t take it and I found an excuse to cut the day short.

She is 18 and Latina as well, and after she heard me chatting to my Mimi in Spanish she was like, “oh, are you like half or something??”

I'm so excited for this card! I "only" have to spend $4k in 3 months (I'm vvv responsible with my cards, I always pay them off or keep balance low because credit bureau doesn't want to see you with 0% all the time) and I get 75k airmiles

I currently have about 120k via AA and Kevin has another 100k via his business card but I hate being locked into AA and their partners (I've had my Citi Platinum card for 11 years and my Chase Sapphire for 2) so I am stoked about having the freedom to book via Capitol One's travel portal.

Even though there is a $395 yearly fee, all of the travel credits, yearly bonuses, etc that we will definitely use have it come out to $5/yr after the first year (which I only get charged $99 for the first year)

I also have access to the Capitol One airport lounge and that brings my anxiety down by a lot when it comes to international travel -- we can always have a place to chill with the kids if there's a delay or hours long waits between connections. I have never been in a lounge before so I'm excited AF!!

To @earianne who asked about what styles I go for to make me feel confident with Diastasis Recti ⬇️

• shirts length should go down to my C-section scar (NO more tanks with belly button showing / lower abdomen showing)

• cinch my waist with a belt or wear dresses that accentuate my waiste/hips

• high waisted shorts & pants 👍🏽

The following style 🚫 🚫 🚫

That type of fabric you see on the green pants? ILLEGAL ON THE MIDRIFF (I’m kidding do whatever you want but you asked ME and that’s my opinion 😬)

Edited to add: something like this would look AMAZING ⬇️

And then they blanche when I turn it around on them and ask,

"And what kind of life is it to get a job I don't want, to be able to make as much money as is required to afford a home in one of the most expensive cities in America / the world, be away from my children 40-60 hours per week, have them going to a school that doesn't fully meet their emotional and physical needs and have to ask permission to PISS for 14 years, while doing the same exact thing every fucking day and only knowing the same 30 kids for their entire youth????"