dicks and wieners

first time/views: lamia was lucky to have Charming Co-worker as her first sex partner. CC is not only experienced, but most of all very compassionate and understanding. so it wasn’t exactly flawless haha but it was absolutely lovely and definitely shaped what lamia thinks sex is and should be - it has to be consensual, it’s important to be comfortable with the person/people you’re with, and stupid accidents happen so even though lamia is not what i’d call a playful person she will actually laugh at them instead of feeling embarrassed. sex is supposed to be a fun experience, and not an exam when someone’s testing how good you are - it’s not about showing-off, it’s about making the other person feel good.

self-consciousness: lamia is generally very self-conscious about her body (why do i have a body of a 12 year old boy), but it’s not crippling. she tries to overcome it by being rational (thinking 'they know what i look like, and if they didn't like it we wouldn't be having sex, so no sweat') and her doubts are easily lifted as soon as someone shows they appreciate her body - so she likes constant reassurance, although she could do without. she thinks (knows?) she’s not exactly the prettiest flower, and so she is usually very performance oriented when having sex with someone she genuinely likes (she’s the giver, enjoys catering to their needs, is communicative about what they like/would wanna try)

when it comes to one-night stands with random people, however, she’s more nervous than when she’s with a regular partner. it’s also when she’s more selfish and dominant, because she’s not looking for a friend or to please them, but to get off - so they will do what she wants, or they will part ways. she doesn’t know them, she doesn’t care about them, why should she put their needs above her own?

she also approaches each of her regular sex partners differently; she’s comfortable around sontaire even though she finds her a bit intimidating - sontaire’s a sophisticated and beautiful lady, and lamia admires it, so she wants to be on her best behavior and impress her. she approaches sex with dakog probably in the most casual way and doesn’t care or worry about saying/doing something stupid and making a fool of herself - but that’s probs because they like drinking together first. when with bodran she’s simply excited, never nervous (unless they have to talk about her feelings, gross!). she likes being paid attention to, and she’s not at all doubtful around him; she’s also most genuinely herself, as she seldom feels the need to pretend she’s something she’s not - which means she’s a fucking brat and a crybaby. and she’s okay with that, which is incredibly important for her - he sees her at her weakest yet she doesn’t self-loathe about not being able to compose herself or making a good impression of a strong woman.

lamia and aran are both vain and shallow so i assume that they would rather have their partner be immaculate and perfect (and make them breakfast the next day); but tbh i don’t think they would ditch anyone just because of their skin imperfections? i guess it depends on how horny they are lol but i think lamia would be more ‘tolerant’ about it than aran, because - when it comes to one-night stands - she doesn’t care for anything more than genitals;

as for pubic hair: both like when their partners have pubes to nuzzle haha but in the end neither is picky; they would rather have their partner be ok with their pubes (or lack thereof) than pressure them into any changes by inflicting their own opinion.

um and body hair on women doesn’t really bother lamia? (i’m answering this for her only since aran clearly doesn’t have any preference concerning ladies) i mean its as normal as, idk, having knees, she doesn’t have any strong feelings towards it. she herself has very dark hair, just not a lot of it so they’re not that noticable. you can maybe see it on more detailed paintings, i always draw it, but like i said, it’s not that visible (esp. not when my drawings are so small and a lot of details go unnoticed haha).