get to know tristan tramp :
Growing up, life wasn’t easy in the Tramp house. His mother had left about a month after tristan had been born and while one could argue his father tried to be around the truth was he just simply wasn't. Working two jobs and spending nearly all of his free time drinking didn’t exactly give him many opportunities to really be there for a kid.
Tristan was mostly raised by the woman who lived next door to the Tramps in their trailer park. Or at least she was the one who ensured he was fed most days and when she had time she always stopped to talk with him. It wasn’t really much in the scheme or actual parenting - but it was what he had and he’s always been thankful for her.
He was fifteen when he met Buster and after a few months of running with him, Tristan had pretty much fully moved out of his father’s place and into Buster’s small apartment. He’d stopped going to school by then but didn’t officially drop out until his sixteenth birthday when he legally could withdraw himself. It hadn’t been hard to convince his father to sign the papers.
He was only working the illegal side of the junkyard operations at this time. He was also dealing drugs - none of the hard stuff, but still ya know not legal.
Met Lilah when he was 18 at some random houseparty. He’d only really been there to sell some weed to all the high schoolers - but it had been free beer and food, so he’d stuck around longer than really needed. The moment he laid eyes on her, he’d been drawn in and by some miracle she seemed to feel the same. They started hanging out a bit and eventually dating that summer. And it was the best thing to ever happen to Tristan as far as he was concerned. Sure they fought sometimes, but what couple didn’t? He loved Lilah more than anything and he was going to do what he had to to keep her.
So when she told him she was pregnant, while the thought of being a father absolutely terrified him, he was ecstatic nonetheless. He had no clue that Lilah had been considering ending things with him before she found out about the pregnancy and continued to believe that things were perfectly fine between them. As far as he was aware they were madly in love.
He wanted to propose to her as soon as she told him the news - but he knows Lilah. He knew she wouldn’t want that, would feel like he was only doing it because it was what was expected. And he knew she’d say yes for the same exact reason and not necessarily because she actually wanted to marry him. So he waited. Though he did get the ring for her then. Can’t say he bought it though…
He started officially working the legal side of the junkyard around this time. He wasn’t the best with actual car work so he stuck to helping manage the books. It wasn’t a job he was really qualified for, considering he didn’t even have a high school diploma - but his connection to Buster and his past work on the other side of their business gave him an in. He told Lilah that he was fully done with all the illegal stuff, that he was turning over completely for her and the baby. But that wasn’t true. For three years he kept working both sides of the junkyard, continuously lying to Lilah.
Samuel and Danielle were born when he was 19 and he adored the fuck out of them. He had no clue what to do with babies and had never been a fan of them before, but it was different when the kids were his own. He had moved in with the Deares halfway through Lilah’s pregnancy to be around to help. Darlene had really been the one to help him prepare for fatherhood the most - giving him all of her old (and outdated) books on babies and parenting (not that he took any of what it said to use lbr).
When Lilah graduated high school, it was decided that they should get their own place. And as much as it hurt his pride, Tristan knew he couldn’t support her and the babies on his own. So the Deares helped. They paid for the rent of their little apartment across from Echo Isle University. As far as Tristan had been aware that was all that they did for them financially. The rent was covered by Lilah’s parents and everything else was on the two of them. But that wasn’t true. Lilah had made a deal with them, agreeing to focus purely on the babies and her studies while her parents gave her monthly “loans” to help with all the other expenses that came with starting a family and living on her own. They knew she’d be spreading herself too thin if she got a job of her own as well and they convinced her of the same. Lilah never told Tristan though, knowing that being able to provide for his family himself meant so much to him.
Even still, things weren’t the easiest. Money was tight and Tristan needed some other form of income. That was how he found himself joining what would eventually become the Black Locustes. It wasn’t under Hopper’s control yet but soon switched over shortly after Tramp joined. Honestly, Tramp had no clue at the time that Lilah even knew Hopper and wouldn’t find out until the night of the raid when she showed up at his door.
Tristan’s main job for the illegal side of the junkyard was to go out and steal the stuff they sell. Buster handled the actual selling of the items while Tristan did the collecting. It was one day that he was targeting quite a big ticketed item when he was caught and arrested, his lies being exposed to Lilah finally. It wasn’t the biggest crime to be caught for but it was enough to make it clear to Lilah that he’d been lying to her for years. Which upset her in ways he hadn’t ever thought. And she broke up with him. He was 21 when this happened.
Surprisingly, despite their daughter being the one to end things and his clear issues that had caused that ending - the Deares took Tristan’s side. So much so that they let him move back in with them until he found his footings again. Darlene in particular was a big advocator for Tristan, helping him find a new job as a helper at some of the bigger charities that she runs around the isle. She also was the one to convince him to get his GED and helped him with that.
During this time Tristan cut ties completely with Buster and the junkyard - but leaving the mafia wasn’t as easy. Thankfully Lilah and the Deares had no clue about his involvement in that. He continued working for whoever ran it before Hopper and then reluctantly for Hopper himself once he took over.
Lilah and Tristan were broken up for about a year and a half when she showed up crying at his apartment door. They hadn’t really seen or spoken to each other outside of what was necessary for the kids, but that night Lilah opened up about everything. How she’d essentially been dating Colin and what had happened at his house. Tristan was angry at first - how his illegal deeds had been the end of their relationship just for her to jump to another guy who was ten times more dangerous and immoral than him as far as Tristan was concerned. Normally Lilah would fight him on all that but well, she was too scared and broken that night. So what would have been a blow up between the two had just been a minor disagreement that eventually turned into Lilah somewhat agreeing with Tristan.
It wasn’t until lilah found out she was pregnant that she fully took Tristan’s side and believed him. Despite being terrified that night, she had planned to confront Colin and get more concrete answers before deciding if she were going to end things or continue seeing him. But with a baby in the mix… oh that changed things.
Honestly if she hadn’t returned to Tristan’s to tell him the news, she likely would have stayed with Colin and told him everything. But she was scared and in that fear she went to Tristan first. And well Tristan already knew all the truth about how dangerous Hopper was and no way was he going to let Lilah go back to that without putting up one hell of a fight, both for her general safety and simply because he wanted her back. And this was an opportunity to do that. The decision to claim the baby as his own was an easy one to make. Sure it fucking sucked to know that Lilah technically was having someone else’s baby - but he knew damn well how little blood meant when it came to being a parent. He could be there for the kid regardless of its actual paternity. Convincing Lilah to go along with the idea hadn’t been as hard as he expected - it wasn’t easy by any means but he had expected it to be far more of a challenge. The only downside was she didn’t want to actually get back together with him - but Tristan saw that as only a minor setback. After a few months of pretending and being back together as a family, he knew she’d likely fold. And she did. Halfway through the pregnancy, Tristan asked for a true second change and she agreed.
It was three months after Lilah left Hopper that Tristan went to him. He wasn’t sure what exactly he had been expecting by telling him that she was pregnant. In truth he had gone to try to get more work within the mafia or to change what he was doing, put him out of harms way but keep the pay going. What he hadn’t expected at all was to be given an out. To be released from the Black Locustes. It wasn’t fully what he wants but Tristan would have been a complete moron to turn it down - so he turned away from the mafia without a second glance back.
Annette Tramp was born when Tristan was 22. It was at this time as well that Tristan got a new job, he was starting as a security guard at oogie boogie’s. It wasn’t the best gig in the world but it paid better than anything he’d done before. And for once Tristan was fully out of the shady side of life. At least for awhile.
When lilah graduated college, Tristan got down on one knee and proposed with the ring he had stolen for lilah so many years ago. It was at her graduation party with everyone around and Tristan had been too wrapped up in his own joy and the happiness of all their friends and family, that he didn’t even notice the clear hesitation and inner turmoil in lilah. She said yes and that was all he remembered about that night.
the wedding was planned fast and they were married before Lilah started law school. They also moved out of their old apartment and into what would be their family home for the next years - funded once again primarily by the Deares. Though Tristan insisted on paying at least a portion of the mortgage this time. Which is how he slipped into the world of Oogie Boogie’s. He went from just a security guard to becoming one of the debt collectors for those that owed the casino more than they could afford to pay back. It was messy and he knew he shouldn’t be doing it - but well it paid even better than if he just stuck to the legal side of things. And honestly, for all he claimed to be a changed man, Tristan didn’t really know what to do with his life being so clean cut.
He started as just a debt collector but over the years has moved his way up. He still works security and does indeed do debt collecting but he’s one of Oogie’s most trusted men currently.
Over the years he was happy. And he thought the rest of his family was too. He had no clue of any of the turmoil that Lilah went through at times. When she first thought of divorcing him, he was completely unaware. And then well, she was pregnant and he continued to remain in the dark of her unhappiness.
Colette Tramp was born when he was 30. Things were perfect and there wasn’t anything he’d change about his life.
Until six years later when Lilah starts to mention that she’s in the running to become partner. And Tristan wasn’t really a fan of that idea. He loved her and wanted her to succeed but that felt like it was going to be too much. He argued that her work already took up so much of her time and doing this would only make it worse, it wouldn’t be good for the family. Which he stands by to this day as being true - but well there was also another reason that he didn’t even fully realize he was thinking. Lilah was already so much more stable and successful than him - for her to keep growing would make him feel like he was falling behind.
That was uhhmm rough to say the least. Their fighting ramped up stronger than ever before and they went to couples therapy for a few years before Lilah decided they needed to try a separation. So Tristan moved out for a bit, staying with Oogie. It wasn’t going to last long. Or at least, that’s what he thought. Until the separation turned into the decision to full blown divorce. It was rough and Tristan tried to fight it - but it was decided in the end. At 40 he was officially a divorced man.
He got an apartment of his own, only two bedrooms - one for himself and another for Colette for when it was his weeks for her to stay with. He still works at Oogie Boogie’s and the divorce was what really got him falling harder into the gambling world.
He’s always struggled with his drinking. But lilah had always been around to clean him up and cover for him. Since the divorce he’s turned into a full blown alcoholic. He’s also started personally gambling himself - he’d argue he doesn’t have a problem with either though. So far he doesn’t owe Oogie a single thing so at least there’s that.
Loves his kids but ooohhh boy is he not a good father. He argues that he tried his best but …. did he??? It’s up for debate.
Lilah is the love of his fucking life and he is far from done fighting for her. Which usually doesn’t go well. But he’s not giving up.

















