For Trans and NB People Designated Male at Birth (Currently inac

Hey all, Mod Drew here. It’s been some time since i’ve posted anything here, answered any questions, or really given any sort of indication that this blog is still active. And as terrible as it is to be the bearer of bad news, i’m afraid that as of right now, this blog will be inactive. I’m going to be leaving the blog for a lot of reasons, the biggest being that my health has gotten in the way of being helpful. And maybe at some point some other mods will get to the questions that have been sitting in the inbox, and things will pick up again. But as of right now, this blog is inactive, and i’m not sure when it will be back up. I’m sorry that i couldn’t be a better mod here, and I wish the best to all of the other mod.

Sincerely,

Well, first off, going through these feelings is something a lot of trans people go through (although not all, and that’s okay!). It is okay to have these feelings. A common misconception is that in order to really be trans, you have to go through tons of operations and changes, and while change comes with transitioning, not every trans person chooses to do that. Your transition is entirely what is comfortable for YOU, and if you have a fear of operations, then don’t have to do that.  Sometimes, operations are necessary depending on how you want to transition, but you can do research as well and there are many open minded doctors who can help you to find a path that suits your needs.

I think it would be a great thing to do! If you could maybe show us your tutorials or give some links, or really just talk to us on about it, it would be a great resource. Some trans folk, especially dmab mtf people, have trouble when it comes to hair, and it would be wonderful if you could do that. 

Hmm, i’m not really sure how to answer this one. My best recommendation is that the sales people probably will know what you’re looking for, at least if you’re in the market for something for feminine looking. This is kind of confusing to me, i’m sorry if I sound like i’m not understanding

(2/2) about bc I didn't want to trouble the dmab women about it since they had zero power to erase anybody due to transmisogyny, but it also felt wrong to ask dfab nb people who did experience misogyny for similar reasons. But I also never felt "trans enough" to talk to trans men and never felt "nb enough" to talk to nb dfab non-women. So yeah I think it would be helpful to remind dmab people that your birth assignment does not affect HOW you can be nb.

This is very good and informative, and I think it speaks for itself. Your birth assignment does not affect how you can be NB, so even if you were dmab, you can still id as female aligned, etc.