Go forth, Martyr

the "pedophile" as an image in most usamerican's head is just as constructed as anything else. It's always people lurking and luring kids online and, not, like, your relatives or private boarding school teachers or your youth group pastors. It's an extension of suburban paranoia of the Other that simultaneously closes rank within racial and class lines (even while shielding those accused of the crimes being talked about if they're of the "right" background). It's a confluence of anti-feminist satanic panic, end of history at the end of the cold war bringing the paranoia inwards, and a group of people so inundated with their alienated suburban protestant upbringing that they don't see other people if they see those different than them: they see criminals, and worse and worse attributes to slap onto the said criminals. It's a sickness of the culture.

it's always "kill all pedophiles" to mean "brutalize those we have social position to brutalize" and not, like, "let's seriously examine what social forces allow children to get victimized." Stepping out of even the suburbs, the number one pedophile organization is US military abroad. It's no wonder that the HOA-PTA thought upholders that hate both foreigners bringing this up AND examination of mechanisms of abuse love using racialized people of the usa as a rhetorical device; these yanks barely know, let alone interact with, racialized people!

someone sent me a gooseworx callout doc and it's about what you'd expect for a transfem on the internet lmao

when transfems do something problematic for some reason the correct response is to go fucking nuclear and beg them to disappear off the internet. when their colleagues are problematic for some reason this reflects badly on the transfem, but not on you know, their colleagues. forgive me when i don't take controversies surrounding transfems super seriously i've seen this song and dance on repeat since at least 2024

and this is me thinking there's some stuff you could rightfully criticize gooseworx for, but i fucking can't because i don't want to contribute to an environment where people want transfems to disappear off the internet

the callout doc includes her association with oneyplays (transmisogynist who flies under the radar a lot) but when i mentioned oneyplays the sender didn't know who it was

hey. I will never, ever, believe or engage with callout posts. don't send them to me, I will not read them. if you put them in my ask box I will delete them. if you reply them to my posts I will block you. I refuse to be weaponized just cause you have a hateboner for somebody, I don't care how justified you think it is. I wouldn't care even if you had evidence of a murder, because I am not a cop. I will *not* help you ostracize anyone or hurt anyone's rep. so don't try to make me, and don't get upset at me for not letting you. end of story.

Gf thinks I’m weak

my shrine maiden things im weak plus cause she hits me w rocks but i dont know if thats the same or different as a gf because i havent had one could be nice

^v^

can u stop doin that w yr mouth

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it's legitimately crazy how much racism, transmisogyny, ableism, fatphobia, homophobia, sexism etc people will just totally ignore or skip over in any other context vs when a trans woman has a flawed creative project

Get out of my notes saying shit like “nuh uh cause male privilege is strictly limited to white cishet wealthy ablebodied business majors with AB negative blood type—“ that is NOT WHAT MALE PRIVILEGE MEANS. You know good and goddamn well that it’s not just the men at the very top who have male privilege. You know that ALL MEN are afforded a degree of privilege over women on the axis of gender. “Privilege” isn’t a dirty word, it’s a fucking tool in your belt you can use to protect your TMA sisters. But some of you are far more interested in bleating about how you Actually Have It Worse For Being A Man. Shut completely up. Go to bat for trans women or die I’m sick of it

Trying to attend anything in public just has me butting against the fact that being tma sucks. Yeah, that hema thing looks cool, how do they feel about trans women? Yeah, the trivia at the lesbian bar looks cool, so like their thoughts on trans women? Oh, that lesbian rave looks awesome, so about the trans women? Just, fundamentally unsure if I will even be allowed to exist in this space, and if I am will I be interacted with? Will I be the pariah desperate for attention but relegated to standing awkwardly in the corner or alone at the bar?

very frustrating the way tme people assume "non passing trans woman" necessarily means "looks indistinguishable from cis men"

"misandrists would see non passing trans women as men" ignoring for a second that some clocky trans women hate men and for good reason, i dont actually think most people see a woman with noticeable tits, broad shoulders, full make-up, a deep voice, etc as a man. they might call her one specifically to hurt her, but they dont treat her like one. that kind of non passing trans woman gets ignored in that kind of discourse.

every time a streamer says gooner it takes years off my life

it's like. people started to realize maybe they shouldn't say shit like degenerate or porn addict and decided they were gonna use a new word to mean the exact same thing but dressed up as a funny meme this time

um mostly for the bit though, if anyone was getting sexual gratification out of it that was incidental

not really sure about the "communities" thing either, I'm not in a club or anything. sort of a solo passion project if anything

I wouldn't say "previously" is necessarily apt either. sorry I'm poking a lot of holes in your ask I just like to be accurate.