trigger happy

you’d think there’d be room to talk about how trans men are still men while acknowledging that our lived experiences differ from cis men, but it seems like most folks have three settings: trans men aren’t men, trans men are men-lite (i.e., allowing trans men in women’s spaces while excluding trans women, “smol soft beans uwu”), or trans men are men so they have the exact same experiences and privileges as cis men

Every time I mention my experience with female specific oppression “BuT I ThoUGHt yOu WeRe a mAn”

alright so who wants to fall in love with me

this is unbelievable I have to do everything myself

*tells you the name of god* *you forget* *tells you again* *you forget again* *tells you as many times as many times as you need to hear it* *i will tell you everything you need to hear as many times as you need to hear it* *i will love you for as long as you need to be loved*