I've been putting off making this post in the hopes someone else would do it, because I know it's going to make my notifications an absolute nightmare for weeks. But at the end of the day no one is making what I feel like is the single most important point about all this, so I guess that falls on me.
Anyway. The awful wizard books. You know the ones. At this point I think anyone actively spending money on Harry Potter IP is, at best, a transphobic enabler and can probably be written off as a lost cause when it comes to doing the right thing. To put it lightly. But people want there to be wiggle room when it comes to things like buying the books used, or writing fanfic, or cosplaying the characters, and other people want to call them losers for ever being invested and generally preen about being better people because of their own personal taste in books instead of actually doing anything for trans folks, and frankly I'm tired of this whole conversation, but I'm especially tired of no one bringing up what, to me, is the whole problem, so.
Places my hands gently on the side of your head, if you are someone still engaging with the fandom. Yes, you. Look. I'm genuinely sorry this happened to a thing you liked. I'm a trans person, and I actually really enjoyed Harry Potter as a kid, too. My dad and I had a mini book club working through the series. He took me and one of my best friends to pick up the final book at midnight. She's trans now too, btw. The friend, not my dad. Anyway. It sucks. And I think people who pretend it doesn't suck or who act like every child (because most of us read the books as, you know, kids, who knew a lot less about the world) who didn't pick up on this or that in the series when they were 12 years old was a budding proto-fascist or whatever is doing more harm than good. So again, I'm genuinely sorry. But you still gotta stop. And it's not because Joanne Rowling gains, like, evil xp every time someone says the name of a Hogwarts House.
It's because you're triggering people.
That's really all it comes down to. At this point there's a firm enough association that Harry Potter = transphobia that even if you're the kindest sweetest person in the world who donates to trans charities and wears a Pride pin on your lanyard and does your best to be a good ally in every other part of your life, if you're engaging in Harry Potter fandom anywhere openly -- like on Ao3, or at conventions, or here on tumblr -- you are still unfortunately triggering people.
Trans people deserve a place in fandom, too. I hope you can agree with me on that. We deserve to go to conventions, and use fanfiction sites, and participate in fic exchanges and challenges, and to do all the same fannish things you enjoy. And we deserve to do so without navigating the minefield of being reminded that one of the most powerful women in the world wants us all to die, and is actively using her money in the service of that. So it's really, genuinely hard to go to conventions and see people in Harry Potter cosplay, and it's hard to see Harry Potter ships placing high in the (recent!) Ao3 rankings, and it's hard to see Harry Potter fic being included in exchanges we participate in. Even if the people involved aren't giving Rowling a cent, even if you disagree with her vehemently on everything that matters. It's still a reminder that our lives are quite literally on the line, and it's exhausting.
That's why people need to let go of her stuff. There are a lot of (cis) people on their moral high horse about having already done so and I'm going to be honest, I think it's actually making things worse, because turning it into a moral purity contest about liking or not liking the right things shouldn't ever have been the point. The point is -- do you want to hurt people, or do you want to be kind? Continuing to engage with the books, movies, and impending TV series -- even in relatively segregated corners of fandom, even with tags and filters, even with disclaimers that you disagree with the creator -- is going to hurt people. Letting go of it, even if it's hard for you, maybe especially if it's hard for you, is kind.
Can you do that? Can you promise me you really do want people like me to feel safe and comfortable in fandom spaces too? Can you do what you can to make us feel safe?
Anyway. That's my piece. I hope it makes some things clearer for some people. I know it won't for everyone. But it's been bothering me a lot that no one seems to be talking about what the point of all this is, which is not having perfect taste in books, or moral purity, or even about hating Rowling. It's thinking about how this actually affects those of us who don't have the luxury of separating a bigot's fiction from her politics, and about loving trans people more than you love a book series -- or for that matter, more than you hate transphobes.