DeviantDM

soft and gentle and incredibly cruel 🌸

Surely they would have no way of bringing down their ire

Why don't you fly away, little bird ?

“Use your words”

“Good girl”

“Come here…”

“That’s my pretty girl”

“Don’t get shy now”

“I won’t ask again”

“Get on your knees”

“Don’t move, darling”

“Just like that”

“Faster baby”

“You’re mine”

“That’s my girl”

“Say please”

absolutely! honestly so much of what i’ve learned about myself and this kink and bdsm are from @deviantdms

there’s sooo much that goes into tickling that i’ve learned from him… the temperature of the room, how turned on the lee is, and my favorite, the psychological aspect of it all—just to name a few.

i’ve also learned so much about bdsm. safety, standards, RACK, bondage testing, etc.

there are also things i’ve learned more through our experiences than through our conversations! i’ll notice certain things he does before, during, and after we play like testing knots, offering me water, repeating safe words, and reading body language.

i love learning new things from and with him, especially when they make for a better session!

…it made me feel things.

For the record: the learning goes both ways. every good lee teaches their ler something — about patience, about reading a room, about when to push and when to just… wait. They've taught me more than they probably realize.

There's a version of this dynamic that stays surface-level. Transactional. Fun, maybe, but ultimately shallow. And then there's what happens when both people let themselves be open, genuine, and willing to be known.

When that happens, you don't just play together — you leave pieces of yourself with each other. I'm proud of what we built together.

Did you really think you could hide behind your phone screen for so long? Hiding your every perfect little smile, every quiet muffled giggle? Keeping it all for yourself? 

Not sharing any of that with me?

Well that is about to change and don't act all suprised, you knew this will happen eventually~

I will take such a great care of you my new toy, we will have so much fun together, well mostly me but who cares when your mouth is stuffed and closed with a nice shining piece of silver tape, your body wrapped around in your favorite blanket to keep you All warm and cozy, and of course all of those leather belts I could find around your place to keep you all secure and helpless, so there aren't any dumb ideas floating to your head~

You didn't think about escaping hm sweetheart?~

I really hope you didn't, cos right now I just want to gently pull those socks off your perfect little soles, every revealed inch making the whole situation really sink into your brain as you try to wiggle and trash, scream and beg for anyone to help you but it's just you and me, your soft bare soles and every mean tool you told me you hated~

But I want to start slow.

Real slow.

I don't want my toy to break too easily, I want to take my sweet sweet time with you. Watching your reactions as you try so hard to surpass that adorable laugh when I slide my fingers up your soles, as your pupils go so small and scared as you see me pull a grooming glove over my hand.

I bet you would love to trash your head a bit from left to right as soon as you feel every little bristle slide over your helpless skin but all you can do is cry, as your vision gets all blurry, your eyes rolling into back of your head from pure agony as your mind is slowly shattering into million pieces. 

You scream and scream inside but I can't hear anything other than pathetic muffled noises of a pup who misbehaved, nowhere to run, nowhere to hide your giggles and smiles now.

I've mentioned this a number of times and there's been some mild curiosity about it. I've also received some really good feedback from session partners about it... so, I'm deciding to share a template of my boundary document.

Lil background: I created this before I attended my first event. I have anxiety along with general nerves... and the first thing that checks out is my memory. I also get flustered easily when talking about tickling and while some view that as endearing 🙈, stumbling over words while discussing boundaries is less than ideal. Negotiations are essential and critical for ✨everyone's safety✨.

So, I did some research and some journaling and figured out exactly what my boundaries were and the kind of session I wanted to have. My goal was to make this document clear and to the point... something I could easily read off my phone. Which yes, this is how sessions always start with me. 😅 This version is something I made for a friend who wanted to share it with others in their local scene.

Note: I'm fairly new to the community and this isn't me positioning myself as an expert. This is simply a resource for anyone who could benefit from it. And it can just be a starting point too... my actual doc is an ugly bulleted list. 🤭

I do hope some of you find it helpful! 😸💜

PS- it's a capybara 😹

'do what hmm?'

watch her blush. breathing heavy. watch her squirm. watch her fighting as she cannot say the t-word herself.

'what do you want me to do hmm?'

'please..'

'you want me to tickle your feet?'

watch her nod in embarrassment. watch her sigh in relief when you finally touch her soft soles. when she finally gives up on hiding how much she secretly loves this. watch her cum.