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💘Welcome to the first in The future spouse series💘

If you want to calculate your vedic chart and d9/Navamsa chart, go to farfaraway.com. generate both charts from there.-> go to my vedic astrology master list and find out how to read north indian vedic chart if you want to know about your future spouse traits.

I believe the following vedic ones to be the most apt and are always accurate. Try to find patterns across both systems.

This is made for first spouse. Read accordingly for other partners if you want. 2nd house is 2nd spouse, 9th house is for 3rd spouse. Same for UL take 8th house from first UL for second spouse.

All knowledge and understanding of @notanastrologer.

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This post describes how the relationship is when it’s just you guys. The dynamic. What it will be like..🌺

Donot reword, plagiarize, translate or use this post at all.

Check sign/Planets in 8th house of sidereal/vedic and sign of 8th ruler.

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Aries/Mars

The relationship is going to be fun and playful for you both. There’s going to be a lot of teasing and playful banters involved too. May fight often or have conflicting opinions too. Both of you maybe be particularly fussy of your own opinions and hence arguments are very likely. However this can lead to make up sex later on. Either of you may even just do or say the exact opposite of what other is saying just to instigate them or tease them. I see a lot of running around after each other, sarcastic comments, in playful hitting, tickle fights, pranks, taking many adventures together, playing video games, ego clashes when both of you are not speaking to each other and would expect the other to come to them, (sun is exalted in Aries). Funny thing is directness is appreciated but won’t bow first. Protective over each other, supportive, possessive, gets confidence from each other. Aggressive kissing, unexpected kisses. Tugging one hand around other’s arm in public or pull them closer. Sexual tension will be high, bunnies. laughing between the s🔥x. Wrapping around each other, legs over legs. Difficult to keep hands off each other. Acting sexy when other is working to entice. Shoving against the wall. Neck kisses. Shower sex. Water fights. Standing on the balcony in duvets looking over the sunset. Clingy, always touching each other, mocking each other, making weird faces at each other. There maybe power struggle, finding a balance for both is important. Physical touch is very significant here. Butt grabbing, picking other up and getting it on on the kitchen counter. Playful dynamic overall.

Taurus/Venus

Relationship is likely to be calm and consistent. Silence doesn’t feel awkward kind. I see a lot of chilling happening at home, wine bottles, slow dancing, playing games. Cooking together, indulging in own work at home without any hard feelings of not getting attention from other, calm and indie music playing in the background. Cigarettes on the balcony. Often dine out at favorite restaurants in sweats. Dresses up to eat at fancy places too. Confidant of each other. Giving each other advices or helping them out. Though stubborn, conflicts from both sides, won’t be too loud but will stick to own ground. Meeting in the kitchen, after a day or two of fighting and not talking, cuz you guys were hungry and end up eating the Nutella jar together later or ordering something in. Bringing in sweets, chocolates and pastries or any food item to make up after one is upset. Enthusiastic foodies. Kind to tell other to make the morning coffee, or to open the door. Junk food eating together is going to be a thing. Acts of service, receiving and giving gifts. Strong trust between two. Talking about work stress and finding solutions together, looking at house furnitures guides and catalogues often between work and sending each other images when not together even though you don’t really need it. Use of food in sex. Unexpected sexual urges. Suprising each other with enticing gifts. Satin dresses, handcuffs. Chocolate syrup, strawberries. One second you be cooking and next something else is cooking. Back hugs. Can get too vanilla at times, mundane lives as well, so try to keep fire alive. Chill dynamic overall.

Gemini/Mercury

Again very childlike and fun. Though major emphasis is on communication, you guys will talk a lot, figure out solutions together, communicate and bounce off ideas of each other. Make each other laugh a lot. I see literally lying on bed whole day and laughing and just talking about literally anything. Sarcasm and inside jokes. Best friend turned lovers. Experimental with sex, although either one may have a nervous energy surrounding it. Discussing conspiracy theories late at night and finding truths. And random rush of need to watch documentaries late at night. Waking up the other cuz your mind be buzzing and other one doesn’t mind but actually indulge with you. Drinking coffee together late at night. Reading books, silent rooms. A lot of hand holding and two crazy people playing with shopping carts in the store. Banters, laughter and at random things, and wit, conflicts can be childlike with sarcasm and mocking tones. Can be irritated with each other, and not talk for a day and then curl up in the blanket together at night cuz you missed them. Conflicts can be something which can also bring ego and pride for both and hurt emotions caused by each other’s words, that’s something to be worked upon. Words of affirmation, physical touch. Helping each other learn the value of communication and clarity. Best friends dynamic.

Cancer/Moon

Nurturing towards each other. Either one stresses out other one would immediately start thinking of ways to make them less stressed. Cooking for the other. Sometimes together. Covers the other with a blanket. Carrying to the bed when one fall asleep on the couch. Watching romcoms together. Talking to each other about each other’s families, helping each other with family stuff, visiting each other’s home town, offering to take each other families to doctor’s appointment or any other kind, organizing family dinners often. Slow dancing with one’s head on other’s chest. Soft kisses leading to intense eye stares and then shifting it to the bedroom 🔥. Starting off slow and sensual then it gets real passionate. Fireplaces. Cuddles later, playing with each other’s hair. Forehead kisses. Scolding each other for slightest of dangerous stunt other might pull. Words of affirmation, quality time and gift giving/recieving. Needy and clingy with each other, tugging on each other’s sweaters. Conflicts can get emotional too soon, easy crying, both can actually end up crying, hurt emotions, that’s something to be balanced. Feeling lack of affection. Healing own childhood trauma with partner. Caressing, feeling comfort and safe and secure and finally at home with partner. Feeling most happy in each other’s company, smiling at other at end of long day. Long hugs. Each other’s home feeling/dynamic.

Leo/sun

This is going to involve romantic gestures, date nights. Protective over each other, supporting each other. Taking stands for the other even at slightest of offensive comment from external source. Controlling at times. Date nights even after 50 years of marriage. Telling each other cheesy jokes to make other laugh. Reminiscing initial days of relationship while watching old photos/videos. Casual impromptu couple dance in rain. Painting house together, getting possessive over each other. Jealousy is gonna be real here, even with friends. Want all the attention and love and care of other, not sharing each other one bit. Childlike, hopeless romantics. Suprising the other by setting the mood for spicy deeds when other comes back from work, loose tie. Candles, chocolates, sweaty, satin robe, white duvets, Cuddle sessions later, no fixed big or small spoon here btw. Inside jokes, sarcasm, playful banters. Possessive ness and jealousy comes from insecurity or wanting all of other, lacks practicality and groundedness sometimes. Clingy often. Feeling of belonging ness. Quality time, grand gestures, physical touch, words of affirmation. Making each other Spotify playlist when away from each other. Matching outfits. Serenading each other. Both will help each other be open to learning to love and accept love and help in creativity. Teenage love vibe.

Virgo/Mercury

I think both of you will try to be there for each other as much as possible, acts of service is going to be so important. Cooking together, listening and bonding over music, just sitting sharing headphones is going to be your thing. Can be muses to each other. Maybe adopting/getting a pet would a thing with you guys. Walking, comfortable silences, holding hands. Park dates, picnics, nature walks. Hand involvement in sex too.(Use your mind, I know you will get what I mean). Laying and watching stars together, silent hand grabbing, discussing family, insecurities, victories, joys, burdens, friends, theories, politics. Doing chores together, sticking awfully close to each other in public(it doesn’t even seem weird to you and cute to others) like protecting or shielding the other or just for security, complaints and nagging. Nitpicking habits has to be controlled, relationship insecurities can arise. Has to be checked as well. Writing love notes. Acts of service, physical touch. Sharing music, discover about each other pasts late at night, lying on your stomach facing each other and just talking, cat or dog at the foot of the bed curled up, gym buddies, couples’ yoga, nervousness around sex sometimes, using sex to release stress, bunnies, flexible, weird postions. Running in the rain and dancing, might cry when stared at for too long cuz supressed emotions/insecurities come up, might shy away when one is looking or staring. Watching random environmental documentaries late at night and deciding to visit the vegan store next morning. Acting goofy out of the blue to release other’s stress and giggling together. Both will help each other with routine, stability and insecurities. Searching each other in the crowd and make eye contact feeling/dynamic.

Libra/Venus

Romance is just flowing here, maybe sometimes too much. Striving for balance and equality. Running home or thinking of the spouse first thing when you get a good news, or can’t wait to tell your partner the gossip about the co worker both dislikes. Getting affected by other person’s mood, internalizing each other’s stress, helping and providing solutions to over come them. Date nights, gentle romantic gestures, soft kissing on the lips, slow random dancing. Gift giving/receiving, quality time. Taking out time out of busy schedules to spend time together. Jealousy, waist grabbing in public, kind to shove the other against the wall when things are heating up, and look at the lips and bam. 🔥. Serious foreplay effort, booking hotel reservations to spice things up, role-playing, meeting at bars as strangers. Kissing on forehead when other is sleeping, putting blanket over the other, watching other sleep, fondly looking when one isn’t looking. Staring at the other and shies away at eye contact. Baking together, shopping together, matching outfits, gifting each other perfumes that makes you think of them. Planning romantic getaways often. Both will learn to balance each other’s personalities and behaviour together. Two peas in a pod. Similiar yet different.

Scorpio/mars/ketu-

Relationship is going to be full of emotion and love. Having a sense of possessive ness and belonging ness with each other. Thinking about each other when one is not around. Lots of cuddle, staring at each other, comfortable silences, impromptu slow dancing at 2 in the morning. Can get clingy with each other, sitting on each other laps especially anytime is working or even during video games too, sleeping off on the couch. Waist grabbing, pinning up against the wall or down on bed. Controlling can be an issue here, where either one can get a little to attached. A lot of insecurity and past hurt sharing is gonna come up often and other would be empathizing ,hugging and rubbing back when one is crying. Be in for long hugs. Relationship where you ll be just want to provide the other with whatever they want or crave, random food cravings, done, random long drives done, spontaneous trips done. Booking places for graves together in cemetery. Waking up together late if either is stressed or anxious, kind to fulfill partners every desire even if it’s mint choco chip ice cream at 4 in the morning, shoving the other in the inside of footpath/sideroad and away from road cuz even the slight of danger is horror. Hating on each other exes, staring the fck out of someone just for looking at your partner. Finding new things about each other every time you talk, and be amazed how less you know of each other. Continue to surprise each other. Helping each other be more open and be open to be vulnerable, help each other with trust and commitment issues. Physical touch and quality time. Just want to protect the other kind of love.

Sagittarius/Jupiter-

A very calm and heavy on discussions and ideas to be bouncing of off each other. Planning random getaways at 3 in the morning. Best friends. Confidants. Maturely handles conflicts, both will have strong opinions or not back off easy, but being a mutable adjusts easily. Travelling is a really go to activity. Reading together, silences. Giving each other looks when someone else says anything dumb or inappropriate. At home date nights, amusement parks, movie nights, Netflix rituals. I see a lot of learning for both of you, from each other and as a couple. You may take part religious activities together or learn the significance or indulge together. May take up meditation or yoga as well. Surprising with spontaneous trips. Banters, jokes, witty remarks. Role-playing, meeting at bars. Planning to check off bucket list goals at 3 in the morning and adding new to as couple bucket list. Piggy back rides, bicycle race, Bike travelling, skinny dipping in the middle of the lake with security just few metres away. Baking each other with make up as well, or self care routines. Having a own personal party of two dancing to edm or club music ofc at a reasonable hour. Also the kind to put headphones on separately and just dance together to own music. Acting goofy anytime anywhere and other laughing. Looking fondly at the other, and when the other person also makes eye contact both end up making a wierd face and end up laughing. Quality time, words of affirmation, gift giving and receiving. Unexpectedly wearing matching outfits. Aggressive cheek kisses. Butt grabbing. Things heated on the Kitchen counter. “Where were you all my life” love.

Capricorn/Saturn-

The relationship will be stable and comfortable for both, very self oriented and yet together. Nurturing and caring towards each other, may or may not be as open with the love like to the point it’s obvious but mostly through actions. So gift giving and acts of service is going to be major here. Both of you are comfortable with each other even in awkwardness and handle conflicts maturely. Either or both will have a lot of say in each other doings so micromanaging has to be something you should be concerned for. Yet I see both of you some very loving and kind gestures for each other or caring for the other and other has no clue of it. Sacrificing little things just for the other out of love and other not knowing. Keeping tracks of each other favorite things and suprising them with it. Type of love that’s sensual and accepting. Hand holding, back rubs. Long hugs as a way of comforting when either is stressed. Either may feel shy and awkward at first or sometimes feel other is more experienced than the other and can cause some insecurities, which has to be talked about. Sharing family inflicted trauma or family history late at night out of the blue and other empathazing, making eye contacts together and keeping the stare intact without awkwardness. Scolding the other for doing something harmful or dangerous to self even unintentionally. Fancy vacations, expensive gifts. Each one doing its own thing yet other doesn’t feel insecure or lack of attention. Independent yet in union. 🔥 Sex, experimental, slow initially maybe vanilla cuz of not wanting to force on other but as they adjust and adapt things get heated too fast too often, may even have to run out of social obligations/events cuz other one was literally too sexy to handle. Trying to entice other while other is working. Learn stability, being in union and responsibility with each other, how to let go of control and be vulnerable. “ In it for the good and the bad or none at all”

Aquarius/Saturn/rahu-

Build on some common ground and interest. Taking up many activities together or adapting to each other’s hobbies and actively participating in them or atleast try to. Although both will have their unique and separate hobbies which they ll be enjoying on their own without other feeling lack of attention. Tbh I see both of the tech human sitting and coding all day and weekend, occasionally either one gets up to make coffee or what not. At times may even skip a meal and later only realises when sun has set, and then make ramen or order in something. Very chill and free dynamic, no as such sense of control and and possessiveness yet also comes with lack of apparent affection one might crave, at times I think communication can create misunderstandings for both creating awkwardness, which shall be address and faced head on than shied away from. There may be feeling of not being understood at times but also like it’s your best friend whom you dearly love, lil awkward but yours. In between work glancing each other lovingly and smiling and then getting back to work. Video games, late night talks, late night walks, stubborn opinionated people arguing. Skinny dipping in the lake when it’s prohibited and security at few distance away. Spray painting graffiti on wall, and running away and hiding in an alley, laughing. Playful hitting, running after each other. Long drives, eating drive thu in parking lots jamming to their songs. Learn responsibility and independence from each other, being in union yet having own goals to be achieved, having a sense of self. Communication is going to important, cuz misunderstandings can arise. Either may feel detachment or feel other is detached or lack of affection maybe an issue, yet neither should be coerced into doing something. Any matter must be resolved patiently. Ego clashes and loud arguments cuz opinionated. Might help each other see things in broader perspective and influence social views. Can take social causes together and work with charities. Adopting a pet together. Partners in crime.

Pisces/Jupiter-

Emotionally dominant. In tune with each other or just know what other wants or is feeling. Intuitively connected. Imagine the scene when one is thinking of the other and in that moment your phone beeps with a call or message from the other. Pursue a lot of creative endeavours together, act as muse to each other if either does something artistic. Exchanging new music and waiting to get home to tell the other about the new album they discovered in the bus on their way to work. Sending cute animal pictures to each other when not together. Actively trying to partake interest in each other hobbies and passions, watching movies and shows like a ritual, or following up episodes together, park dates, picnics, flowers, candles. Midnight movie marathons, cafe dates, long drives, discussing long trips, many travel plans, looking up hotels in a totally different continent at 3 in the morning because other saw a travel post on instagram, only to realise it’s not feasible and sleep cuddled up. Blanket forts. Bonfires, fireplace. 🔥. Make up sex, crying in sex. Taking each other’s random photos without other knowing. Wrapping self around the other, cuddles, white duvets, mood set for foreplay. Sacrificing little things for the other and other getting mad for doing this for them. Back massages, quality time, physical touch. Shower sex. Baking together, flour fight. Taking spiritual practices together, may influence religious or spiritual beliefs of each other, talking about childhood, insecurities, dark secrets, comfort hugs and back rubs. Back hugs, nose kisses. Giving or leaving each other flowers. Soulmates dynamic.

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Moon in the 1st house overlay: The in your face Duo

🐺🦅Bondax - all I see(Darius remix)

🐺Foals - red sock pugie

🦅Foals - Blue blood

Moon in the first house overlay can feel rather restless and or exposed in the presence of the house person-as is everything is taken as is and seen as is which can either cause abrasive behavior on the part of the house or moon person in response to the highly upon emotional presence. The moon finds themselves very forward and emotionally direct unlike they’d be with anyone else-capable of expressing emotions that for the most part they’d normally keep to themselves! The house person often absorbs the feelings of the moon often easily able to read and decipher the moons feelings before they do. The connection here is very Arian in nature with the house person taking on mars and the moon person acting out more Arian traits leading to a highly potent emotional desire for physical interaction between the two! The moon find the house person irresistible and the house person In turn deeply desires to nurture the childlike youth in the moon person! This is a dynamic and highly emotionally aroused pair.

Moon in the 2nd house overlay: Sensuality lounge

🐢🐍Cabu - crazy(feat. Love mansuy)

🐢Little dragon - little man(Tycho remix)

🐍Little dragon - cat rider

Moon in the 2nd house overlay can feel like a suede sofa, with dim lit lights-topped of with soft linen and skin to skin. The moon person often becomes more of a Tauren moon in a sense when in the presence of the house person! Becoming Patient and deeply sensual towards the house person, wanting to induce pleasure in every sense of the word be it through touch or even though food-they greatly seek to please and care for the house person in any way they can to create that subtle comfort. The house person often embodies venus here and find the way the moon person expresses their emotions to be both stubborn but deeply beautiful-they admire the tenacity of the moon person and often find themselves feeling more complete when the moon person is there. The love that grows between these two can take time to manifest but once it does they are inseparable and nothing can tear them apart! This points to sexual loyalty as often these natives only crave one another sexually and tend to need deep touch to feel connected through sex! Often this is a pair that can become co dependent but never bore of one another.

Moon in the 3rd house overlay: To be or not to be?

🐝🐞Night Tales - Move you

🐝bonobo - Kerala

🐞George maple - vacant space

Moon in the third house overlay can feel like a whirlwind affair! These lovers often fly back and forth between feelings faster than the moon has the capability of cycling. The moon person becomes more like a Gemini moon-fast paced, childlike, curious and wordy but also turbulent when around the house person! The house person who becomes mercury often feels energized around the moon person on an emotional level as well as mental! Both bounce of one another like a spark jumping from emotion to emotion and feeling to feeling! Moments of random break ups as well as random get together and commitment only to brake it off down the line is common ground as these two often seem to have a hard time getting a grip on wether they love or hate each other. Their is a massive amount of love that grows here despite its restlessness and often the house person begins to budge first-as they become deeply attached to the moon person! The moon person often takes a little while to give in as they tend to be frightened of commuting to the house person due to the actual depth and sincerity they feel for the house person. This pair is either talking each-others heads off or making out feverishly even if their in their 70s! They’re that cute but odd couple.

Moon in the 4th house overlay: Mommy and Daddy

🧤🧣 Lane 8 Ft Policia - No Captain

🧤Troye Sivan - The good side

🧣The neighborhood - wiped out.

Moon in the 4th house overlay is very deep! For both parties involved it feels like a 2nd home in the form of one person. The moon person takes on a cancer moon persona becoming highly sentimental and even receptive to the smallest nuances in the house person. The house person often taking on the moon traits finds themselves drowning in the house person as if they can’t seem to separate feelings that are theirs or the moons! A deep desire to protect one another is heavily visible here! Both also have a deep level of possessiveness and responsibility to one another that just seems to come naturally! The moon person often loves to nurture the house person or finds themselves doing so instinctually whilst the house person finds themselves being more childlike and even more moody than they’d normally be when the moon person is around ! The two can keep their feelings private and out of the sight of the public but when they’re home it can be SOOOO romantic! They tend to stay home a lot and cuddle ALL THE TIME! And you can tell when a couple has this as they tend to be very close to each other when they’re walking.

Moon in the 5th house overlay: Wild ‘n’ Free

🍒🌺 Cautious Clay - Cold War( Nick Am Remix)

🍒Flume feat. Chet faker - left alone(gravez x Ta-Ku Re-remix)

🌺What’s so not - Jaguar

Moon in the 5th house overlay feels like a night ride in New York, the black shades and pale red lipstick-hands loosely interlocked. This is a passionate place for the moon as often the moon person takes on a Leo moon type demeanor! Turning into a giddy school kid around the house person! The moon can be both emotionally captivated and aroused by the way the house person expresses themselves! There is a aloof nature to this connection In synastry unlike the composite that I’ve noticed in which the house person is often the sun but has a very aloof almost unmoved demeanor about the moon person and the moon person who seems to be fawned and even in a state of constant infatuation seems to LOVE this HOOT to cool dynamic! The house person despite this chill demeanor is often entranced by the moon person! Wanting to have the moon in every way imaginable often wanting the moon at times to an overwhelming access which causes the house person to be more emotionally apprehensive about expressing how they really feel! This being and fixed house and Leo’s house at that passions run wild and this can be a couple that can seem like a constant dark club aesthetic! In some cases this connection can show an immense love for one another but it also shows that love and sex don’t just go hand and hand-they In a sense can get blurred if the two of you don’t pace yourselves. This is A hot position for moon

Moon in the 6th house overlay: A Martyr romance

🐊🦈Night Tales - Back 2 me

🐊Megan - inside ft Carly Landy

🦈Drake - connect

This overlay gets a mixed bag of reviews! Some say it can cause a feeling of lost due to one or the other feeling used whilst some say it can lead to emotional blockage due to the nature of Virgo I beg to differ on these fronts as the 6th house is still a sensual earth house. The moon person particularly can become far more grounded and responsible and even reserved in the presence of the house person-wanting to uphold to the house persons standards, often doing the best they can to be of service and even of tender care of the house person! The house person often feels this deep and genuine care from the moon person and often embodying Chiron/mercury the house person often quietly seeks to please the moon person through gestures and actions-making sacrifices and decisions they normally wouldn’t for anyone else. The house person grows to need the moon person and vice versa and in some cases this is amazing but if taken to far it can lead to unhealthy co dependency! They tend to naturally do things for each other without trying and if anything they are constantly touching! Like a lot aha! This is the outwardly quiet couple that is always playfully touching on each other easily distracted by the world around them but none more than how they distract each other.

Moon in the 7th house overlay: Rumor has it

🎋🌾Tentado - one stop shop(feat. JANEVA)

🎋Jessie ware - midnight

🌾Jessie ware - no to love

Moon in the 7th house can actually have a rather somber energy! Not necessarily malefic or bad but mainly that this can seem like a rather serious and vintage era relationship! The moon person in question takes on libra traits-often becoming more balanced in thought, thinking about the big picture and even becoming a bit more submissive in terms of disagreements with their beloved house person. The house person takes on venus/Juno traits often becoming a bit more of a relaxed yet- sensual version of themselves! Often the house person finds the moon person to be their perfect fit-like a missing piece finally rested into their lap, because of this the house person can find themselves constantly at the beck and call to their beloved moon wanting to spend all the moments they can like an endless play. The two tend to spend a great deal of time with one another and easily fit one another into their lives-albeit things can get very intense once they move in together. This is the charming couple that you can’t really read-they’re so detached from you and a bit intimidating.

Moon in the 8th house overlay: Mr and Mrs. Oblvion

🦂🦉The neighborhood - a little death.

🦂Delilah - insecure

🦉Delilah - Breathe

Moon in the 8th house is honestly everything people write home about! It’s unforgettable-it’s a blackout-it’s a tsunami-it’s death. The moon person no Matter how airy or even how fiery their natal moon is it will be dunked into the overwhelming force of the 8th house, thereby they get a taste of the Scorpio moon energy whilst in the space of the house person! The moon person can find themselves feeling darker feelings and desires for the moon be it lust, rage, Love, hate all at once. The moon person craves the moon in a primal and at times even frightening way so much so that it can easily overwhelm them causing them to instinctually run or hide from the house person out of fear of being overtaken by this energy. The house person on the other hand finds themselves deeply and almost prolifically drawn to the moon person! Wanting and craving them in an almost insatiable sense. The house person has more power since they represent Pluto so they can if they choose control how much they let the feeling over take them but in the case that they allow themselves to let their walls down and be vulnerable they themselves will be overtaken by the sheer intensity presented between these two! 8th house synastry often points to a past life meeting and moon in the 8th shows a love that’s existed through many lifetimes so much so that the two of you come into this life fearful of the intimacy you’re capable of! In the case of family or platonically this points to a close and intimate bond not necessarily of sexual nature. This couple will always have their walls up but if they allow the walls to come down they will honestly be so obsessed with one another that the world around them seems to fade out. This is that couple that you don’t just see, but feel-they can feel like a dark force it’ll be suffocating for an outsider.

Moon in the 9th house overlay: The never ending Trip

🦒🦔Darius - Hot hands

🦒Neon Indian - polish girl

🦔Neon Indian - hex girlfriend

Moon in the 9th house overlay feels like a beach party, or a cold night in London. These two can literally go the distance for one another emotionally and physically! It’s the pursuit of happiness that matters most to these two and they bring out this desire in one another on a daily level. The moon person takes on jolly Sagittarius moons traits often wanting to keep on the move emotionally in any way they can! They often find themselves feeling warm and safe as well as understood by the house person who seems to view philosophy from the same view point as the moon person so long as aspects permit. The house person feels grand around the moon person often wanting to feed them affection till the earth itself stops spinning to witness the sight. The two are so bubbly together and act like kids who’ve gotten a new toy! They tend to know each other in and out and easily explore things that they would normally shy away from whilst alone. They quite literally bring out the best in each other. This is the couple thats is always traveling somewhere or going on road trips! They are usually vlogging and have dogs that are energetic little shit balls.

Moon in the 10th house overlay: Pitch Black Love

🥀🌹Pomo - start over again(feat. Andrea Cormier.

🥀jorja smith - let me down

🌹jorja smith - imperfect circle

Moon in the 10th house overlay is SOOOOOO NOIR. These two are sexy and sleak-extremely mysterious together. The moon person can become more like a Capricorn moon in a sense-serious and deeply steadfast, seeking to provide for the house person as well as protect them any way they can but also becoming slightly emotionally distant in the process. The house person is normally the one whom feels a slight onset of sadness and grief when in the presence of the moon person not necessarily in a bad way but they just feel this emotional coolness that surrounds the room when with the moon person that creates a often erotic yet icy back and forth. The two can feel like they’re caught in a run around but find themselves falling in love with one another gradually and with more force than the earlier moments as they get older. This is a unbreakable pair but they need to learn to express feelings openly and without fear otherwise they run the risk of emotional numbness! This is that couple from high school that never broke up, dressed in all back when resting bitch faces at the world but warm and often innocent smiles at one another.

Moon in the 11th house overlay: A friendly Tango

🌸🌎Alunageorge - supernatural(Pomo remix)

🌸Toro y moi - rose quartz

🌎Toro y moi - cola

Moon in the 11th house is an extremely warm and loving position for the moon! The moon person often takes on aqua moon traits, growing a slightly detached yet accepting energy about them-loving the house person for all that they are not all that they wish them to be! The moon is floored by the house person-often seeing them as both adorable and their best friend which is so important in romance. The house person sees the moon as their dream lover! Often finding themselves opening up to the moon more easily then the would anyone else! The house person trust the moon immeasurably and often develops the most sincere and protective love for them due to this close bond they share! This being a fixed house these two are often deeply connected and find it hard to give up on one another no matter how hard things get; but to their favor this position grants them a very forgiving and loving nature for one another. This is the couple you see sitting really close or even standing for that mater and whispering cute little inside jokes to one another with warm giggles and close hand holding.

Moon in the 12th house overlay: Glossy eyed Love affair

☁️🌊Leyya - The fall

☁️Lapalux - closure ft. Szjerdene

🌊szjerdene - Leila’s tale

The First House

Sun in Partner’s 1st House: you make me feel confident

This is a very optimal placement to have in Synastry. The two just get each other here. The Sun person admires and is attracted to the house person’s appearance and attitude. They like the way the house person operates, how they present themselves is really in alignment with the Sun’s ego and personality. The Sun is the brightest part of someone, so when this comes into in another person’s 1st house a spotlight is put on the house person. The house person feels really seen and noticed, they bask in the attention. In turn, the house person is warmed by the Sun’s admiration, making them feel a lot stronger and confident in the Sun’s presence. The two just have a lot in common with one another, they feel very safe to be themselves, the energy flows naturally between them. Overtime the two really grow one another’s self-esteem and confidence, making them feel powerful together. This is very much so a “let me upgrade you” kind of energy. 

Moon in Partner’s 1st House: you make me feel emotional

This aspects creates a real sense of familiarity between a pair in Synastry. A very, very great piece of Synastry to have. The Ascendant/First house of a person is someone’s main focus, it’s how they naturally function, how they instinctively act/feel. This house is how we are, and what we naturally project. Now the Moon is the inner most part of someone, their emotional needs and nature. The moon is who someone is on the inside, it’s more than how we are it’s who we are. So when someone’s moon comes into the first house of another, the moon gets to see who they are on the inside/their emotional needs reflected back to them by the house person. This creates a feeling of understanding. These two have finally found that person who just really empathizes them. A lot of the time conversations between these two have them consistently saying, “YES!” back and forth because they both know exactly how the other feels.  The house person’s actions is in great alignment with the moon person’s core. The moon can instinctively feel the house person’s actions and feelings making it very easy to decipher the needs of the house person and respond quickly, usually without a second thought and vice versa. The two can feel very comfortable and at home around one another. The bond between the two flows very easily as well as naturally. The moon person can make the house person feel very emotionally and physically safe. The house person is naturally very trusting of the moon, the two share a very similar approach to life so they instinctively move in-sync with one another. These people are just so similar. This can be a very intuitive even telepathic connection, a usually unbreakable bond is formed here. It’s a very mutually nurturing relationship.

Mercury in Partner’s First House: you make me feel chatty

This aspect points to a very communicative connection. The Mercury person makes the house person want to express themselves, mentally stimulating the house person, often making the house person think a bit more. The two can come up with many great ideas among each other as Mercury allows the house person to express themselves and their thoughts clearly without inhibition. The First house, naturally ruled by Aries, is all about action and physically carrying out things. Mercury coming into someone’s first house in a way Martianizes the Mercury person. The house person can influence the Mercury person to physically pursue their thoughts and ideas to actualize them into a tangible reality. The Mercury individual taking on this Martian energy can often become sporadic around the house person and vice versa. The two can find themselves in high energy conversations, speaking to each other just comes natural and the concept of time easily evades this duo. Expressing ones self to another is easy and both parties feel their thoughts are mutually understood. Mercury has two energetic facets : Gemini and Virgo. The Gemini energy of the Mercury person inspires a lot of conversation and playfulness within the pair, creating a humorous atmosphere. Virgo’s influence on the Mercury person in this pairing creates a feeling of service towards the house person and vice versa. The Mercury person may suggest things to “fix” about the house person’s appearance and day-to-day habits due to Virgo’s nit-picky tendencies. The house person may also physically want to serve Mercury, run errands, help them out on the physical sphere. Mercury teaches the house person to be more analytical about things before jumping into action. The house person teaches Mercury to take more action and get out of their heads. This pairing can often make Mercury the brains of the operation and the House person the body to physically pursue things. Nonetheless, this overlay points to a very receptive and communicative pairing.

Venus in Partner’s First House: you make me feel beautiful

This overlay definitely is an indicator of physical attraction. The closer Venus is to the ascendant in this overlay intensifies the energy between the two. Venus highlights what we find attractive, what’s beautiful to us, our sensuality. The house persons physical body and looks is very appealing to the Venus person. The house person can look like the ideal mate Venus has been searching for. Here we can find what feels like a “Love at First Sight” meeting. The house person can turn into the Venus persons’s muse, embodying all the qualities Venus finds pleasurable. However, this can place a slight pressure on the house person to live up to and remain everything the Venus person likes: beautiful, charming, and pleasurable. Nobody feels like they’re all those things all the time, but with this overlay there can be this energy of having to be pleasant and alluring when in the presence of Venus. This in turn can cause the house person to feel somewhat like a trophy or a prop. The house person admires Venus as Venus clearly likes and possesses all the things the Ascendant person portrays and exemplifies. Not to mention they enjoy being Venus’ object and affection and this is a classic aspect of almost full proof mutual attraction.

Mars in Partner’s First House: you make me feel HOT

This is definitely an overlay that generates…..hEaT! Depending on how close Mars is to the house person’s Ascendant the two can actually feel physically warmer when around one another. This is one of the most natural astrological indicators of attraction in a synastry overlay. Why? Because Mars naturally rules the First house, so when these two meet they almost instantly take note of each other. Mars rules over physicality and the First house is the physical representation of the body (duhzzies, the First house is an extension of Mars’ energy)  so these two tend to react to each other on a very bodily level. There’s this incessant need to touch and get physical with one another, platonic and romantically. You can see this with individuals who like to play fight with another, or touch each other when they speak…their interactions typically always have a bit of a physical element to it. There can also be a hostile or combative energy surrounding their interactions especially upon meeting. These two can be prone to arguments as well as playful banter between them. The Mars person tends to feel really turned on by the House person and how they carry themselves and the way they present themselves to the world. The house person in turn tends to feel v sexy around the Mars person and find they express all the qualities they find attractive. The two have a tendency to get…uh….steamy with each other pretty fast. This can be a very addictive overlay due to how they feel around each other (energized, productive, attractive, sexy) causing them to feel a sense of withdrawal when they’re not around each other.

Mars in the 1st house overlay: The Hungry lovers

💋Jacques Greene - afterglow💋.

•Now this pairing from the very start will feel like gravity navigating the two of you on a crash course straight towards one another at blinding speed. Mars in this case takes on the energy of Aries-they have an almost insatiable desire for the house person but one of a very blunt and surface level enigma. They find the house person erotic in a very Arian sense and even in a platonic relationship this does add quite a bit of a physical undertone to their interactions. Mars can be more forethought and straightforward when it comes to the house person than they would any other person. They can find themselves craving more raw touch from the house person than they normally would anyone else. And similarly to the 8th house influence due to the nature of mars and Aries the mars persons libido tends to sky rocket here when around the house person. The house person takes on the energy of mars-becoming more in-tune with their own physical attributes their own physical body so to speak. Everything becomes skin to skin and full on for the house person. A desire to seduce and or devour the mars person becomes present. Sex here is very aggressive and abrasive as if both have been strapped down with iron chains unable to act on their desires. Usually for better or worse their is an magnified sexual influence in the partnership.

Mars in the 2nd house overlay: Insatiably stable

🧣Little dragon - only you🧣

“Ooh, ooh, ooh

It was spring

That look, that look you gave

Ooh, ooh, ooh

Rivet us far

Would you let ‘em slumber

Whisper the name

Sunrise call

If there’s no tomorrow

Just wait all the same”

•I often would see much of the old archetype of planets falling in someone’s 2nd house having to do with how you affect them in terms of their finances and how you better increase or deplete what ever ability they have to gain in this area. Albeit this is true, the second house is also responsible for our self worth, it’s responsible for our desire for touch and our own value in security and what makes us feel this security. Mars here is EXTREMELY profound and places an immense intensity on these matters. The mars person in a sense gains very Tauren attributes when dealing with the house person. They’re both patient and sturdy often more than they’d be with anyone else. They are far more cautious and deeply sentimental towards the house person. I’m a sense they treat the house person as if the house person belonged to them and no one else. Mars can be extremely sexually aroused and attracted to the house persons physical body but not in the way of the 1st house-this is more in a deeply emotional sense. The way the house person is and the way they act is extremely comforting to the mars person and the mars person as a result is often touching and seeking deep intimacy of a sensual nature with the house person as a means to feel secure and to please the house person since this is a earth house. The house person acts as Venus here and despite the inclination they actually tend to take on the more masculine role here be it female or male. The house person is often unconsciously protective of the mars person—refusing to let any harm come their way. The house person is also fiercely loyal as well as easily possessive of the mars person physically and emotionally and can even adopt bull like tendencies when it comes to outsiders coming around mars. The house person craves mars touch and often lures mars in as an attempt to get this sensual touch. The house person takes sex with mars very seriously and since this is the house of Taurus sex often happens constantly and in deep long sessions. Touch and pacing is often the theme. The house person tends to hold off on touching mars back until they feel comfortable as often the house person feels the touch VERY intensely.

Mars in the 3rd house overlay: Are we flirting or fighting?

🐞Frank gamble - J’adore ft abra cabera🐞

“I used to think

Know what you see before you understand

You know in your heart before you know in your head

I used to think

No reason to keep it hidden anymore”

•This overlay generates a high level of friction. The third house and mars together breeds a lot of mischievous energy. The mars person can develop a very gemini like way of pursuing the house person even if they have a mars in a more “feel things” type of sigh like Pisces. Mars tends to have a more blunt and even at times nervous energy towards the house person. The house person in a sense “intimidates” them but in a cute/endearing way! Mars finds the house person both delicate and mysterious like a puzzle without the pieces. The house person stimulates the mars person with practically anything—they just have a very electric effect on the mars person for better or worse. The mars person in most cases especially in the beginning can sense this and tends to do all in their power to maintain a detached persona towards the house person to control the pace in a sense. The house person can be very curious in a mercurial like way about the mars person-often wanting to know it all. The house person usually is since this is a mars overlay we’re talking about here is often aroused by mars mind and how they process the world around them. The mars person can be a bit intense and aggressive when speaking the the house person and the house person can be rather sensitive to this. That being said mars is often very careful with the house person and is constantly adapting for them-while as time progresses the house person gains more courage to speak their mind. Sex here is very “hands on” the mars person can find themselves craving oral sex a lot more than they normally would and both partners will be very energetic sexually constantly moving from position to position. Talking and or dirty taking and speaking in different languages whilst having sex is another manifestation.

Mars in the 4th house overlay: The defensive tango

🐌Mansionair - speak easy🐌

“Can we keep the dialogue

We are falling out of touch

Can we keep the dialogue

For now”

•This overlay similarly to if Pluto was here is more on the overwhelming side of things. The mars person can take on very cancerian qualities, often becoming more undercut and indirect when it comes to the house person. They can feel caged in and seemingly emotionally flustered when it comes to the house person. Their emotions seem to come out sporadically and their desire for the house person fluctuates between sexual and emotional constantly with the emotional desire outweighing the other. Mars can and is very proactive of the house person often taking whatever action necessary to be an emotional wall for the house person whenever need be. The house person is often very lunar with the mars person! Usually nurturing and allowing a safe heaven for the mars person to express their deepest feelings. A lot of the energy for both parties is poured into cuddling and making things comfy. That being said arguments can be heated due to their emotional tendency and old defense mechanisms rooted towards the sign on the house persons 4th house tend to color the relationship for better or worse and both parties will find themselves acting out old patterns from previous episodes in their lives seemingly without their knowing. Sex here is often very intimate and a very private act-you’ll never know when these two are going at it and they love it that way.

Mars in the 5th house overlay: The glass castle ego

🐅Glass animals - life itself🐅

“Come back down to my knees

Gotta get back, gotta get free

Come back down to my knees

Be like them, lean back and breathe…”

•This overlay is normally a very physical overlay. And if it’s not wanted it can be a bit of a nuance for the people involved. Mars usually becomes like a Leo, seeking admiration and praise from the house person no matter how shy the Person. They start to crave the sole attention of the house person wether they realize it or not something in them starts to crave that excitement and fire from the house person. They often become more flamboyant and extravagant in the presence of the house person—seeking to live a bit reckless and make more bold and at times silly decisions in regards to the house person. The house person is often a flattered school boy/girl by mars and often either finds them childish or obnoxiously sweet. The house person often feels a strong desire for the mars person finding them “their type” in a sexual sense. In some cases the house person can even find that their ego is more prevalent when dealing with the mars person. The mars persons drive and sexuality is both alluring and sexy to them and the often find themselves deeply drawn to mars because of this. Mars tends to be more “me me me” during sex with the house person but only because the house person turns them on in such a way-whilst the house person becomes themselves through sex with the mars person! I’ll tell you now sex between these two is loud. Possessive tendencies in true fixed house fashion run very deeply here.

Mars in the 6th house overlay: Submission or Prolonged courting

🌾Tender - Nadir🌾

“With all I’ve done and all I say

I’ve been loving you in a different way

Tried to explain, you wash away the pain

Things were never gonna stay the same”

•ah the 6th house! The house of our daily persona-the respective day to day! The office and the guy you see everyday when you’re walking down the street for your morning jogs. The mars person here in a sense becomes a Virgo-far more observant than a action taker. Far more cat and mouse than outright pursuing the object of their desires. The mars person can be more somber around the house person-often seeing them as someone they have to live up to in a way. The mars person can become easily embarrassed and flustered by the house person! Often it knowing what actions to take to win them over but also in a sense feeling awkward about expressing their more intimate desires! Mars will often be better at speaking through actions than words to the house person. The house person will see through mars plenty of times! They tend to find mars a bit of the shy type and depending on the interaction in most cases the house person finds this very comforting! Due to how genuine and grounded the mars persons approach to romance is! They can find themselves opening up and even relaxing easier around mars and finding it relatively easy to leave things in mars hands! The house person fosters a very deep but slow burning desire for the mars person. The mars person tends to seek to please the house person at all cost sexually while the house person seeks to be pleased in totality. A give in take in sex that’s very as they say “earthy” this can show two people who have a natural sexual chemistry. Also not to be vulgar but this is an anal house both literally and metaphorically so do with that what you will.

Mars in the 7th house overlay: Nostalgia with you

👥SG Lewis - Times we had👥

“What if I never came around the bend

And walked straight into you

Like the stars

Nothin’ like a play to shut that down”

•the overlay here produces some veg romantic and warm nature’s sexual attraction between two people. Mars often takes on libra traits towards the house person! Often taking a calmer more flirty approach when it comes to their interactions. Mars often becomes

Far more diplomatic and even more compromising towards the desires of the house person often wanting to do and be anything possible to please the house person best they can. A huge level of romance plays here and mars often finds themselves shooting for the perfect atmosphere when with the house person often finding them both charming and someone that arouses their more hopeless Romantic side. The house person who becomes the higher waves of venus is immensely found of the mars person! Often finding their energies easy to blend with and even sexually alluring. Both enjoy spending time together in a peaceful manner and may even prefer more gentle sex when with one another! Both can be deeply into pleasing one another! And since this is libras house stimulation of the pelvic - butt region is often a theme.

Mars in the 8th house overlay: The angel v demon dynamo

🕷The Neighborhood - Heaven🕷

“There’s something 'bout you baby

There’s something 'bout the way

Ya got me shaking like a seizure

No mistaking that I need ya”

•ah the 8th house, to say that having this mars overlay is overwhelming would be a understatement! Be it platonic or sexual this can create a very intense undertone to the interactions. The mars person no matter how airy or how earthy their mars gets dropped into a dark pit that is the 8th house. Energies that lie deep and hidden beneath the nook and crannies of the mars person get dragged out to the surface and since this is mars a vast slew of intense sexual desires can be on the forefront and for some this can be both invasive and overwhelming. Mars often(unconsciously) finds themselves drawn to the house person, constantly observing and intensely infatuated and even caught up in the house person and what they do. Mars often expresses this intense need to touch and physically be around the house person via burst of anger or random aggression. The mars person can take on a very intense energy around the house person that others will pick up on but the sheer depth is something that’ll always only exists between the house person and mars. The house person often is the person receiving mars in a heavy way but often holds the level of restraint since they embody Pluto. The house person often feels like the damsel- endlessly caught by mars and his/her strong energy. The house person feels sexy and even in a sense mesmerized by mars and its raw desire. The house person in a sense becomes the moth while mars becomes the blazing flame. Sex between these two if ever allowed is a frighting sight something that can easily become addictive and something that can easily freeze hell over. Mars often takes on a very aggressive and passionate role sexually whilst the house person can in a sense become very wild, like the maiden finally free of her vail. Since this is the house of taboo having a mars overlay here often can show an attraction that’s wrong in some way or like the two of you shouldn’t feel the way you should for one another.

Mars in the 9th house overlay: The optimistic train

🦆Kimbra - sweet relief 🦆

“Gonna need to relax

Take a load off your back

Loosen up your mind

You don’t have to try

Feel it up in your spine

We can wait for the… oooh”

•oh boy now this is a friendly and bubbly place for mars! These two often have an easy going chemistry with a bit of the wild and jump the gun sort of tendency! Mars usually takes on more sagittarian traits than they normally would! They become far more straight forward than they would when not around the house person. They want a good time and see it in the house person! The house person almost becomes their version of a bountiful experience in the form of a human being. They can be quite insatiable for the house persons energy and even find the wild and more blunt style of the house person to be sexy so to speak! They can find themselves easily drawn and spiritually connected to the house person! The house person often takes on Jupiter’s energy and loves the more optimistic and childish nature of Mars! Theirs a tendency for both to be slightly arrogant and yes believe it or not despite Jupiter and sag influence their is a tendency for both to be ignorant towards one another as well! That being said they have a lot of energy and are deeply connected both physically and spiritually! Mars tends to crave sex with the house person anywhere they can get it but the fun of it is that it’s always on a whim rather than something thought out! The house person usually has a happy go lucky approach about sex with mars! Lubricants and oils! With a touch of outdoors and office scenes.

Mars in the 10th house overlay: Grouchy foreplay

🐜Alexandra savior - Frankie 🐜

“Babe, you got your villains’ car

You got your sleeves rolled up

Anatomical heart”

• its a more cold and detached sort of chemistry here. A meeting between to equally unfocused souls who don’t readily know they want anything at all from one another. This is the 10th house of status after all. Their is a huge focus on security here being that this is an earth house and even more on the slow build up. Being the opposite of the 4th house their is still a focus on the emotional/stability spectrum as far as intimacy is concerned! Mars takes on Capricorn traits often having a more rigid and somber approach to the house person. Mars can seem a bit uninterested and unbothered by the house person to an untrained eye but if one were to really look into mars they would see that the seriousness emitting from mars isn’t discontent it’s merely admiration and care. Mars wants to impress the house person-to captivate them, to earn them. Mars isn’t looking for quickies with the house person and sure as hell isn’t looking to waste time. Mars is earnestly bent on savoring every moment quiet, loud, every second. The house person sees mars as a mature and sincere lover and often finds themselves leaving their walls up around mars more than they would anyone else. They crave mars stability but fear it as well. Their can be a tug of war of openly expressed v. held completely out of sight. The two can seem very intense around one another to outsiders but they had a very earthy and deeply passionate sexual chemistry and one that is hard earned. Mars often holds off on sex with the house person but can be quite the gregarious beast once they get the-chance. The house person often keeps mars at bay but once they do decide to give it up they can play around with the control and restriction theme sexually and both tend to last long periods sexually with one another.

Mars in the 11th house overlay: Friends without the friends part

🕸FARR - Blades 🕸

“I think this bridge is burning down

I think my heart has just been bleedin’ slowly

It’s first I’m all you’re thinking 'bout

And then you try to act like you don’t know me”

•the final fixed house operates a bit strangely in a mars overly! Despite this being an air house we are dealing with a sexual planet and at that we are dealing with Aquarius and Uranus! This for starters is a very turbulent chemistry produced between two people! Mars takes on very Aquarian traits often being more detached in how they pursue the house person! They can think things out whilst simultaneously stepping out of their normal comfort zone! They often find themselves aroused by the house persons inaccessibility! It can seem like the house person is always slightly out of their reach. But that being said the mars person flys between off and on attraction when it comes to the house person! Some moments being all over them while others they treat them like a buddy! This is often a friends with benefits position because of the hot and cold vibes! The house person is often intrigued by mars rebel nature! But the house person often embodies the Uranian energy which often causes them to disappear and reappear at odd times in the pairing! They can desire to experiment with mars but also find themselves drawn to the more friendlier and easy flow aspect of their dealings with the mars person. Both love the freedom presented with one another and how it always feels like they’re not tied down. Sex here is often full of spark and can have a very star struck quality to it! Mars usually despite their detached nature wants a long term connection with the house person and vice versa! One thing I noticed is this is usually a couple that started out as friends!

Mars in the 12th house overlay: The worst case of Deja vu

🦎Clark - peak magnetic🦎

Venus in the 1st house overlay: Fuck were so pretty huh?

🌺 the last of the shadow puppets-everything you’ve come to expect🌺

“Hotel room Holy Bible

Hotel room free love revival

Baby it’s a never ending spiral

‘Looks a little bit like Paris”

•this often when expressed both ways feels very Arian in nature—it’s all about the initial feelings. Everything is in your fave and dynamic, the love and romance feels hot-sensual and a bit erotic in a way. Venus usually is in lust of the house person mostly because they’re close to their ascendant and in a sense either have venus conjunct or have a similar rising to their venus. The venus person finds the house person beautiful in both a physical manner as well as a energy way, they feel both vibrant and youthful in the house person presence like they’re above the sky whilst on land. The house person feels venus desire but feels the same if not more level of attraction to how venus carries themselves—it’s a tug and pull of the animalistic and raw instinctual of levels. Pleasure is derived both from physical touch and overall close knitted intimacy between the two. The venus person tends to gain more Arian traits to their venus in this overlay whilst the house persons energy becomes more Martian in nature. House overlays usually manifest as sign to planet so the planet person takes on the sign qualities whilst the house person takes on the planet qualities!

Venus in the 2nd house overlay: They can’t keep their hands off each other

💐Delilah- insecure 💐

“So you’re afraid, what about me?

Dare to claim that you can’t breathe

Hold my hand or I’ll take yours

Don’t let go cause how I feel

Is what you’ve made me”

•this is more Tauren In nature, its sensual..it’s all about security and commitment being the opposite of Scorpio but still being the same modality similar themes of possession/intimacy/worth/desire are often recurring themes. In a romantic Union this can make the venus person very sensual—they can be deeply loyal without explanation to the house person, they crave the house person both physical but not in the more body to body sense of Aries but in a soul to soul way. Venus is infatuated with the house person and over time this can turn into a love that is very difficult to extinguish. The love between the venus and house person grows over time and this can easily become a very suffocating energy at the onset because of the themes associated with this house! In some cases natives that are rather young walking into this relationship will be overwhelmed by how intense and demanding the energy is. The house person can be very patient with venus—often choosing cautious and sensitive ways of acting as well as communicating with venus. The house person often takes the protective role of Venus seeking them as fragile. The house person often is deeply sexually attracted to venus inside and out and desires to truly make “love” to venus rather than just have sex. So In a general sense the house person because of this can seem aloof sexually around the venus person mainly because venus isn’t just eye candy for them venus is their security and they think more about maintaining that then they do Sleeping with them so to speak. Both partners are insanely possessive over one another after some time and sex is often constant here! You’ll see this couple because of how touchy they are.

Venus in the 3rd house synastry: The humming birds

🍀petit biscuit-midnight sky🍀

•this is more Gemini in nature! Their is a emphasis on the mental back and forth between each other! Both partners feel loved when speaking to one another in a deeply special way—the communication between the two of you no matter the individual aspects to mercury or venus will always feel like an endless spark. The venus person often starts the topics while the house person hopelessly complies out of love. Venus jumps and dances from topic to topic and often is very hands on so to speak with the house person as the third house does rule the hands! They turn into a little child around the house person and want to explore everything they can! House person usually ends up embodying the energy of mercury itself so rather than jumping all over the place they are usually very curious and insatiable of venus! Wanting to constantly challenge and soak up as much as they can—they find venus words beautiful and often see venus mind as intricate as well as charming! Venus is very convincing to the house person and often this is a sign of pillow talk!! Talking dirty and playful banter!

Venus in the 4th house overlay: Mom and Dad aesthetic

🍂Drake- over my dead body(slowed down and original pace) 🍂

“How I’m feeling, it doesn’t matter

'Cause you know I’m okay

Instead, I ask myself “why do you hurt me?”

When you know, you know I’m the same

I know, I know that you love me baby”

•this feels very cancerian in nature! It’s very Mushy and intimate! On both sides I’d say it’s felt like a familiarity but also a very warm hearted love between both parties. The venus person is very at home with the house person!! They’re real selves seem to come out around the house person and in most cases I’ve seen it to where instead of acting out cancerian traits the venus person usually acts out their IC/4th house whilst the house person acts out the more cancerian/moon traits. Venus regardless tends to be very sentimental and very shy around the house person! They can be indirect and also more emotionally aroused by the actions of house person. The house person is very tender to venus and usually for better or worse gets emotionally involved with venus. The house person usually tries to be cautious as to not scare venus away and usually is the stable one. The house person cares for the venus person regardless of the situation and has a hard time really “treating them bad” the sense of familiarity goes a long way but something about this will always feel like 2007-2011 they’re both a best friend and a close lover!! It’s easy to let your guard down but it’s also easy to keep it up.

Venus in the 5th house overlay: The walking teenage fever

🕊Beyoncé- mine 🕊

“I just wanna say you’re mine, you’re mine

I just wanna say you’re mine, you’re mine

Fuck what they heard you’re mine, you’re mine

All I’m really asking for is you..”

•this feels very solarian/Leo in nature! Both parties feel like kids! Teenage youth in the early giddy stages of romance! The giggles and the big jolly smiles after small moments of intimacy. The warm and sweating palms. The braking of eye contact. The passion and easy chemistry. A lot of love and REAL chemistry is created here almost like nothing you’ve ever experienced! The venus person usually embodies Leo traits in full affect! They become boisterous-courageous and attention seeking-the only difference from them and an actual Leo is this is only a feeling that exist solely for the house person—they desire all of the House persons attention, they want to own and posses the house person but they also are deeply enticed like a cat by the house person. The house person is their joy in life and brings a magnificent flare of romance into their life that they crave deep in their heart. The house person often feels like a school boy/girl around the venus person! Often forgetting what to say and feeling like they’re of the ground on cloud 9 whenever they touch the venus person. Everything feels like the first time with them and the chemistry is so tangible as if it manifest itself into its own being. This being a fixed house their is often a focus on longevity so feelings here are often felt forever! For better or worse! And once Love is established it’s pretty hard to let one another go!

Venus in 6th house overlay: Mr and Mrs feel good

🍁partynextdoor- recognize🍁

“I want you, to turn up on me

Every night when I see you

Better recognize when I see you

I really want you, you, you

Hit the club for you, you, you”

•this is very Virgo in its nature! There is a sacrificial but also routineish nature to this pairing. It’s easy to squeeze one another into each others day to day and because of this it’s very common to get used to/dependent on having that person their to keep everything running smoothly. Most people don’t look to this house as being highly “sexual” or “romantic” whilst I beg to differ. Being the opposite of the 12th/Pisces their is often a deeply connected atmosphere presented here! Venus serves the house person both consciously and unconsciously, they want to ease the load on the house person in a way and greatly desire to be what the house person needs. Venus can sometimes feel nervous and often neurotic when around the house person! It can seem like they don’t know what they’re doing and or that they think to much around the house person. They express love weirder than they normally would and start speaking through their actions rather then their words. Their also more earthy and sensual around the house person—craving more physical displays of affection and often will have their hands all over the house person and vice versa! The house person from what I’ve noticed takes on Chiron rather than mercury and will often be very encouraging and a foundation for the venus person often sheltering and protecting them from the world! The house person is usually the more calmer and easygoing force! The house person finds beauty in the venus person daily and is often infatuated with the bare and untouched aspects of the house person. “I love you with and without makeup baby” similar to mars here this indicates a lot of sex!

Venus in the 7th house overlay: Were already married aren’t we?

🌹TLC- creep 🌹

“The twenty second of loneliness

And we’ve been through so many things

I love my man with all honesty”

•this is very libra in nature! It can feel sensual because of venus being present as the ruler of his house but it can also feel “right” because of Juno’s influence! Both parties fit pretty well with each other as they fill in the missing chapter of each other! Depending on the planets involved it’ll intensify those traits in the relationship! For example if it’s Gemini both parties will be very communicative and stimulated around each other but if it’s a sign like Scorpio it all be very intense and sexual in nature! That being said the venus person is charming around the house person! They find the house person easy but also naturally beautiful! They find the house person easy to romance but also find themselves easily romanced by the house person! Since this is an air house venus is slightly detached towards the house person but still is very loving and affectionate and at times “overly affectionate” to the house person. The house person is often very content and upbeat due to venus presence! They often show of the shadow side of themselves easier and tend to act it out more than they would with anyone else. They often are both tender and communicative with venus in a very intimate and personal way. They have each others back and also have genuine affinity for one another! But that being said their is a slightly superficial and first layer energy to this relationship so be weary of flirting outside the relationship and occasional fibbing! I’ve seen in some cases for either party to mess around out side of the relationship but keep in mind this is just one manifestation of it and many couples who have this stay together for a lifetime but their is a very immature energy that resides here regardless in the early stages of intimacy that should be watched out for! Think early 90s love in the bronx.

Venus in the 8th house overlay: Intoxicating crimson duet

🥀The Weeknd- House of Balloons/glass table girls🥀

“Been on another level

Since you came

No more pain

You look into my eyes

You can’t recognize my face

You’re in my world now

You can stay

You can stay

But you belong to me

You belong to me”

•this has AN extremely Plutonian/Martian/Scorpionic/Arian energy to it. It acts as a harsh venus Pluto aspect in most cases. Whilst when it’s good it acts as positive venus and mars aspect. The venus person is usually very intense and in a sense Scorpionic around the house person! Often observant and watchful over the actions and intentions of the house person while the house person is not only equally observant but often sees through venus without venus being able to catch up. It’s often a tug of war between passion and instinctual repulsion. They’re too close too you but also you want them too close. Often in family or platonic relationships this can point to a family member or friend that often easily pushes your buttons or arouses darker emotions out of you that you’d rather either avoid or prefer not to experience. Whilst in romantic endeavors this can be a tricky yet deeply rewarding romance but one that’ll take time seeing as how this is a fixed house! The house person often hold the cards while the venus person holds the triggers. It can seem manipulative but it can also seem very intense. Sex here is pretty dark in nature because of the feelings that are aroused! The venus person is deeply connected and passionate over the house person whilst the house person is often protective and deeply endearing to venus no matter their circumstances. But on a side note? Don’t walk into this relationship if either of you are unevolved as hell will literally break loose.

Venus in the 9th house synastry: The high risers

🎾sza- Julia 🎾

“Loving alone is what you make it (make it)

Stay for the storm if you can take it (take it)

But pray for a raincoat

To where they’re blind to, mistakes

I know you worry a lot

I’ll be here for you

Do I care enough?

Do I feel for you?

I can guarantee”

•this will feel very sagittarian in nature! There is an easy but also fluid feeling with this partnership! It’s honest as well as open as this tends to create a “everything laid out in the open” atmosphere to the union! Neither partner is into hiding and neither feels as though hiding anything is particularly necessary! Passions usually run very high for both parties as this is a fire house! Love is expressed in a bare and uplifting way and both parties usually few as though they are growing by being in the presence of the other. Venus is often very animalistic and raw towards he house person—often initiating and chasing but doing so merely out of sport than out of pure desire! They love the action and the excitement from the house person and tend to shower the house person with a vast galore of love simply due to the huge amount of care and compassion they feel for the house person. The house person often being the Jupiter here, tends to enlighten and guide venus but also showers venus with love and much care simply because of how warm and tender their connection is! It feels like a roller coaster ride in the middle of a sunset in Tokyo! You guys love each other too much and you love life when your together!

Venus in the 10th house overlay: The painful noir duo

🥋jhene aiko - comfort inn🥋

“Really, we had the perfect end…

That night we shared at the Comfort Inn

We made love like the world would have ended…

If either of us had admitted

We were in love”

•this feels very Saturnian/Capricorn in nature. It can feel a bit heavy, in most cases it’s so stable sooo lasting and immensely secure but something about it will also feel detached and slightly out of reach. There is a gap between the now and the once was with this pairing. Venus often feels very secure around the house person, a sense of lustful yet mature longing for the house person—there love but more than anything their devotion! Which is something venus often feels that they spend all or even most of the relationship chasing after. The house person may unconsciously demand a lot from the venus person which at times unknowingly places a huge strain on the open sharing of feelings between the two! This can show a heavy focus on the public eye and the endeavors of both taking priority of intimacy and in most cases depending on the people involved that’s not always the case! But love needs to always be expressed no matter what between the two! The house person always takes on a providing role and feels as though it’s their duty to take care of venus while venus feels it’s their sole duty to be the support system for the house person! It’s a romantic placements for more traditional couples who don’t mind occasional intimacy gaps. It’ll feel like you’re always listing to a sad song even when things are going Well.

Venus in the 11th house overlay: The electric lovers

🎿tove lo- my gun🎿

“I’m ace in space and oh, I know you want to fly—My tune, your moon, jump on my cloud and we go high”

•it feels very Aquarian in nature with a small dose of Uranus and a slight dose of Saturn gaze! The relationship can drift between detached v attached quite a bit because of the dual ruler ship of a planet that prefers the unpredictable and one that prefers something more predictable. Venus is usually very drawn to the house person and their more aloof qualities often finding it easy to be their quirky and odd selves around the house person! Both parties feel understood and unjudged by the other! Both parties have a “fixed” feeling of feeling secure but also close to one another and over time saturn starts to show as a binding force for the pair! Love is usually expressed randomly and often all over the place between the two but is sooo soo sincere between the couple! Venus is often very excitable and genuine with the house person often dragging the house person to anything out of the norm or amusing! The house person is very found of the venus person! Often easily able to relate and see exactly where they’re coming from! The house person can read the venus persons emotions like a book and similarly to a venus/Uranus connection their is a seemingly love at first sight aspect to this!! But with a more binding energy! Both parties are very electric when together and though venus is slightly airy about the connection they are very emotionally close to the house person because of the easy love/friendship dynamic that exist.

Venus in the 12th house overlay: The Neverland escapades

🎨The neighborhood - sweater weather🎨

“Use the sleeves of my sweater

Let’s have an adventure

Head in the clouds but my gravity’s centered”

•this is very Piscean/Neptunian In nature! Doses and traces of Jupiter can be found but it acts more of the inflated feeling amongst the smog. Both parties can struggle with deciphering what the hell is going on! It can feel like a ungrounded attraction-not knowing what exactly you’re feeling and why you’re feeling it. Similarly to a neptune/venus connection there is a odd but deeply rich sentimental dance between the two people that seems as if it has happened before like deja vu. The venus person is often quiet around the house person! Slightly more submissive and more introspective than usual! Venus often is very unconsciously attracted to the house person, having an almost non judgmental and completely profound depth to their desire for intimacy with the house person which often frightens them seeing as how there is often no tangible source to these feelings. The house person is often equally frightened and tends to either retreat or give venus the run around especially if they’re not used to such feelings! This is a come and go flow unlike the aspect so these people can come and go out of each others lives periodically and in most cases these connections are karmic so it may not be that it’s supposed to develop into anything serious(but mind you this doesn’t mean that just because you have this with a partner it’s doomed! It just mean your relationship has quite a bit of karma attached to it!) their is a need to keep the relationship hidden in most cases and no matter what people will almost never find out about you two dating unless you physically or vocally let them know!

Moon in the 1st house:

The house person becomes encompassed by the Moon person’s emotions. Their actions start to derive towards comfort and security of the relationship. The Moon person often expresses their emotions freely to the house person with little excuse. The Moon person provides emotionally thriving interactions, often understanding what the actions of the house person are. The house person’s body language becomes more expressive.

Moon in the 2nd house:

When someone’s Moon falls into another person’s second house, there is a lot of emotional sensuality and predictability that goes into the relationship. The comfort and security of the house person become the main focus of the Moon person. The Moon person may be seen as someone who spends based on wants and whatever emotionally fulfills them, depending on the house person, they can see this as a good or bad thing. Lots of shared cuddles and soft blankets.

Moon in the 3rd house:

Moon in someone else’s 3rd house encourages the house person to become more verbally open about their emotions. Lots of cooperation and friendly supportive nature. The Moon person occupies the 3rd house person’s mind in a way that makes them care deeply. The house person is often found saying “I feel” a lot more around the Moon person. The Moon person comforts the anxious house person.

Moon in the 4th house:

Familiarity and soul connection is felt here. The house person feels like they have found someone who understands them in a way almost no one else can. The Moon person coddles the house person soul with comfort and blankets. They entrap the house person with deep emotional exprencies, the touching of souls is common and psychic receptivity is felt through the heart.

Moon in the 5th house:

Fun times and heartfelt connection. The Moon person becomes a bearer of humor and maternal grounds to the house person. The house person feels like their creativity becomes more intuitive near this person, the heart is sensitive. Quivering to the touch. Loads of emotions are played out in almost theatrical expressions. Laughter and tears are shared from one soul to the other’s heart.

Moon in the 6th house:

Acts of service and emotional support are bound in this synastry. The Moon person becomes one who comforts at an almost daily basis, leaving the house person feeling like their days are emotionally fulfilled (or not, depending on the Moon person). The way the Moon person can go about caring for the house person is through running errands, working, cleaning, and healing the house person.

Moon in the 7th house:

A good synastry for an emotionally balanced relationship. The Moon person activates the house person’s other half by intuitive means. The house person feels as if their missing half is filled through the soul. The two become emotionally understanding companions, the Moon person sheds new insights on emotional issues of the house person, becoming like a problem solver. It’s not intense or extreme, but rather a good marriage synastry, a basic emotional understanding is inevitable.

Moon in the 8th house:

This is a tough pill to swallow in a synastry. The house person now owns the Moon person’s deepest desires and soul. Secrets pour in from the Moon person directly to the house person. The Moon is scared, and almost feels entrapped, but it’s like a horror movie and she keeps coming back for more. It’s possessive and even if the two separate, they still feel a misunderstood way of coming back to each other.

Moon in the 9th house:

A common theme with this synastry is emotional expansion. The Moon person now goes on emotional expenditures with the house person. Traveling through the soul of the house person, the Moon may find a home anywhere with them. Feelings of idealism and joy are effervescent. The house person feels like they are put on a sort of higher being type of pedestal, they feel like they are brought to higher and higher levels in everything.

Moon in the 10th house:

The house person now has a supporting role and partner in their public image. The Moon person becomes like a push for them, supporting their goals and aspirations, especially in business and career. This can be a bit of a traditional relationship, the relationship is really public and may end up being like “trophy wife” or “trophy husband” if it’s a romantic one. The base of emotional security is essential and often provided by both parties, but the Moon person may still feel uncomfortable having such private parts of them exposed like so.

Moon in the 11th house:

The universal best friends, the connection feels cosmic and like a dream that you knew was going to come from the future. The Moon person is supportive of the goals the house person has set for society, and often is there to help them reach it by intuitive means. Often secluding each other from the social scene for times of intimate soulful connection. The feeling like you can both be yourself around each other is really comforting and happy, little judgement is enacted, especially when it comes to your emotions.

Moon in the 12th house:

Venus in partner’s 1st House

Very fast attraction. The House person has the qualities the Venus person likes, whether it’s the apperance, manners or style(how they generally present themselves). It’s the placement for “love at first sight”.

Venus in partner’s 2nd House

A need to be physical, a lot of touching between these two. The Venus person brings out the House person’s possessive side. The Venus person is something the House person wants to have(could be  avery superficial placement, the house person might treat Venus like an object). They buy eachother a lot of gifts.

Venus in partner’s 3rd House:

The house person will be very verbally sweet to the Venus person. The Venus will inspire them to be kinder in their words, more lovely and could even help them start writing/express their creative side through talking. Love letters, messages that make the other smile throughout the day.

Venus in partner’s 4th House:

Venus reminds them of home. A very family-oriented placement. The Venus partner has the kind of love the house person needs in order to feel nurtured, comforted. Venus too finds the House person very caring and protective. The type of relationship to prefer at home dates.

Venus in partner’s 5th House

A very exciting and full of pleasure kind of love. The house person views the Venus as someone they would need in order to satisfy their need for play/fun. Venus will be attracted to the 5th House’s creativity and artistry. This relationship either doesn’t last long or never loses its “spark”. 

Venus in partner’s 6th House

Venus brings beauty and pleasure into the House person’s daily life. They could make little gestures that would “make their day”, their presence adds harmony. A very “giving” type of love, they will always be by the other’s side and support eachother.

Venus in partner’s 7th House

Dependency, a strong need to please the other, adjust their love in the way the other person wants them to. The couple that’s always together, always calls the other to tell them what they’re up to. A real “marriage” placement, because of how willing both parties are to always work things out. 

Venus in partner’s 8th House

Very secretive and sexual. In this relationship sex and intimacy is a big factor.There could be possessiveness, jealousy and obsession with the partner(especially coming from the House person’s side). The Venus person is attracted to the house person’s dark side and mystery.  

Venus in partner’s 9th House

Their love could’ve started spontaneously or they might’ve met while on vacation. The House person’s adventurous and curious side is brought out in this relationship by the venus person.This love could be a lesson/growth experience. 

Venus in partner’s 10th House

The House person sees Venus as someone they’re proud to have and show off. This could also be a very superficial placement, because the House person could use Venus’s love in order to benefit in some way. Nonetheless it’s great for having a future together.

Venus in partner’s 11th House

Could’ve met through friends or in some type of group. It might’ve started as a friendship. Not the most showy relationship, they could be mistaken for friends.Their dates could be very casual, even with other people around them. Very easygoing for both parties.

Venus in partner’s 12th House

Where Pluto lands in your natal chart is where your most unconscious security needs determine your decisions and actions. It represents the evolutionary soul past you come from. At your first Saturn return, Plutonian issues make themselves known by recreating themes from your earlier environment. Saturn’s return compels us to visit our earlier years so we can attempt to solve Pluto’s evolutionary puzzle in our lives. This is generally when the evolutionary intent of the soul collides with patterns from the past and we are challenged to break free or remain stuck in Pluto’s grip.

Transits to Pluto (or from Pluto) cause change by:

Emotional shock through loss or cataclysmic events (e.g., eviction, death, termination)

A perceived need for relationships to people, places, and subjects (e.g., sudden interest in spirituality, a specific country, an affair or fascination with a new friend)

Steady growth where a gradual release of old patterns and behaviors gives way to new opportunities and situations

Actualizing internal desires to become something beyond ourselves (e.g, the impetus to write a book, become a parent, or run for office).

Pluto transits are far more kind to those who have surfaced subconscious behaviors and are actively trying to integrate Pluto themes. Look to the opposite house and sign where Pluto lies in your chart to determine how to reconcile unconscious Pluto conditioning. 

Pluto in the natal chart

1st House: You are in every sense of the word a Plutonian person. You seek the truth and no matter how dark it appears. Over the years you have learned to hold back your true self to keep the peace; however in repressing your true intensity and leadership desires, a compulsion to manipulate and control others can manifest.

To evolve, look to your 7th house of relationships, partnerships, and diplomacy. Learn to connect to the rawness of others to become the kind of leader you are destined to be. 

2nd House: Security feels like life or death and an extreme desire to hold on to things, jobs, people, or situations that you have outgrown are ongoing themes. With Pluto in the 2nd you compulsively seek a kind of security that is insatiable, where the comforts of the material world are always tainted with a kind of inescapable scarcity. 

To evolve, let go of everything material, and embrace your inner strength. Open yourself to the soul-level vulnerability of the 8th house. You will find true security in your ability to walk away from the job you’re over-qualified for, your overflowing closet, and the friends who you’ve outgrown and embrace the unknown.

3rd House: Your perceptions tilt towards the taboo, the unseen. You refuse to play along with social niceties bereft of truth just to keep the peace. Rather, you are emotionally compelled to call out hypocrisy and conspiracy when you see it, but your intensity begins to take a toll. Your bleak lens upon humanity begins to turn you bitter and you miss out on the joie de vivre that is life.

To evolve, put your inner life into words. Open yourself up through healing conversation. Risk being known and accept that not everyone can see what you see. Once you reclaim your voice, you will lose the need for confrontation.

4th House: You are learning to derive security from within, a process that most likely started with your family when you realized they could not provide you with the emotional support you needed. Much of your emotional patterning is built upon prior life experience which you will initially attempt to resolve through others by alternating between domination and manipulation. When these actions fail to produce the security you seek, the 4th house Pluto native will learn to become more dependent upon themselves to meet their emotional needs. 

To evolve, take responsible for your actions and reactions. By walking your life path with intention, you are able to gain ownership over your feeling nature, lessening your dependence on others. By fully feeling and questioning all of your emotions, you will learn how to control your emotional triggers and achieve the security you seek. 

5th House: You are here to creatively self-actualize yourself through projects, endeavors, and an elevated position in society. Your need for acknowledgement and validation feels endless and can become a source of neurosis if not met to the degree which you feel is congruent with your destiny. You often mistakenly believe to know the wants and needs of others, and are hurt when your generous efforts are gone unacknowledged.

To evolve, look for ways that your need to be exceptional and in the spotlight can translate into progress for the greater good. In learning to that you are a channel for creativity and not the sole source of it, the accolades you see seek will follow.

6th House: You are here to learn service to society, culture, and individuals. Along the way you are here to learn about humility and self-improvement through intense self-analysis. Your extraordinary insight is turned inward, and you are learning to see yourself clearly as part of a larger whole. Through this awareness, criticism is challenging for you to receive as you are constantly seeking to atone for your shortcomings. In not achieving the perfection you seek, you risk projecting your failures onto others or turning them inward resulting in procrastination and anxiety. Crisis brings these issues to light.

To evolve, you must seek connection to the divine. Once you feel that you are part of something larger than yourself, your work will become aligned with meaning. You learn to more clearly see relationships, to forgive yourself and others, and know true humility. Your life flows with the divine.

7th House: Through others, you are learning your own value and individuality within social contexts. Fundamentally Pluto in the 7th house is about equality in relationships –  and often through many of them. You instinctively listen and fulfill the needs of your partner and find comfort in meeting their needs. You risk losing yourself in relationship by giving so much that you leave little for yourself. Partnerships tend to be unequal or overly dependent leaving little room to grow. In extreme cases Pluto forces separation.

To evolve, learn when to give and when to not. Direct your own life decisions and create relationships that work for you. Learn how to fulfill your needs on your own, and do not give out of guilt or fear. 

8th House: You feel compelled to transcend the limits of yourself through money, sex, or the occult. Your subconscious death wish comes from a desire for transformative power, and you are constantly a catalyst through sex or psychological intimacy. Unchecked, you risk becoming overly manipulative and possessive in your vulnerability. Separation triggers rage against the little deaths you secretly set in motion. 

To evolve, look towards the stability of the 2nd house to fulfill your inner needs. In learning to transform yourself through personal growth and fulfillment, you meet others who will want to transform with you, rather than through you. Honor your power by surfacing what’s unsaid, taboo, the hidden – the extremities of life. You are here to uncover the unseen forces of truth.

9th House: You seek out the reasons behind our connection to the larger forces sensed in the 8th house and seek to explain them, but often lack the words. You feel alienated from your own culture, rootless, and instead consider yourself a citizen of the world in search for deeper meaning. Your intuition is strong and spiritual – a placement you share with leaders like Nostradamus, Jesus, and Kahlil Gibran, but you have difficulty trusting in it as sometimes you confuse it with your inner desire. In your search for grounding, you may hold fast to beliefs or philosophies that you feel necessary to convert others to in search of your own emotional security. Misunderstood by many, you tend to seek out only those who share your vision.

To evolve, learn how to communicate your vision into words others can understand. Share your message. Remain open to the views, philosophies and opinions of others and learn that there are many paths to wisdom. In doing so, you will find your place in the cosmic order.

10th House: Like all cardinal houses, Pluto in the 10th represents the start of a new cycle. You determine your individuality through your status in society. You have mastered the hierarchical structures in place and continue to climb the ladder until you reach the top. In your ambition, you may have manipulated and played unfairly in your quest for success, rejecting your internal morals and values in exchange for status. You risk over-identifying with your career, or worse, becoming despotic in your desire for power and control. 

To evolve, find an outlet other than career and status to identify with. Once you are able to accept that even if everything is taken from you, you will still be okay, your block towards a rewarding life and career you love will fall away.

11th House: You long to be free of the confines of society who arbitrarily dictates who and what you should be. Internally, you have a deep sense of being completely different from the people around you. Your destiny is to be innovative, rebellious, even revolutionary. In finding your way, you risk migrating so far out on the fringes of society that you drop out all together. In extreme cases, 11th house Pluto natives may attempt to vindictively destroy existing systems becoming anti-social outlaws. Others may reject their individuality altogether and instead cling to the status quo which further reinforces a feeling of disconnection. 

To evolve, sever attachments that prevent personal growth and objectivity through the blows of life. The fixed nature of the 11th house struggles with change which conflicts with your misfit identity than desires acceptance. Rather than resist and resent mainstream society, your task is to identify that which makes you unique and seek out kinship in this process. You are meant to leave the past behind and innovate a new way of doing things.

12th House: You have the unique ability to spiritualize all aspects of your life. In the Pisces house, you sense that the source of life is continually in development and your connection to that sources is boundless. In your quest to understand this part of yourself, you feel as if you are standing on the edge of the known world where you could easily slide back into what is known and cling to security or step out into the depths of spirituality. Often you find yourself paralyzed with fear, afraid to move in either direction. In a desperate search for control, you may over-identify with a specific egocentric aspect of yourself as a way to avoid Pluto’s disintegration of the self. In rejecting your soul’s evolutionary pull, you risk living in a fantasy world in a quest to find a life with meaning. 

To evolve, plunge into the abyss. You are here to learn faith, to surrender to a higher power, and to let go of the illusion of the ego. Until you completely surrender to this power, a continuing cycle of crisis will repeatedly pull you towards ego release. With every cycle, you will stumble upon more realizations that will lead you towards spiritual guidance. 

Okay, so have this huge draft of 1st houses signs with celebrity examples and all that jazz that haven’t posted because I found that most people were going to find it inaccurate. But then I thought about it for a second, I noticed that some celebrities who were dominate in a certain sign had the same features as some one with that sign as their rising sign or also dominate in that sign. So here’s my “theory,” if everything in your chart makes you you– your personality, etc., then it makes up your appearance as well! Of course I have no idea if this 100% true, But so far, about 7.5/10 of the time, I can guess if someone was dominate in a certain sign. Not every Aries rising or Aries dom. will look the same, and they’re are others things that I didn’t get too into like decans, etc.So look at dominate signs, planets and houses, or any signs/planets that are located in the more public houses (1st, 7th, 10th), they might be more noticeable.

Placements that are great for sexual or intense relationships are in bold

Venus in another 5th house- They adore each other so much; a lovey-dovey relationship. The Venus person inspires the house person to create and love. They are each other’s muses. Anything with the 5th house can add a layer of jealously and possessiveness because they want to be each other’s one and only. This can be either endearing or draining. When it’s endearing, it’s a very special and creative relationship.

Neptune/Jupiter 8th house- The planet person is really generous in all means with the house person. Sexual wise, Jupiter add quantity of sex and commitment, and Neptune adds magic to sex and a deep level of understanding each others darker side.

Moon conjunct Asc./Moon in another 1st/7th house- The Moon person sees the house person as one of their own, and the two immediately find comfort in each other. The they will adore the other person’s cute and childlike qualities. The house person likes the Moon’s feminine qualities. The house may or may not like this placement due to the Moon acting like a mother figure at times or always responding emotionally to their outward energy. All in all, it’s a sweet connection.

(Since relationships are often reflections and are super complicated, the Venus person and the house person can switch roles. So if I said Venus does one thing, the other person could do it as well.)

1st house: Paris Bordone, Venus and Mars with Cupid (1559)

Venus sees the beauty in the Ascendant person’s physical appearance and offers her love not only through praise but through items of beauty such as art, fashion, makeup, etc. Thus, the Ascendant person sees Venus as an artist or at least someone with shared and good style. Venus feels attractive and admired because of this. If afflicted, Venus can be seen as obsessed over superficial beauty and non-confrontational in their physical expressions. Both may feel like they only way they can relate to each other are through physical expression of love and material beauty. There is harmony and love in basic interactions. Venus finds any coarse behavior from the house person even more appalling than without this placement.

- craves individuality, friendship, acceptance & rebelliousness in relationships

- is unique, genuine and free-spirited in relationships, and thrives with someone who shares these qualities

- freedom and space are very important to you, and you don’t want to feel restricted or tied down

- commitment issues and emotional detachment may be present in your relationships (can be you or your partner), so that’s something to watch out for

*Check Juno (sign + house) and 7th House* Aries / 1st House: an assertive, protective, and energetic partner who may be impulsive and may experience skin and head related ailments. They will possess Aries, Mars, or 1st House influences. Your connection to them will enhance your self-esteem and your image.

Taurus / 2nd House: a passive, sensual, and comforting partner who may be stubborn, indulgent in comforts, and creative. They will possess Taurus, Venus, or 2nd House influences. They will help you find value in yourself.

Gemini / 3rd House: a communicative, humorous, and restless partner who may be unpredictable, exciting, and fun. They will possess Gemini, Mercury, or 3rd House influences. You may meet your soulmate in your childhood, your school, or within your community.

Cancer / 4th House: a nurturing, emotional, and compassionate partner who may be clingy, home-bodied, and domestic. They will possess Cancer, Moon, or 4th house influences. Your partner will be strongly rooted to their family and their home.

Leo / 5th House: a creative, loyal, and confident partner who may be dramatic, playful, and self-centered. They will possess Leo, Sun, or 5th House influences. They will help you embrace your self-expression and creativity. You may meet them through parties, creative/artistic events or places, and through the arts field.

Virgo / 6th House: a helpful, critical, and resourceful partner who may be a tense and practical perfectionist. They will possess Virgo, Mercury, or 6th House influences. They will help you think realistically and help you improve your flaws. You may meet them through work or through school. 

Libra / 7th House: a loving, affectionate, and harmonic partner who may be clingy, passive, and superficial. They will possess Libra, Venus, or 7th House placements. They will treat you as their equal and make you feel at peace. You may meet them when you are focused on another relationship. You may not know they’re destined for you for a long time.

Scorpio / 8th House: an intense, passionate, and sultry partner who may be perceptive, obsessive, and sexual. They will possess Scorpio, Pluto, or 8th House influences. They will transform your life and your outlook on love and the connection you will have will be powerful. You will know when you meet them because your entire life will change.

Sagittarius / 9th House: a philosophical, adventurous, and jovial partner who may be freedom-loving, rebellious, and blunt. They will possess Sagittarius, Jupiter, or 9th House influences. They will open your mind and introduce you to exciting places you have never seen. They may be foreign, far away from your home, or have significantly different beliefs and values as you when you meet them.

Capricorn / 10th House: a grounded, ambitious, and supportive partner who may be demanding, hard-working, and disciplined. They will possess Capricorn, Saturn, or 10th House influences. They will improve your work ethic and your reputation, guiding you to be a better person and work hard for your success. You may meet them through work or in your adult life.

Aquarius / 11th House: a unique, intelligent, and caring partner who may be rebellious, moody, and unpredictable. They will possess Aquarius, Uranus, or 11th House influences. They will bring excitement into your life! They will be your friend before you find that they are meant for you romantically and they may be from a different religion or culture than you.