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Hi, does this blog is just for asexual or is it also for a aromantic ?
Hi! Sorry for the late reply. I've been dealing with a lot of personal issues and haven't really had the time or energy to check the inbox or notifications.
This blog is for all under the many aspec umbrellas: asexual, aromantic, agender and everything in between.
-Mod Cruel
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Just a heads up, this blog is probably going to be going silent for a while. With the anon submission about a bad breakup getting so much negative attention, it's draining me a good deal. People think that starting a relationship with someone you think you like and then learning you don't feel the same way your partner does somehow makes you the bad person.
I am here to emphasize that you do not control who you do or do not have feelings for, and you can care about someone a great deal without being in love with them. If you're unsure of how you feel, all you can do is be honest with yourself and your partner. If your partner does not respond well to your honesty or uncertainty, it is not your fault.
I'm thinking of looking for another mod to help. I try to vet all the notifications I get, but I can't always get everything. I'll block what I can, but if you see hate or negativity in the notes on any of the posts, please take care of yourselves and block them.
Reach out if you're interested in being a mod, but it might take a while for me to respond as I'm not feeling too well as of late.
Take care of yourselves and know that I hope every single one of you has the opportunity to grow and feel loved for who you are.
-Mod Cruel
Dear aphobes: Lesbians are not your “gotcha.” You are not actually concerned about lesbians, you’re just using them as props for your agenda.
Dear aphobes: I don’t see how me getting sexually harassed by people who I thought were my friends once they found out I’m asexual is “just misogyny,” uh, considering I’m a guy.
Dear aphobes: If you’re so concerned that a-spec people are “cishets pretending so that they can get it,” kick everyone out. A cishet can pretend to be any of your “real LGBT” identities. Why are we the only ones targeted?
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Dear aphobes: I’ve known since I was sixteen that I was a-spec. I was given the “you’re too young to be anything.” When I asked if I was too young to be straight, she replied that, again, I was “too young to be anything.” A-spec people may not be “oppressed enough,” in your eyes, but we are still marginalized.
Dear aphobes: I’m not “waiting” or “wanting to be special.” I’m physically incapable of feeling attraction until the right circumstances arise. And I’m in a loving relationship, so don’t give me the “you’re just too lazy to find someone.”
Dear aphobes, you are the reason why support for us has dwindled down to "aces are real". Which isnt bad, but its awful that thats the best we get sometimes.
Dear Aphobes, i just want to rant because you don't understand how hard it is so feel like you have no acceptance anywhere, within the LGBTQ+ community and outside of it, it sucks being the "others", it sucks to be barely accepted, you know like a "yeah whatever i guess you can be LGBTQ+ too", to feel like your struggle isn't enough (although we are struggling on both sides), to feel like you are not queer enough to be vocal about it, it hurts okay and it's not fair. So fuck you.
Dear Aphobes, I came out almost 3 years ago. I thought that I wouldn't know any other ace people unless I went looking on the internet. I thought I was alone. Within a year, a friend of mine told me she was asexual as well. 3 of my friends identify as ace or aro on top of my other lgbt+ friends. So yeah, I'm looking forward to my next pride!
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Dear aphobes, fuck you for belittling my friend and saying he is confused. Shut the fuck up, and pull yourself together, oh wait! you don’t have the strength to, cuz you are lousy little wimps ☺️
Dear aphobes, my boyfriend was a mess after we broke up. I told him I was aromantic, and he practically broke down. He asked if anything I ever did with him meant anything to me, and he went on and on about how bad it felt to not be loved back. Stop implying that aspec people are aspec just because they're unlovable, or ugly, or just can't find a partner in general.
Dear aphobes: shut up.
Dear aphobes, someone being ace doesn't mean that they have to prove to you that they're really lgbt. Shocking, I know, but not everyone wants to get involved in discourse about their own identities!
Dear aphobes, if you react to someone saying "hey imagine if someone said this phobic thing with gay people as the target" with "oh but gays are Really Oppressed," then you're a piece of shit. The point wasn't to prove how we're "oppressed enough" to be in the community, the point was that your words and actions are actually rancid, and that you're needlessly harassing us. Even if we weren't oppressed, you're still being assholes.
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dear aphobes, please just stop infantilizing us. for once. i know you have some rationale about how we deserve it, but is it really too much to ask for you to take us seriously?
Dear aphobes, i hate that I feel like I have to watch what I say, even if it's the truth. I have an ex-friend who's cisgender, heteroromantic, and asexual. She also happened to be a transphobic asshole. The problem is, I can't mention her identity whenever I talk about her. I can't explain why she should have known better, I can't do anything without her "proving" that "cis het aces" are always trans/homophobic.