failed_Angel

does it feel infantilizing and borderline ableist to anyone else that the majority of phys disability discord servers/groups, even if they're 18+, require you to censor mentions of drinking, weed or even smoking cigarettes? particularly smoking, like, those are normal things that adults do, including disabled adults. yeah it's bad for your health, we all know that, but a lot of people in disability spaces moralize it to the point it's frowned upon to merely mention a cheeky morning fag in a space full of other disabled ppl and i don't understand why

having poor circulation is great because people will touch your hand and go 'oh! you're so cold!' and for a moment you get to experience what it's like to be a vampire in a romance novel