What? Your Descendant is ruled by Libra and Venus. It mainly represents relationships, partners, romance and who are attracted and why. Your Descendant is exactly opposite to your ascendant/rising sign and is held on the cusp of the 7th house. 

Aries: You will attract and are attracted to people who possess Mars like qualities. People who are obvious, loud, aggressive (not like punch aggressive), blunt, and bright. You will have a libra Rising, and this indecisive, fair ‘attitude’ directly contradicts with the bright, aggressive, in your face people they attract. You are attracted to very kind and generous people too though.

Taurus: People who can provide for you are attractive in your opinion, in a relationship you crave someone who can be co-dependant with you and you can equally (heavily) rely on each other. You will have a Scorpio Rising sign, and this means you love to help people become the best version of themselves, so you may be attracted to people who are not similar to you so you can help them build on qualities they lack. 

Gemini: You have a Sagittarius Rising to go with your Descendant. In relationships you like to be with someone you can feel free with, you like adventurous, constant change, and not too heavy commitment (at least at first). It will take the right kind of person to persuade you into marriage but you fall in love with the people you think are the most true and kind hearted (that’s your weakness). 

Cancer: With a Capricorn rising , the people around you are the ones you hold the most dear and near to your heart. You are attracted to people who have similar family backgrounds to you, because this is a part of your life you find important to relate on. You attract people who want to take control of a relationship, you love to have an equal involvement, but like to be treated and be the one in a back seat. 

Leo: Love can become an obsession to you, you are likely to be undoubtedly in love with love, This means you are attracted to people who are romantic, and pick out the smallest of  details. You are incredibly attracted to people who make you feel like you can do more than what you already do, people who are inspiring and kind. You attract eccentric people who don’t know how to fit in because you show them they do. (Aquarius Rising).

Virgo: You are someone who changes yourself for you partner without even realising. You fall in love and are attracted to people who point out things about you that are permanent and you don’t change. For example “I love your natural curly hair”; it makes you feel actually wanted. You attract (luckily) very kind hearted people because they know they can give you a lot of love and affection. Pisces Rising. 

Libra: You are someone who might overuse the term “it’s not you, it’s me”, but really mean it. You are attracted to people who tell you to sort your head out, and tell you not only when you are in the wrong, but when actually you aren’t. You are also attracted to people who really considers your feelings and needs. You attract lively and tenacious people, people who are fun loving and natural smooth talkers. Rising is Aries.

Scorpio: You partner will choose you because they want to really feel love. Your rising is Taurus. You are attracted to passionate people, who never do anything to make you feel jealous and concerned (unstable) in your relationship. You attract strong minded individuals. You fall in love very hard and crave the same in return. 

Sagittarius: You are attracted to people you can talk on another level with; whether this is a deep talk or an intelligent conversation, In fact, you value the conversations over anything else. You attract people with hell of a will power. You attract people you are blunt and not co-dependant. Your Rising is Gemini, so you also think a physical connection is important, and will attract partners who feel the same. 

Capricorn: You have a very emotional and sensitive rising sign; Cancer. You are attracted to people who value family and get along with yours (no matter what your relationship with them is). You tend to really fall for people who don’t make you feel like you have to do anything, as you often will feel like you need to be perfect and do everything perfectly for them. You attract people who have a huge sense of humour and love to be safe and feel secure.

Aquarius: You are attracted to people who challenge and attract people who are full on and intense. You fall in love with people who wear their hearts on their sleeves and love very openly and publicly. You attract people who want a 24/7 relationship and someone to really rely on. The people who want you tend to be wanted and are fairly dependant on you to make them feel good. You also attract very understanding people. Rising in Leo. 

I know you are having bad sex. Own up to the number of bad sex you have had. I am sure you can list the sex you’ve given up and you’ve regretted it. On the flip side there have been amazing sex that you wish would continue all the time. Here I want to make bottoms have better sex. There are some tips that tops will never tell you because tops get a thrill from a bottom running from his dick. He tells his friends, us bottoms cannot handle the dick. Well, here are ten tips bottoms can use to become better in bed with the man they love.

1. SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE

The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to the dick. It is given, that your back will be arched. This tip is given under the impression that you know how to arch the back to reduce sexual pain. 

2. PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED

There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This allows you to release the pressure in your back, going to the ass. For experienced guys, placing their chest on the bed is easy. If this is still difficult for you, twist your upper back/chest to the top, which forces you to look at the top. This is a trick but allows you to disguise that you are feeling his dick way in those guts. 

3. PUSH YOUR ASS OUT

This is the best tip I can ever give a bottom. Now, sometimes, tops love when bottoms grip the ass. I get that, they want to feel a tight boi pussy. However, on the flip side, if you understand the art of pushing the ass out, you can make him cum quicker. So try one minute of gripping the ass and another minute of consciously pushing your ass out. I get it. This can be a difficult technique to try especially when a dick is stuck inside you. In other words, try relaxing your ass. This allows the top to enjoy the warmth of your hole but relaxing your ass allows him to enjoy your hole more which makes him reach his climax a little early. 

4. GET FREAKY, IT WORKS

Tell him to grad your hair, spank you, spit on your hole or even on you.. The point is, allow him to truly dominate you. The truth is, if a guy is averagely turned on by dominance, giving him the powers or the idea that he is more powerful than he is will make him cum quicker. It is true. I am not a guy that loves spanking and grabbing hair. But, if you give me the idea that you like being dominated, it will turn me on more. Use this time to grab the sheets. Fake it till you make it. Sometimes, a top is fucking a bottom doggy style and it is normal. However, if you allow him to grab your hair or he sees you grabbing the sheets and carrying on, it turns him on even more. The sooner he cums, the more sexual points the bottom gets for getting him to cum. 

5. REACH FOR HIS BALLS

This doesn’t work for all tops but if you find a top who likes his balls played with. This could be your entry into getting him to nut faster. Don’t touch them with dry fingers, wet them. A top loves everything wet, mushy and nasty. Try feeling his balls, and gently touch them.

6. WHAT DID I SAY ABOUT WETNESS

Tops love wetness. If you are able to cream, even better. Tell a top to eat you wet. He will use the same wetness from eating you as the lube during sex. Spit on your fingers and wipe it over your ass when he pulls out. The mushier the bottom, the deeper the top will go. 

7. JUST ALLOW HIM TO FUCK YOU

Sometimes, us bottoms, we want bigger and bigger dicks but we don’t allow the big dick to really fuck us. I remember craving big dicks but couldn’t manage them. One day, I made up my mind to shut the hell up and allow the top to fuck me. What you are doing, is allowing the top to open up the ass. This is important for any other dick that comes after. Fucking a curved 10 inch dick is different from fucking a 9 inch straight dick. They hit different spots, especially if the tops know what they are doing. So bottoms must become smart in the bedroom too. Shut the hell up and allow the top to fuck you. As I wrote before, push the ass out and make up your mind to be fucked. If you are genuinely scared, try ordering some poppers, drink a beer and get a little tipsy. You want two good tops fucking you like this, then every other dick in the world will be easy. Trust me.

8. EXTREME BOTTOMING

The second you allow the top to spread his legs wider than yours he gets to go deeper. Deeper for a bottom means pain, for the top it means he may get you to cream - which every bottom wants to experience. If you are allowing the bottom to go deeper, learn to push the ass out. Extreme bottoming is for those who like that dick deep. 

9. TALK DIRTY

Nothing gets a top off more than hearing him carry on. I don’t know what you should say, but tell him the right things. Tell him, how deep he is going and how it makes you feel. As a top, the moment I hear the top call my name…I wanna nut.

10. PULL THAT LEG IN

Still a variation of the doggy style. Try pulling a leg in when the top is behind you. I find that bottoms prefer this position, especially for those who can’t handle the dick.