our reality of a thing is our perception of it

Pantheon Aesthetics

desire hooded eyes tracking stalking predator

held immobile with anticipation and silken bounds

leather kissing flesh

in many forms and guises

sensual to stern to beyond forceful

love bruises left behind

blushing red to purple black

striped and marked

Passenger’s particular type of

tender loving care

rolling to peaking pain

crashing into waves of pleasure

undone by sensation

hard intense full

encompassing

tear tracked cheeks and muffled screams

I want more women to feel empowered to do this.

Scars from breast cancer can be both hard to hide and embarrassing for some women. I wish they weren’t, because scars mean you’re a fighter and a bad ass.

Women have told me after their mastectomy they felt self conscious about someone seeing their chest. My grandmother wore her false breast (she had only one boob removed) around even the house for a long time. (Of course, now when we were taking about the procedure she asked “want to see my boob?” And had to go fetch it from the other room. It was an interesting conversation to say the least.)

Anyway, breast reconstruction can be expensive, and some women either don’t want it or can’t have it done for various reasons.

But you know what, chest tattoos are easily accessible. There are even tattoo shops that give discounts to women covering up breast cancer scars. And women who no longer have a nipple? You can get a bad ass tattoo

Check out

Their site starts like this:

They host pink day:

Check out some of the work on their site:

You can donate to the organization, or if you know a tattoo artist you can let them know they accept volunteers to be a part of their community of artists.

Here is another badass lady and her bad ass tattoo (found on pinterest)

These are cancer survivors reclaiming their bodies.

Banning all “female presenting” nipples ignores a commuity of women who are total bad asses who said “fuck you” to their cancer scars and turned them into art.

Not every image of a female nipple should be sexualized. This is not porn, this is courage and strength.

Are the new regulations going to delete this post. Does a post supporting a cancer survivors violate Tumblr’s community guidelines?

So women reclaiming their bodies after breast cancer is “sensitive content” and should be hidden from minors.

So I went to the ER yesterday because I lost a plug up my ass. Went 5 towns over because I live in a small rural community and my job is extremely public and for the city. After I freaked out for 15 minutes I dressed my plugged ass and off I went.

The hilarity commenced as soon as I started talking to the intake person when she wasn’t sure what to put down as the reason for my visit and I suggested foreign object anal retrieval…. she choose to leave it blank.

I had to get an xray and my pants needed to be off so the tech gave me a sheet for “modesty sake” (his words) and I’m like dude I have a frikken plug stuck in my ass, I have no modesty left to speak of.

When that was done a nurse came in (she is a Saint) and talked the doctor into letting her try to retrieve it first so I wouldn’t have to go through a consult. I was cracking jokes and she said “Don’t worry about it. We’ve all be here”. And I looked at her 🤨 and said “Oooooh reeallly?” which got her to laughing.

Thank all that is good she got it out. Afterward I offered to be her lesbian lover if she went that way. The other nurse said I was welcome back any time for whatever reason….. But hopefully not for this. And to get a wider flanged plug. These two nurses are getting a huge ginormous treat basket from me.

So all in all not a bad experience beside my initial minor (apocalyptic) freak out and I stupidly decided to see if I could fish it out with a pair of needle nosed pliers (no worries I came to my senses before I did anything dumb).

I broke 3 cherries 🍒 (losing a toy in me, hospital treatment for said lost toy, and anal fisting 🤣)

Best $200 I ever spent.

I am now sitting at home with my extremely happy unplugged ass.

Morals of the story…. Always keep your sense of humour because it makes everything so much easier, and get your ass to the hospital and let them do what they do if you run into issues, and be honest. Trust me they know it didn’t accidently happen because you “fell weird”.

*Oh and to top it all off, as I was sitting and being seen, I was wishing I had showered this morning and moisturized, and had on cute panties instead of my period underware because apparently having a plug in my ass sideways was incidental compared to those things 🤦‍♀️. I guess I do have my girl moments.