daaimiel speaks

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

no, of course you weren’t too much. you didn’t push too far, you never crossed a boundary. if you had, i would have safeworded; but you’re wonderfully quick at recognizing the slightest bit of genuine discomfort, steering the scene away from that long before it ever becomes necessary. it warms me every time.

you know i don’t mind that you get off on hurting me. really the opposite — there’s nothing i love more than watching the freed aggression in your eyes when you hold me down, take what you want, and just let yourself have me; and there’s nothing wrong with you for enjoying what we did, too. besides, for all the bruises you leave on my skin, for all the screams and whimpers you drag out of me… i never feel more cherished and at ease than when we do this together.

and i also like it, genuinely love it, when you’re mean to me. or pretend to be. i know we play around with fear a lot; you’re so good at being intimidating when you want to be, and fuck, you know i like feeling scared. but truth is — you don’t scare me. not like this, in the reality of it, when you’re being so gentle, making sure i feel so comfortable and cared for.

an idea I’ve had on my mind as of late is being at a sleepover and getting so insanely turned on at the sight of someone trying to tease me through the course of the evening. wear short, cute pajama pants that ride up their ass whenever they bend ever. a tight little top that does nothing to hide those nipples I want to suck on and play with so bad. just them torturing me all night, wiggling their ass at me, plopping into my lap when all of our group when our group is sitting together and rubbing into my crotch, scratching my head and whispering sweet nothings in my ear, pausing every few moments to nip at the lobe and lick it. 

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Pick up your room and bring any dishes/dirty laundry out

Finish any work that you're putting off until tomorrow

Eat a snack especially if you forgot a meal or two

Take a warm bath/shower to de-stress

Wash your face and brush your teeth

Spray your scent around your room

Lay out tomorrows outfit and make your daily plan for tomorrow if you have energy

Make/curl up in your nest to your favorite podcast/music/asmr

Text your mate/pack goodnight if you have any

Try to get sleep before midnight

- do not drink coffee or energy drinks past 5pm

- stop studying at midnight

- remember your grades are not your value as a human being, the education system in the west is extremely flawed and is not an accurate measure of someone's intelligence, know your limits

- try your best to choose a healthy snack especially if you skipped meals because speaking from personal experience you will wake up feeling sick and you will feel like you're going to pass out in the morning, not the best for productivity

- if you wear a binder I better not catch you sleeping in it 😤

- try to drink water at 5pm so then you don't wake up in the middle of the night, but you still are a little bit hydrated

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