no more

Men are not the only ones capable of sexual abuse, and I understand that this is not what this post is probably about, however, it doesnt make it morally correct by any means. Women can rape and abuse, not just men. Thus, such actions can bring on legitimate trauma for anyone. I have a friend, who is indeed biologically female, but due to his trauma, is uncomfortable, and will actually panic when presented with genitals of any kind. Is this him trying to be misogynistic? Is this him actively being a twat? Nonono. This is what others made him into. It was not a choice. For any biological men who are triggered themself, it is likely not a choice.

You cannot choose your sexuality, nor can you choose what is upsetting and what is not.

The user @fuckallnbs/@fucknbs-2, previously @fucknbs (see my #fucknbs tag), does all of the following to nonbinary people/supporters:

- Harasses relentlessly - Bullies - Insults - Calls slurs - Suicide-baits

In addition, she:

- Does these things to people who are minding their own business, not people who are in discourse tags - Will not stop doing it - Cannot be reasoned with or changed - Comes back with a new URL whenever banned and harasses the same people from before - Tells (nonbinary) people to kill themselves

Found them. They’re now @fucknbs-3. Block, y’all! <3

@staff, an IP ban would be lovely. This is their fifth account for the same purpose without changing what they’re doing.

it effects everything.

being trans is easier when youre white.

being gay is easier when youre white.

being disabled is easier when youre white.

being a woman is easier when youre white.

being autistic is easier when youre white.

oppression is eased when you are white, as you get extra privileges, and your whiteness is seen as a positive characteristic that in some ways counter-balances your other forms of being a minority. whiteness controls everything.

you are automatically way more innocent in your own oppression as a gay, trans, disabled person because of your whiteness.

http://www.mensadviceline.org.uk/

http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/help-for-abused-men.htm

http://www.malesurvivor.org/

http://www.safeaustin.org/safeplace/

Call 800.656.HOPE (4763)

http://online.rainn.org/

https://hotline.rainn.org/1in6/terms-of-service.jsp

you have no rights to tell me that i don’t belong in the lgb community, because being a lesbian is what I AM, not what I CHOSE TO BE.

also, acknowledging that women and trans women are different, or that men and trans men are different, is not hate speech.

I did not choose to wake up and constantly be uncomfortable in my own skin. I did not choose to have a constant sense of wrong. I did not choose to feel awful whenever I'm called he, or referred to as him.

I did not just decide to be this way.

No trans person chose to be this way. I did not choose to like men, nor did I choose to feel disgusted at every moment by my male body.

You did not choose to be a lesbian, and I did not choose to be trans.

Pointing out biological difference may not be transphobic in your eyes, but it damn hurts for a trans person. I have a penis. I am closeted and will never get to transition. I do not have a "girl dick" I have genitalia that makes me sad, makes me angry, makes me hate myself.

Well done men, you cracked the libfem formula.

If you can’t be the oppressed, say you’re one of them and say you have it even worse than the oppressed - all the while being the oppressor.

I know this is completely different from what you’re trying to say, but the whole “Words dont hurt” argument, in my opinion, has a lot of room to backfire. Theres so many scenarios where words do hurt people, and if you flip this around to anyone else, does it sound pleasant or nice? No. It sounds like being a dick.

Say you switched this around to the verbally abused, who were degraded and hurt over and over by guess what? Words! Say you switched this around to women. Say you switched this around to the LGB (Excluding trans because again, not talking about trans people here yet.) community. It would sound incredibly wrong.

So now is the point most people would ask, “So why do this to transwomen!?” buuut, that isn’t the point here. I’m a transwoman, but I also grew up with well, constant abuse. I’m not getting into it, I don’t want to, but point is, a lot of that was verbal.

Theres transwomen who have been degraded their entire lives, not even for being trans, just for being a person. So yes, I understand this doesnt correlate with what you’re saying, but words can hurt anyone. It doesnt matter if you’re cis, trans, gay, straight, white, or a PoC, words CAN hurt you. Words can hurt anyone, getting upset shouldn’t be a sign of privilege, unless it’s over your spilled cheerios, or some other stupid concept.

Well done men, you cracked the libfem formula.

If you can’t be the oppressed, say you’re one of them and say you have it even worse than the oppressed - all the while being the oppressor.

I know this is completely different from what you're trying to say, but the whole "Words dont hurt" argument, in my opinion, has a lot of room to backfire. Theres so many scenarios where words do hurt people, and if you flip this around to anyone else, does it sound pleasant or nice? No. It sounds like being a dick.

Say you switched this around to the verbally abused, who were degraded and hurt over and over by guess what? Words! Say you switched this around to women. Say you switched this around to the LGB (Excluding trans because again, not talking about trans people here yet.) community. It would sound incredibly wrong.

So now is the point most people would ask, "So why do this to transwomen!?" buuut, that isn't the point here. I'm a transwoman, but I also grew up with well, constant abuse. I'm not getting into it, I don't want to, but point is, a lot of that was verbal.

Theres transwomen who have been degraded their entire lives, not even for being trans, just for being a person. So yes, I understand this doesnt correlate with what you're saying, but words can hurt anyone. It doesnt matter if you're cis, trans, gay, straight, white, or a PoC, words CAN hurt you. Words can hurt anyone, getting upset shouldn't be a sign of privilege, unless it's over your spilled cheerios, or some other stupid concept.