curioussexkitten

so you are interested in bdsm, huh? whether it be because you read a book like fifty shades of grey *shivers* or you are just curious, here are some links to help you start out!

What does bdsm stand for/what is it?

BDSM

What is bdsm?

So what is bdsm?

The difference between bdsm and abuse

Bondage

What is bondage?

Bondage and Restraints 101

Rope bondage 101

Bondage for beginners

Discipline 

BDSM techniques

Discipline v. punishment

are they the same thing?

Discipline

Dominant/Dominance/Dom/Domming

Dominance 101

How to be a dom

How hard can it be?

Everything you could want to know about being dominant

Submissive/Submission/Sub/Subbing

Submissive 101

How to be submissive

Intro to subbing

So you want to be submissive?

Sadism/Sadist

Sexual Sadism

Sadism 101

Sadism in BDSM

Sadism 101

Masochism/Masochist

Sexual Masochism

Understanding Masochism

Processing Pain

The joys of being a masochist

Types of Dom/Sub Relationships

Types of relationships

Dom/Sub types

Different types

A quick beginner’s guide to subs

Is BDSM always sexual?

Asexual and kinky

Asexuality in BDSM

What is non sexual play?

Nonsexual dom/sub

Is the man always dominant and the female submissive?

Sexually Dominant Women and the Men who Desire them

Femdom idea guide

Appeal of a male sub

The good girl’s guide to female dominance

I’m a feminist and submissive. Is that wrong?

What it’s like being submissive and feminist

Why im sexually submissive and feminist

Feminist sex submissive

Being a feminist submissive

Can i be trans/do i have to be straight to be into bdsm? Heck no! bdsm does not discriminate the kink/fetish community is one of the most accepting communities. so go on and be yourself we wont hurt you (unless you want to be)

So what’s wrong with fifty shades of grey?

50 things wrong with 50 shades of grey

What’s wrong with fifty shades of grey?

The troubling list of things wrong with 50 shades of grey

7 realities of bdsm that 50 shades of grey ignores

*please note there is nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality and fetishes. there is nothing wrong with enjoying 50 shades of grey as long as you recognize that Christian Grey is not the role model for a good dom

Sub drop/ Dom drop

Sub space, aftercare, and sub drop

Dom drop

The emotional side of sub drop

To dom space, dom drop, and beyond

Aftercare

Aftercare for dominants

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare for submissives

Signs of an abusive bdsm relationship

Can i be abused in a bdsm relationship?

Field guide to the creepy dom

Warning signs of a bad dom

Abusive subs

Places to meet people interested in bdsm

fetlife

bdsm dating sites

fester

bondage pal

Where to get toys

pleasure chest

amazon

etsy

liberator

frisky buisness

adam and eve

babe land

pure romance

amazing

too timid

BDSM on a Budget

BDSM on a budget

Sex toys you can make at home

Budget BDSM

Budget BDSM 101

Misc.

The paradox of dom/sub relationships

Advice to newbie subs on dominants

The relationship between a sadist and masocist

101 ways to make your slave/sub feel owned

Beginner’s guide to d/s

Evie Lupine: educational bdsm YouTube channel mostly owner and pet. As well as that bdsm doesn’t equal sex

Speaking of kink and bdsm doesn’t equal sex, you can find asexuals in the community this video talks a little bit about that: https://youtu.be/CbjFK8QDhVM as well as videos made by Evi Lupine does that too.

Watts the safeword: in my opinion the best educational d/s channel. They talk a lot about how to have a healthy kinky relationship and make it fun in the process. They are a poly gay couple but that doesn’t stop them from making sure all genders are included, as well as a lot of different kinks.

https://badgirlsbible.com/list-of-kinks-and-fetishes ⬅️this is a list of some kinks to get yourself a bit in touch with different kinks as well as the differences between fetish and kink

I had a lot of fun shooting in this. Things are getting spooky around here ☺️🎃😈