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Well, you can probably tell just from the title that this isn’t good. And you’re right. So I think I should probably explain the situation to you guys, since you all deserve some semblance of an update of what happening. It’s a long story, but to give you the short and not-so-sweet version...

Bunny and I have broken up. As of today, this blog will no longer be updated.

No. That’s not a typo. To be more specific, SHE broke up with ME. And yes, I understand how much of a loser that makes me look like. I don’t care. I refuse to play the “who broke up with who” game, since it shouldn’t matter. It hurts either way. Things kinda happened, and she has her reasons for it. Reasons that I won’t divulge since I don’t want any fingers pointed at either of us. And before you ask, no. Neither of us cheated, and we didn’t have a big fight about it.

I’ll be honest. I don’t like it. Neither of us do. Neither of us wanted this. But this is the reality of things. And no matter how badly it hurts for me, or how much I want her back...it’s entirely up to her.

I know you’ll read this at some point, Bunny. So I’ll give it to you straight. I love you, Bunny. I always will, and if you ever want to get back together at some point, then I’ll say yes without a second thought. But if the time comes when you find someone else that you’ve fallen in love with...god, that hurts to think about...then I’m willing to give up. Just know that I’ll support whatever decision you make. I might be upset if you decide on the latter. Actually, not “might”. I WILL be upset. I’ll be angry and sad and bitter for a time. But I promise, I will never hold it against you. Like I said, I love you. And it’s because I love you that I’ll be willing to let you go, if it ever comes down to it. I just pray that it doesn’t.

Anyway, this will be the final update on this blog. I’m sorry it came down to this. I wish things could have worked out better, but...it didn’t. It’s pretty ironic how a relationship advice blog starring a relationship that was seemingly stable and steady came to an end through a breakup. But that’s just how it is, and no matter how much we’re hurting, it’s what we have to live with. Anyway...that’s it from me. If Bunny decides to add to this later on, then whoop-dee-doo, you get to hear her side of things. But if not, then...

Thank you so much for following us on Cupcake Antics. It’s been a wonderful journey with all of you.

From,

Oh, boy. Where to begin.

Admin Pup here. Sorry for not posting anything even though I said to expect more content. I shouldn’t have gotten your hopes up. I’ve just been thinking a bit about what to do.

I’ll just cut right to the chase. I’ve been wondering there really is any point to updating this page anymore. It’s been on my mind for a while now, and I thought it was time I finally brought it up. The main focus of our page has more or less been relationship advice. It’s kind of a niche thing, if you think about it. Not everyone here on Tumblr is in a relationship that needs consulting, after all. Pair that up with the fact that we haven’t received a single ask in months, and you’ve got a recipe for a stagnating Tumblr page.

I’ve been a little busy with life, myself. Not to mention Bunny’s got her hands full with a bunch of other ask blogs. @dearseojun being the main one. Go follow that if you haven’t already, by the way. It’s good stuff.

So I guess, where things stand, we have two options. We can either put this vlog to rest and cease all updates, or completely re-invent the page in its entirety to be something more light-hearted with general antics, as the page name implies. Y’know. The usual things you see with askblogs featuring OC’s. What do you guys think? Honestly, I do like the idea of re-inventing the blog into something more generalized. But that’d require both Bunny and I to put a lot more time into contributing to this blog on a regular basis and keeping our followers interested. And as I said, Bunny’s already got her hands full with...what was it, like, three or four blogs?

I’ll decide on how to go about this depending on any suggestions we receive. As always, the ask box is always open, so feel free to leave your thoughts there.

@allthecations

“THIS is the far more spontaneous route. No one expected me to put on what is TOTALLY an ugly Christmas sweater!”

Pup simply nods in approval to himself, as if he actually accomplished something meaningful.

Five minutes later...

Pretty festive, right? x3

Expect more content from now on, so feel free to ask us anything at all!

Hey! Thanks for sending in your ask to us~ First of all…

Secondly, I think that if you already have these concerns, then you probably shouldn’t go for a relationship yet just because you have been drawn in by him. (Also, things to consider in a relationship is how he treats other people when he’s not around you. If he doesn’t treat them well, he might be the same towards you in the future). 

Th-That doesn’t mean that you can’t stay friends though! 

If there’s already the worry that he might be a little bit obsessive in a relationship, it would probably be healthier to think ahead into the future as to whether or not the relationship would become a toxic or non-toxic one because of these obsessive issues. (Thinking about the future and a few steps ahead doesn’t hurt, ssu~)

Is he/Will he become obsessive to the point where he wants to see who you’re messaging or starts monitoring who you talk to? 

Does he get jealous when you talk to guys but think that it’s fine to casually talk to girls without similar consequence despite being just friends for now?

But again, there isn’t any rush when getting into a relationship. There is a level of trust in the foundation of a relationship that should be established, and if that doesn’t exist then there could be a problem. Like, I have a (lot of ) guy circle(s) and a girl circle of friends and Pup trusts me fully enough to know that I’m not gonna go off with some random guy or friend. If this aspect of trust in the relationship isn’t established, then the relationship may go a way that you don’t want it to.

In the future, if he does so happen to change for the good, then by all means! But of course, it’s to your discretion. If you plan do take action or talk to him/confront him about it… please let us know! We’d love to still help you and other people out if you ever need it. This is a safe place after all.~

(As a side note, I can smell a Guard Dog approaching in Pup’s answer… e.e)

~Admin Bunny~

Pup would probably tell you to tread carefully, and I’d probably agree with him for once. Which is saying a lot, since I’m basically a more volatile version of him. I know what it’s like to be protective and almost possessive of someone, e.g. Bunny, and I can tell you right now that there comes a point where things start to get very out of hand. I won’t stop you from starting a relationship with him, if that’s what you really want; I would just advise you to make sure that this dude’s not a total jerkwad about what he expects from you.

Then again, if he ever pisses you off, you could always shove your foot up his TIGHT LITTLE A–MMPH!

*You see Bunny quickly cover Guard Dog’s mouth and drag him away as he flails about and attempts to break free. It’s not working.*

Bunny: what

Bunny: who's Ana

Bunny: whO'S TOMMY

I know it’s aiming pretty high for an LDR…but that’s just how I feel. I want to make her my wife. <3

*insert incoherent tsundere bunny noises in background*

Listen, don’t feel pressured to get into a relationship or anything if you don’t really want to. You do you, basically. If you aren’t feeling up for dating, then that’s perfectly fine. No need to rush things; just take your time with it.