I regulate with pleasure. A long shower, lying in the sun, slow food, touch. My body responds to feeling safe. Pleasure is my nervous system practice. Long meals, beautiful clothes, music that moves me. My body regulates fastest when its delighted. My environment regulates me. A clean kitchen, soft lighting, fresh flowers. My body reads beauty as safety.

i love women, i love femininity.. i love cleavage, the sway of women’s hips, sweet scents, soft skin. i love how we romanticize life, errands for women is get shit done but add coffee and shopping in. also errands may mean maintenance days: waxes, lashes, hair, nails. being a woman is almost poetic, being a woman is like taking the scenic route, being a woman is everything.