DPD culture

hi!! i saw theres no currently active dpd culture is... blogs! so i made one!

Dpd culture is

hi sorry for not posting for idk how long. not a sob story or anything i have been doing mentally badly for awhile and went to the hospital for a little and will probably go to a residential here soon. My bad.

DPD culture is spending a few days away from your DP and feeling like an empty shell the entire time

DPD culture is almost crying getting a haircut you've wanted for years because nobody told you explicitly that you could

Dpd culture is not having much of your "own" identity outside of what others decide.

dpd culture is struggling to uphold loyalties to people , in the sense that if someone is shit talking my friend i’m not going to stand up and start telling the person off , like i should . all i’ll do is remove myself from the situation , maybe mention it to said friend if i think it’s important depending on the context ?

Questioning DPD culture is realizing the reason we have such a gripe with our stepmom isn't because she's being strict, she's trying to foster independence

Dpd+npd culture is god I fucking hate everyone ever and I'm on the only one who can do anything right ever cause I'm perfect. I'm like a fucking god compared to these people.

(vent, feel free to skip this ask if uncomfortable!)

Questioning dpd and bpd culture is feeling like you have no personality or identity outside of your dp, but also flip flopping between being okay with it because if they love you and care about you, it doesn't matter if you don't really exist as a person, and between feeling awful that you aren't your own person and wanting to isolate but never fully being able to bring yourself to, because you rely on your person so much

DPD + autism culture is your safe foods depend on your dp's safe/favourite foods

DPD culture is reading this blog next to your dp (our partner system) and badly wanting to show it to them but being afraid that if they see all the asks that we relate to they'll realise what a burden we are and abandon us

dpd culture is being easily isolated / manipulated because i just . have to listen to what they tell me . they know better than me and if i make the decision then i’m just making a mess of everything

DPD + OCPD culture is spending your entire life in constant flux between "I'm the only one who can do anything right" and "I can never do anything right"

dpd culture is feeling like you shouldn't / don't deserve to talk to anyone / do anything besides being with and waiting for the one you love and depend on the most

dpd culture is being unable to reply to people without getting reassurance or guidance on doing so .