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There’s a boy who I’ve known for 4 years and I’ve had a growing crush the whole time. He thinks I’m a lesbian though because I’ve dated other people in that time period, all of them girls (I’m pan. He’s pan). We’re best friends and. I am. So in love w/ him. I know he cares about me a bunch and I don’t wanna bottle my feelings up, but I don’t wanna fuck up our (hella awesome) friendship. Any suggestions? (^^;)

Hey so today when I went to my crush Spotify playlist she had a playlist called pop icon and I saw that she had a song called brown eyes by lady Gaga and I thought that song was because of me cause I have brown eyes lol but I don’t think she thinks of me because I haven’t seen her in a long time. I guess she just likes the song. I’m just stupid to think that song is because of me.

I need your help. I am 20 and I work at a doggy day care. I have developed a crush on this guy that brings his dog in everyday. The only thing is that he is 36. I know there probably isn’t a chance, but I don’t know what to do or how to carry on. What do I do?

So I’m a (sophomore) section leader at band camp and I just met the sweetest freshman ever. I think I’m starting to have feelings for him and I think he likes me back too (we both keep flirting w/ each other) but I’m a little conflicted. Is it weird for me to like him when I’m soph and he’s a freshman? Ik its just one year but I’m scared people will judge me for liking him. Send help lmao - a confused gal with too many feelings

There's this guy I really like and the only problem is we already dated and mutually broke up. The thing is now it's not so mutual and I don't know what to do. I don't want to make a huge for out of myself but, gods, I miss him.

Advice?

There's this guy who i liked for 4 years, he knew through his friend who told him about my feelings. Nothing happened, we never interacted and I really want to talk to him but he has no interest in me. and now we are in the 12 grade and I messaged him online and told him my side of the story to clear up some misunderstandings. After that, it was just limited interactions such as avoiding contact etc. I want to talk but i dont want to seem like I'm desperate by randomly messaging him. Help me.

Hey, so I was looking for decent advice blog and yours seem nice and cute. So my advice. I have this friend, were not really close but she told me about a boy in our class she has a crush on, i never really noticed him in class till she mentioned him. So the first time I saw him properly, we made intense eye contact, movie type shit. And then during a seminar I noticed him looking my way few times. Now I'm all like oh fuck he's super cute. Am I wrong to feel this way? Should I stop. Readers ???

Heyy, so I have a huge crush on a guy i don't know why. We only see another on Tuesday and Thursday afternoons at college. I was the one to add him on insta and I'm the one starting convos online, he always replays after hours. I did noticed him staring at me in the beginning but not anymore. Before I had a crush on him I always got a gut feeling that he wanted to talk to me and I still get that feeling now. Btw were both shy. Does he hat me? What should I do?

I approached my crush first and he ended up asking me for my number an texting me like an hour later and he was asking me lots of questions and stuff about my life and how school is and stuff... but now when we text it’s always me initiating the conversation and he texts kinda dry and always is “busy” when I ask him to hang out, then in person he is really fidgety and nervous, but laughs at practically everything I say and his eyes get wide and stuff... I’m rly confused please help :(

Are you ever sitting across the bus aisle from your crush, and they're talking about how they're the only one in their friend group who doesn't have a chance with anyone and your trying reallyyyy hard to not make any sort of facial expressions that would show that you're listening?? Yeah, me either

-but not super strong they’re still there tho I look at him in class and the few interactions we’ve had I felt like we could still be friends and chill like before but I haven’t taken the opportunity to start a conversation or anything again and I’ve noticed he has a “thing” idk what it is but he’s taking to another girl rn and I still think about him al the time and just want to be friends like we were before but idk what to do :/

Hii so there’s this guy in my grade and we had a class together last year and we became friends like talked in class and snapped back and forth for a bit and this was close to the end of the year so we didn’t get close but I started liking him and we had a few convos over the summer but nothing special and he has a rep for having talked to a lot of girls like that but he’s so sweet and we have another class together this year and we talked once and everyday I still look at him and have feelings-

Hi. So i have a problem. I'm a senior in high school (18/F) and he's a freshman (15/M). Is it okay for me to like him? I feel like it's wrong of me. We met at a family gathering and he is a relative of some cousin girlfriend and we ended up talking all night and we are similar to one another. I'm really torn. I really want to get to know him, but the three year difference is kind of bothering me. Anyone has any advice? -Nina