this was a comment on a video of a male medical student talking about going into his obgyn rotation and how hes not offended when people dont allow him to sit in on their obgyn appointments to get clinical experience. and I HATE this mindset.
there is nothing sexual or perverted about being an OBGYN. that is a medical doctor for a specific part of a person's body. yes, those parts are used in sex and reproduction. but like any other part of the human body, it can have medical problems that need to be fixed. to say that anyone, regardless of gender, must have some perverted desire in order to become a specialized doctor is so disgusting. do we think that female doctors who specialize in male urology and reproductive health are just horny women who want to look at penis all day?
and if you are personally uncomfortable with having a male obgyn, that's perfectly fine. the video that this comment was left on was specifically about a male medical student saying "your comfort and safety always comes first, no one is offended by you saying you don't want me in the room while you have an exam" which is true!! but to then say "he shouldn't be in that practice anyway. predator." is so fucking nasty. he hasn't done anything wrong. these medical visits should always be built on the strictest form of informed consent. youre judging him for being a student in a very necessary medical field. there are a lot of great women obgyns, i just had my hysterectomy from one, but I don't think that only women should be allowed to be obgyns and male obgyns should not be shamed.
remember that some people hold just as much trauma towards women and would actually feel more comfortable being assessed by a man. male predators are more common because of a patriarchal society that teaches men to be entitled (NOT due to some implicit evil that some folks seem to think exists inside a man), but being a predator is not unique to being a man, and people who have trauma around women also deserve a safe and comfortable medical experience.
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