"CNC is fine as long as you're roleplaying as the victim" "ageplay is fine as long as you're not roleplaying as the adult" do you hear the words coming out of your mouth
what anti-kink people think kink scenes should be like
A lot of kinksters need to hear this too:
If it's okay for someone to want to be taken care of, then it's okay for someone to want to take care of them.
If it's okay for someone to want to be hit, then it's okay for someone to want to hit them.
If it's okay for someone to want to be degraded, then it's okay for someone to want to degrade them.
Etc, etc. Doms, daddies/mommies, and other "aggressors" are a necessary and IMPORTANT part of kink and wanting to fill those roles isn't an indication of some deep and terrible hidden urges or whatever. This goes for all the most extreme kinks you can think of; as long as everyone involved is an adult who is aware of the risks and consents to them, then there is nothing wrong with ANY of the roles and desires people are fulfilling through kink.
