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cw/tw: stalking, racism, abuse

In the past I’ve talked about situations where I saw myself as a victim and blamed the people who rejected me because of my own behavior. In the present we’re doing something different.

This is a user named Ghost to the Future. Throughout the post I will be referring to him as Alex.

Since August of 2023, Alex and I have been friends as we shared a lot of Intergang ideas and later I would eventually help him overcome his insecurities and irl issues… or so I thought. Since Valentine’s Day, I stuck by him and tried to help him on a journey of improvement as he confessed to me that he was jealous of me talking to people that I’ve known for 2 years now because he wanted me all to himself when he needed to vent. I’ve tried multiple things such as exercises where he couldn’t DM me, cracked down on limiting the venting and most of all, trying to get him a therapist. I even talked to my own therapist and school about how I can get him the help he needed. It wasn’t just “get him a therapist so he could stop venting to someone who wasn’t qualified to handle it,” he actively hurt and pushed away my friends when they tried to help him themselves. For the sake of their privacy I will be censoring the names of my friends.

But eventually he told me that he’d get a therapist and during those weeks he told me about talking to him and even shared me advice that the therapist gave him and I thought we were on the right track. Then on March 26th, 2024, he confessed that he lied about it.

He admitted to lying about it and told everyone that he was toxic and manipulative. Minutes after this I blocked him and told him that someday we’d be able to talk again. Hopefully we could move on.

Then the day after he started spamming my email after I refunded him for a commission I never got to. He told me that he was getting help but he also asked me to unblock him and told me that I was the only person he hurt. We’ll be getting back to that in a bit. Make of these what you will.

To add insult to injury, he started stalking my Tumblr yesterday when he commented on one of my posts after I blocked him on Discord.

We’ll get back to the stalker part at the end because it is truly fucked but for now let’s tear into how he’s hurt my friends! Not all of this will be complimented by screenshots but I’ve talked with people and can confirm that all of this has happened, if you want evidence of it I’ll see what I can do.

He has constantly pushed my friends away after they have tried helping him out.

He has lied about watching certain media multiple times, my friends managed to prove this has he lied about watching a show that didn’t even air yet. Most of the time he fails to elaborate on why he loves a piece of art if he hasn’t experienced it or he’ll just sheep other people.

Back in December he complained to me about two of my friends making fun of him only to find out that they were just joking with each other and Alex made a big deal out of nothing.

After trying to set boundaries Alex kept on using the excuse that “we’re equals.”

He harassed one of my friends in DMs for having a Hazbin Hotel pfp at the time.

He makes fun of other people and their interests yet infamously can’t take any jokes towards him at all.

He tried instigating hate in me against my friends when they watched MAWS and didn’t like it.

Has urged and pushed people to do sexual RPs in the past even when they were uncomfortable.

He said the N word in my friend group, he is white btw. And when one of my friends talked to him about this Alex only constantly apologized and made excuses for why he said it. I have the screenshot of this, I won’t be sharing it in this post so I won’t violate any policies.

He’s made racist and misogynistic remarks towards people in his friend groups.

Has sexualized people who are younger than him.

This is only scratching the surface of what he’s done to people online as apparently he has a history of changing his username after being rejected from fandoms, one of which included the Owl House and he used it as a crutch to excuse a lot of his behavior. Online, he’s dangerous and a chameleon but learning about his irl activity he’s even worse. I won’t go too in depth there but needless to say he insults his friends, is violent towards other kids in his school and has caused a lot of toxic relationships.

And ultimately we get to why I decided to make this post. I told Alex’s friend (who is one of the nicest people I’ve met btw) that if Alex contacted me again then I would call him out. And since yesterday, Alex has not contacted me again… but he tried to. How? By using his friend’s email to message me. The attempt failed but I was alerted of this and furious. Originally I said that I think Alex can improve but he’ll have to do it without me. Now he’s killed his chances. Everything I covered here only scratches the surface of what he’s pulled but in short: cut contact with him for your own safety. If he tries joining more fandoms under this name or a new name, use this post for reference and stop him before he can do more damage. Right now, Alex is a toxic and manipulative person and shouldn’t be in a lot of these public spaces especially when he’s admitted that he is DANGEROUS. Currently his main fandom is My Adventures with Superman so I will be tagging that to get the word out. Please reblog as much as you can to get the word out and let people know about this individual before he gets to them as well. If you’re reading this Alex, you’ve hurt me and too many people for me to just let this slide and if you try contacting me and my friends again, hope you enjoy whatever stupid prizes you get in the future.

Adding onto this because since the initial post, Alex has decided to only sink lower and lower instead of actually taking accountability for his actions.

Let’s start with what I personally believe to be the most entertaining part of this entire ordeal: his RP history. He’s sent messages in a group chat with people that are around his age or younger (y’know, minors) showing the RPs he likes having with furry bots. He’s been doing this to cope with me leaving him and apparently he’s done this a lot when people escape his parasitic behavior. Here’s the doc showing his degenerative behavior because he doesn’t wanna keep it in his pants around anyone:

We can also get to death threats he’s made against me and other people. To compile research to use against Alex, I’ve been in contact with one of his friends to see what he’s been doing and here’s evidence of his failure to take accountability

In one of these screenshots he also said that he wants me to commit suicide, lovely.

on top of this he chooses to continue to stalk me via email, Lucifer is one of his alts and thankfully I have not replied to any of his bullshit yet.

And last night, I found out why Alex has been doing all of this shit now. Around that time my friend and I decided to fuck around with him for a bit until Alex tried guilt tripping him and I got him to send a message from me to Alex and… this is his response.

Alex is an obsessive freak who is willing to hurt and stalk people just to have a person he talked to for only 6 MONTHS be submissive to him again. Alex you’re probably gonna be reading this so here’s my answer: no. You’re a deranged psychotic who deserves to be striped of online privileges and if you keep this up you are going to lose in the end. No matter what. Actually I can also address your pathetic attempts at blackmail!

He wants to try to expose a kink he deluded himself into thinking I have. So to break down why this is utterly pathetic:

He already exposed himself as a furry degen.

I’ve been open about my interests before, lying about it will only get you so far.

The screenshot he’s trying to use exposes him for liking it and having ideas involving it, I’m the one who says that I’m neutral on it.

I will probably still keep adding to this post if he keeps it up but in short, Alex is deranged and has only been getting worse and worse, block and report him and remove him from any servers he’s in. Also he said this about me:

First off, Marry (the friend I was referring to in the last reblog) is Alex pretending to be one of his victims. There’s a lot of evidence supporting this (same speech patterns, Alex barely staying offline after supposedly being punished, lapses in activity between the two accounts, etc.) the straw that broke the camel’s back was Marry refusing to do a vc with me until a day later where it could’ve easily been arranged. Alex has consistently backed away from VC calls he’s been invited to unless he has prep time so this tracks.