I tend to think about and then rethink my intention, thought, behavior, and personality, those things that make up my unique lifestyle.
Years might go by before I really divulge anything too personal. Real relationships build up slowly over time based on shared trust and mutual benefit or dependence.
Intention becomes thought, which becomes behavior, which becomes personality.
Intention and thought can occur simultaneously or thought prior to intention. However, changing one's personality takes time relearning how to operate life through altering behaviors. It can be hard untangling the mysteries of humanity and human physiology.
Remember that sometimes, most of the time, people act bad because they have some sort of significant stress upon them. They could be hungry, dehydrated, exhausted, in pain, constipated, stressed, or otherwise ill.
These aren't excuses for the bad behavior.
These are NOT excuses for bad behavior.
TAKE BETTER CARE OF YOURSELF.
No one will take better care of yourself than you. If that means a multipartite total life overhaul spanning as much time as you need, so be it.
Intention -> thought -> behavior -> personality.
Second guessing myself usually is a waste of time unless my spidey senses are tingling.
I have made mistakes in the past. Anyone who has not ever made a mistake, even once, please dm me.
The rest of y'all need some self disciplined routine in your lives.
If you're stuck, brainstorm what it is you want and where you want to go next. Jot notes down, and maybe make a flowchart. Think cause->effect.
Make a flow diagram. Was the first cause the effect of another cause? Effects is like guessing the future, but make an educated guess.
Don't get all caught up in your past right now.
Just think. The time vaguely around now. Future-wise. What are we doing