alarms and surprises

every few months i'll think i found something that can pull me out of this and be something good and then within 2 months maximum i'm bored with it

one day i'll post "i have a boner" but i WONT have a boner i will be LYING

i dont have a boner

"trans men make 10¢ more than trans women" hey did you know that the data analysis that this information comes from also concluded that asian/pacific islander LGBT+ workers experience virtually no discrimination in pay compared to the average worker

touching myself and thinking about you btw

@cooked-companion

What the hell happened to the energy around gender neutral bathrooms. Remember when we were fighting for all bathrooms to be gender neutral. But now we can barely argue that people can use the gendered bathroom of their choice. Maybe there's some single stall bathroom tucked away in a basement somewhere.

can i come over and make you painfully hard while i act innocent?

you cant hope to do ANY good progressive work as a feminist if you think that body shaming is a valid tool at your disposal. yes, even against men. any trait you can insult a man's body for there exists a woman with that trait who knows you arent in her corner. there are women who are fat and women who are hairy, women who are balding. women with penises and testes. women with acne and neckbeards. these traits are not exclusive to the misogynistic creep cishet men who you are trying to insult.

exactly. everyone disagrees with everyone else on something. if your only friends are people who don't disagree with you, you don't have any friends.

if you ignore my depression im a really happy person btw

the ashtrays in airplane bathrooms are a fascinating harm reduction metaphor. yes it's illegal as hell to smoke in there. yes there's a smoke detector that will snitch on you the second you light up. so why is there an ashtray? because if there weren't, your single momentary dumbass crime could kill 300 people. it is fucking vital that if someone does have a lit cigarette on a plane, they have a place to safely put it out.

I'm like if a missing person was literally right there

Ice cold take that’s somehow controversial on this hellsite but it’s actually equally extremely transphobic to say that all transmascs are secretly detrans TERFs in the making as it is to say that all transfems are secretly white supremacist misogynist incels. Bioessentialism isn’t totally fine and cool when it’s against the bad privileged trannies and all you’re doing is showing your bias in “defense” of another.