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God created marriage. He fashioned the means by which man and woman, two complementary opposites can be joined into a single body, the family. The hierarchical structure of a traditional marriage is his design for this union, and when you live into it, you are participating in the sacred and divine, and bringing it down to earth to inhabit your house and family.

Todays position we are going to discuss is the bed.  This position is the classic domestic situation. Being sent to your room to await mummy or daddy to come upstairs. Sitting on the bed in anticipation or maybe you have to stand in the corner and wait. Now the bed is an extremely versatile tool for the young ladies discipline. There are of course the positions that are based around the bed such as being taken over the knee by someone who is sitting on it or being told to put your hands on the bed.  These are very similar to those that we have discussed already in the last few weeks.

What we really need to discuss are the positions that are on the bed. We will start with bending over pillows, this is where several pillow are stacked on top of each other and the girl bends over them at her waist. This has the effect of raising her bottom right up. It is an extremely comfortable position for the spankee, at least until the spanking starts! This allow for longer punishments or is ideal for those who cannot hold other positions for long periods. It generally allows for modesty to be kept as well which is nice. More often than not it is implements that are used in this position, things like the belt or strap typically. Hand spanking can be administered however the spanker needs to be on the bed as well. This is more for the sensual spanking rather than disciplinary.

The next ones, in my opinion are more to do with BDSM scene. Being on all fours or on knees, shoulders on the bed. These are certainly for implements and also leave you very exposed.

Im not a huge fan of the positions on the bed but I guess we cant enjoy them all.

I expect you to ask for permission for everything:

to go out

to talk to people

to spend money

to have a treat

to sit on the couch

to start a diet or to end it

to wear pants

to do anything out of the ordinary

Sometimes you get feisty and need a reminder of who is in charge.

Sometimes you intentionally provoke or test me.

Sometimes I look at you, and I’m overcome by a compulsion to claim you, to express my dominance in a physical way. I control and filter that impulse, and then I take you over my knee, or bend you over the bathroom sink.

Sometimes you’ve had a rough week. You’ve had to fight some battles. You need to be reminded that, at home, you don’t need to be the leader; that, in fact, it’s in appropriate. During these moments, I’ll usually start with a hug, some hair stroking, and then deliver a nice, systematic spanking, until all that dominant energy drains away, and you’re left feeling submissive, safe, taken care of, and under my control.

Sometimes, I just want to feel the skin of your ass under my palm, and that’s all the reason I need.