My mother taught me everything, except how to live without her. Ugh 💔💔

One of the hardest things you will ever have to do, my dear, is to grieve the loss of a person who is still alive.

And yes, if you haven’t already gotten it, in 2020 I will be running for president… mic drop

I’ll always encourage the reckless texts confessing your feelings. The kind where you throw your phone after hitting send. I’ll always encourage the horribly straightforward conversations at 3am when conversations get deep and you can’t always put how you feel into words. I’ll always encourage you to say the things that make your heart beat fast and your legs shake. Because i know how alive you feel when you feel something for someone else.

Nothing hurts more than liking someone who you can’t vibe with, due to complacent issues that refuse to be resolved, espescially when a connection is clearly visiable. Both parties are unwilling to fix it and both are unwilling to move on. Fucked.

the moment you start going out of your way to beg someone for their attention, you devalue your self worth.

I wonder how biology can explain the physical pain you feel in your chest when all you want to do is be with someone.

Ladies, if you have to ask a man, “Where is this going?”, the answer is nowhere. You should know your place, and you should be the only female in that place. Men are naturally like hunters. Once they know what they want, they go for it, no holding back. There should be no second guessing, ifs or buts or maybes. If he wants you to be his girl, he’d ask you. If he wants you to be his wife, he’d propose. It’s that simple. You shouldn’t have to ask a man if he is YOUR man. And no lady likes a little boy with eyes for everyone. Respect yourself enough to walk away from someone who doesn’t know, isn’t quite sure or is still thinking about it, despite how much you may care about them. Men always go hard for what they truly want, so if he isn’t going hard for you, you are not what he wants.

You have to understand and accept the fact that your ‪‎spouse‬ was sent to you because he or she is perfect for you, as they are and as you are. There are things about them that is meant to help you (emotionally, physically, spiritually etc) and most of the time, we don’t know how they are helping us. We have to believe that Allah knows best for us.

Drinking is always a 50/50 chance; either you feel nothing or you feel absolutely everything