I would even go as far as stating the facts; of course our patriarch standards want women to be weak. They want us to be bones. They trick you into thinking its keeping up with the jones, but really its for their own advantage. If you cant see this, you have been fooled to.

Tale as old as time, we get adult responsibilities and our lives just happen. Its been years, and with the new update… i feel so sad. The option of a dream island to play with friends and all i can think about is how i do not have anyone to play with.

So much can change in six months. It’s unrealistic to pretend like you know anything about anyone, if you have not been an active participant in their life.

Why would I have beef with, or care what someone is saying about me, if we haven’t spoken in over half a year, or longer? You do not know me, my life, or what I have been doing or will do.

Need and wants are different. Just because I want something solely because I like it, doesn’t mean I see it as a need too.

I have had this happen twice to me where I will be going through something and communicate that I am distant because I am processing something traumatic and instead of being met with empathy, I am met with this gasping how “DARE you not pay attention to me! Fake friend! Secret hater!” Smear campaign.

I want to shake you by the shoulders and say GROW UP!! I fear apart of life and apart of being human is understanding that sometimes people just need space. Not because they hate you. Not because they secretly dont want to be your friend. But because they need to process. How can i talk or tell you what is happening or how i am feeling if even i dont know or have the answer? I just wish that this weirdo mentality of “secret haters” and “secret animosity” was instead replaced with “hey they are distant and i know they said xyz is happening, hope they are good”.