confessions by and for roleplayers

As much as the RPC preaches being an understanding and welcoming community, there are muns out there who are genuinely evil towards others who are actively pregnant or raising children, more so if they are dealing with ailments or complications out of their control. There is no excuse to make anyone who is expecting or rearing to feel like shit because they can't be as active in their hobbies as they were before, or as active as other roleplayers in their circle. If you go out of your way to guilt or harass a parent mun because they have to prioritize their life and another before roleplay, you are a sick person. And if you see your mutual or friend doing this? Please call that shit out and nip it in the bud. There is such a thing as having an unhealthy attachment and prioritizing roleplay in a toxic way. Signed, a mun who is planning on expanding my family and tired of getting unhinged vitriol from roleplayers over a hobby.

I’m not gonna pressure anyone to not interact with this certain person. You do you and it’s your blog but I have the right to block this person who bullied me and treated me like shit for making up false lies and accusations about me, even block those who support her. She’s got so many friends and is very popular. It makes me sick. I wish one day she’ll take accountability, but I doubt it she’ll never stop and will do to others. I wish I could warn them, but they’ll never believe me and a lot of people believe in that bitch.

why does no one reblog promos anymore?

~ Mod MJ ~

some people can’t even follow their own rules. i’ve seen several rules pages that state if there’s no attempt to interact with their posts or them, then they’ll block. and yet, they don’t interact with my or other mutuals’ posts, nor do they send memes or like starter calls. also, if you put in your rules that you expect people to regularly check their dms, be it on discord or tumblr, then you better carry that same expectation for yourself. if you forgot or were held up, you damn well better apologize the same way anyone else would if they were slow.

now i know why i've never gotten long-term threads or meaningful ship development with a moot. they don't reply to threads that are over 3 months "old". and i often take a month or two to reply while all their other partners reply with a few days/weeks/a month. they get 20 notes while i'm lucky to get 3.

Stop trying to ship with my muse who I say very clearly on his bio, in my rules and on the pinned post is not available for shipping. This is strike two where I’ve spoken to you about it, it was very nearly a hard block because you’re just disregarding what boundaries I have set, you’re only still here because I’m a multimuse and others of my muses are available for shipping which might have confused you. Either way you’re no longer allowed to interact with that muse as far as I’m concerned seeing as you can’t be bothered to double check if you’re unsure. If you push it with another of the muses you’ll be blocked.

I've lost muse for one of my characters. Some days I want to jump ship and archive their blog, but I think it would upset one of my followers. So, I pretty much have to force myself to write replies. It's exhausting.

I tend to get carried away with my replies. I don't mean to, but they end up really long, to the point where I'm afraid they upset my writing partners.

It's kinda funny how many roleplayers openly critique and talk shit about their mutuals on dash

No I'm not gonna follow back a blog that only makes an effort to reply to muses who are on the opposite end on the gender spectrum of their muse. I feel like they have some sort of ulterior motive to get a ship out of me or ERP with me

It makes me really uncomfortable when someone tries to push their other muses onto me when we literally just started following each other and haven’t even interacted yet. Just because I followed one of your blogs doesn’t mean I want to follow all of them, especially when your other muses are from fandoms I'm not even familiar with.

stop checking my account. stop looking to see if I've updated with a new one. it's not cool and bothersome more than anything. you're blocked, that means stay away.

That awkward moment when someone thinks their muse is way more important to your muse than they actually are.

I'm sorry my muse wasn't the correct gender to help yours

I know most of the people here won't give a shit but: Not everyone constantly changing blogs and aliases is running away from drama or trying to block-evade. Some people just have an urge to start over, and if they can't do that, they stop functioning, they can't focus on their blog anymore. It's not always about fucking drama, blocking or whatever. Some people just suck at being consistent, and not rarely they SUFFER from it because they KNOW it is annoying. But they just can't help it.

Stop woobifi villains so you can justify liking and shipping them. Write and like them for what and who they are. If you can't embrace their true nature and are unwilling to acknowledge that they are terrible, then DON'T. WRITE. VILLAINS.