Becoming Complete

you can be trans and not want to be seen as “masculine” or “feminine”

you can be trans and not fit into either side cleanly

you can be trans and not care if people can tell

you can be trans and not aim to pass

you can be trans and not build yourself around gender rules

you can be trans and not feel aligned with labels people give you

you can be trans and not settle into one presentation

you can be trans and not move in a straight line

you can be trans and not want your gender explained

you can be trans and not look the way you imagined you would

you can be trans and not feel the same about your body every day

you can be trans and not follow a “before and after”

you can be trans and not treat transition like a checklist

you can be trans and not aim for a final version

you can be trans and not correct every assumption

you can be trans and not react every time you’re misread

you can be trans and not make your gender easy to understand

you can be trans and not have it all figured out

you can be trans and not explain it to anyone

you can be trans and not fit what people expect

you can be trans and not owe anyone clarity

you can be trans and not be loud about it

you can be trans and not make it your whole identity

you can be trans and not have the right words yet

you can be trans and not perform it for people

you can be trans and not be consistent all the time

you can be trans and not make it comfortable for others

you can be trans and not rush the process

you can be trans and not prove it to anyone

you can be trans and not follow a clear path

you can be trans and not match someone else’s version

there’s no story in here

no before and after

no “this is how it works”

just fragments

thoughts

moments that don’t really go anywhere

but still stay with you

if you’ve ever overthought yourself into silence

yeah

this is for you

The Trans Version That Works: No Longer Misread

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The Trans Version That Works: No Longer Misread

🏳️‍⚧️ this book isn’t trying to fix anything or define anything you don’t need to be sure of anything to read it you don’t even need a label just…open it and see what stays with you nothing here asks you to prove who you are if it’s for you, you’ll know The Trans Version That Works: No Longer Misread link below

This book doesn’t try to explain what you are.

It shows what it feels like to live as yourself without constantly translating it for other people.

Inside are illustrated moments and lines that sit somewhere between thought and observation,

the kind of things you recognize without needing them spelled out. Small shifts.

Quiet wins.

The parts of being trans that don’t make it into speeches or posts,

but still matter. Especially those.

It doesn’t frame identity as a problem to solve or a story that needs a neat arc.

There’s no pressure to justify anything here.

Just a collection of pages that meet you where you already are,

even on the days you don’t feel particularly sure of yourself.

The illustrations hold space without overexplaining. 💙💜🤍

The words don’t push. They land, or they don’t, and that’s enough.

This is for the version of you that exists when no one is watching.

The one that doesn’t need to be fixed, polished, or argued into existence. 🏳️‍⚧️