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Love is often found in the places we aren't looking. It lives in the deepest parts of your soul, where longing quietly lingers. That is where you'll discover the purest kind of love the kind you'll cherish and protect because you know it came from you the source of everything you've always needed.

When love begins within, it changes how you experience the world. The love you receive from others is no longer something you believe you're entitled to simply because you exist. Instead, it becomes something that complements the love you've already cultivated for yourself. It doesn't complete you, it complements the standard you've already set. It adds to your life rather than filling a void.

Lately, it feels as though there's a growing desire to withdraw from the world in search of peace. While solitude is a beautiful teacher, it cannot offer everything. Solitude teaches self-preservation, self-love, and self-acknowledgement. It allows you to hear your own voice without the noise of the world. But solitude alone cannot teach understanding, connection, or fellowship. Those lessons are found in the presence of others.

The beauty lies in bringing what you've learned in solitude back into community. You begin to meet people who have also learned to love themselves, people whose love flows from abundance rather than lack. Relationships become an exchange instead of an escape. Love is no longer about being saved, it's about sharing.

So don't allow romance to look a certain way just because the world tells you it should. Let romance become whatever feels honest to you. Let it be slow or adventurous, loud or quiet, ordinary or extraordinary. Let it be rooted in peace rather than performance, in choice rather than expectation.

The greatest love story you'll ever experience begins with the one you have with yourself. Everything else is simply an extension of that love.

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Finding Solace in the Simple Act of Pizza Making

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I never imagined I would be writing about something so personal and intense on my pizza making blog. But life has a way of throwing unexpected challenges our way, and sharing our experiences can be a way to find strength and connection. Recently, I went through a traumatic event that has profoundly affected me – a violent break-in at my home.

The intrusion was more than just a physical invasion of my space; it was an assault on my sense of safety and peace. In the aftermath, I've been grappling with intense anxiety and fear. The feeling of vulnerability has been overwhelming, making everyday tasks seem daunting. But amidst this chaos, I've found an unexpected anchor: the simple, comforting act of making pizza.

The Therapeutic Power of Dough and Sauce

There's something profoundly therapeutic about the pizza-making process. From the moment I start mixing the dough, my mind begins to quiet. The repetitive motions of kneading, the rhythmic rise and fall of the dough under my hands, and the feeling of connection to something tangible and real – it all brings a sense of calm.

Kneading dough requires focus and patience, and it's in these moments that I find a temporary escape from my worries. The act of creating something with my hands, something that I know will bring joy and nourishment, helps me regain a sense of control and normalcy. It's a reminder that despite the fear, I can still create, still contribute, and still find pockets of peace.

Sauce, Toppings, and Healing

As I move on to making the sauce, the kitchen fills with the rich, comforting aromas of tomatoes, garlic, and herbs. These scents evoke memories of happier times – family gatherings, friendly get-togethers, and moments of shared laughter. It's a sensory reminder that there's still good in the world, and it's within my reach.

Choosing toppings is another creative outlet that brings me joy. Whether I'm sticking to classic combinations or experimenting with new flavors, the process allows me to focus on something positive. It's a small but significant way to inject a bit of fun and excitement into my day.

Sharing the Love

One of the most fulfilling aspects of pizza making is sharing the final product with others. Despite my recent experience, I've managed to enjoy the company of friends and family over pizza. These gatherings have been a source of immense comfort. They remind me that while my sense of security has been shaken, my connections with loved ones remain strong.

Food has a unique way of bringing people together, and pizza, with its universal appeal, is a perfect example of this. Sharing a meal, hearing the laughter around the table, and seeing the smiles of those enjoying the pizza I've made – these moments are priceless. They help me heal, little by little, reminding me that I'm not alone.

Moving Forward

I'm not going to pretend that everything is back to normal. The fear and anxiety are still there, and I know the road to recovery will be a long one. But I've found a small, powerful way to cope through this journey. Pizza making has become more than just a hobby; it's a lifeline, a way to ground myself in the present and find joy amidst the pain.

To anyone else going through a tough time, I encourage you to find that one thing that brings you peace, no matter how small it might seem. For me, it's pizza making. For you, it might be something different. But whatever it is, hold onto it, and let it help you navigate through the darkness.

Thank you for being part of this journey with me. Your support means more than words can express. Let's continue to find strength in the simple, beautiful act of creating and sharing food.

With love and gratitude,

Tshepiso, a pizza maker

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Pizza: The Perfect Comfort Food for Cold Weather

As the temperature drops and chilly winds sweep in, there’s nothing quite like a warm, comforting meal to lift your spirits. For me, pizza has always been my go-to comfort food when the weather turns cold. It’s hearty, satisfying, and perfect for cozy nights in.

Pizza isn’t just food—it’s an experience. The smell of dough rising in the oven, the sizzle of cheese melting on top, and the warmth of that first bite can make even the coldest days feel a little brighter. Whether you’re curled up with a blanket watching your favorite show or sharing slices with loved ones, pizza has a way of bringing warmth and comfort to any moment.

To help you enjoy this season’s cozy vibes, I’m sharing a simple pizza recipe that’s easy to make and guaranteed to keep you warm.

Easy Homemade Comfort Pizza Recipe

Ingredients:

Pizza Dough:

2 cups all-purpose flour

1 tsp instant yeast

1 tsp sugar

1/2 tsp salt

3/4 cup warm water

1 tbsp olive oil

Toppings:

1/2 cup pizza sauce (store-bought or homemade)

1 1/2 cups shredded mozzarella cheese

1/2 cup pepperoni slices (or any favorite toppings)

1/4 tsp dried oregano (optional)

Instructions:

Make the Dough:

In a large bowl, mix the flour, yeast, sugar, and salt.

Add warm water and olive oil. Stir until the dough begins to form.

Knead the dough on a floured surface for about 5 minutes until smooth.

Place the dough in a lightly oiled bowl, cover with a kitchen towel, and let it rise for about 30-45 minutes.

Preheat the Oven:

While the dough is rising, preheat your oven to 220°C (425°F).

Shape the Dough:

Once the dough has risen, roll it out on a floured surface into your desired pizza shape—round or rectangular. Transfer it to a baking sheet or pizza stone.

Assemble Your Pizza:

Spread pizza sauce evenly over the dough.

Sprinkle mozzarella cheese generously on top, then add your favorite toppings like pepperoni, veggies, or anything you love.

Optional: sprinkle a pinch of oregano for added flavor.

Bake:

Bake the pizza in the preheated oven for 12-15 minutes, or until the crust is golden and the cheese is bubbly.

Serve:

Let the pizza cool slightly before slicing. Serve hot and enjoy the warm, comforting flavors of homemade pizza!

This simple recipe is perfect for those chilly nights when all you want is something warm and satisfying. Pizza truly is comfort food at its best, and the beauty of it is that you can customize it however you like—whether you’re a classic cheese lover or someone who enjoys piling on the toppings.

So, next time the cold weather rolls in, grab some ingredients, make this easy pizza, and let the warmth of the oven—and the pizza—bring some comfort to your day.

Stay warm and enjoy

Tshepi, The Pizza Maker

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I need to make this !

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Is it just about Music? I don't know

Let’s be honest, yes, we mostly talk about music. But yesterday, my partner and I had a conversation that I wouldn’t let go of. We spoke about contraceptives, what they do, what they mean, and who they affect. And I found myself questioning a lot. Not from a place of rebellion, but from a place of wanting to understand what we are asking the body to do. Most hormonal contraceptives don’t “store eggs” as people sometimes think. Instead, they work by preventing ovulation or changing the conditions in the body so that pregnancy is less likely. Biologically, they interrupt or alter a natural cycle that would otherwise lead to the release of an egg each month. And that’s where my discomfort begins. Because even if this interruption is medically understood and widely used, it still raises a deeper question for me: what happens when we consistently override a natural rhythm? The body is not passive. Hormones regulate mood, energy, desire, and emotional balance. So, when those hormones are adjusted artificially, it makes sense that some women experience changes, whether physical, emotional, or psychological. And those changes don’t exist in isolation. In a relationship, especially a committed one, both people feel the shift. The emotional weight, the mood changes, the subtle differences in connection. It’s not just a “women’s issue,” even though women carry most of the physical responsibility. That imbalance is also something worth sitting with. Because while contraceptives can offer control and choice, they also reflect a system where the burden often leans more heavily on women. And in trying to avoid one outcome, we may be creating another kind of strain on the body, on intimacy, and on shared responsibility. Sex, for me, exists in two spaces: reproduction and connection. And I believe there’s something to be said about understanding the natural rhythm of a partner’s body learning cycles, patterns, and timing, rather than overriding them completely. Fertility awareness, or cycle tracking, is one-way couples try to do this. It requires attention, discipline, and honesty about the fact that it’s not foolproof. But it brings both people into the process, instead of placing it mostly on one. It also forces a deeper kind of communication. This conversation naturally leads to something broader: sexual responsibility and hygiene, not just physically, but relationally. The choices we make around sex, protection, and prevention all carry consequences, whether visible or not. So this isn’t about saying contraceptives are entirely right or entirely wrong. It’s about asking better questions. About our bodies. About our relationships. About how we share responsibility. And about whether the solutions we rely on are serving both people equally or just making things easier on the surface.

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Is it just about Music? I don't know

Let’s be honest, yes, we mostly talk about music. But yesterday, my partner and I had a conversation that I wouldn’t let go of. We spoke about contraceptives, what they do, what they mean, and who they affect. And I found myself questioning a lot. Not from a place of rebellion, but from a place of wanting to understand what we are asking the body to do. Most hormonal contraceptives don’t “store eggs” as people sometimes think. Instead, they work by preventing ovulation or changing the conditions in the body so that pregnancy is less likely. Biologically, they interrupt or alter a natural cycle that would otherwise lead to the release of an egg each month. And that’s where my discomfort begins. Because even if this interruption is medically understood and widely used, it still raises a deeper question for me: what happens when we consistently override a natural rhythm? The body is not passive. Hormones regulate mood, energy, desire, and emotional balance. So, when those hormones are adjusted artificially, it makes sense that some women experience changes, whether physical, emotional, or psychological. And those changes don’t exist in isolation. In a relationship, especially a committed one, both people feel the shift. The emotional weight, the mood changes, the subtle differences in connection. It’s not just a “women’s issue,” even though women carry most of the physical responsibility. That imbalance is also something worth sitting with. Because while contraceptives can offer control and choice, they also reflect a system where the burden often leans more heavily on women. And in trying to avoid one outcome, we may be creating another kind of strain on the body, on intimacy, and on shared responsibility. Sex, for me, exists in two spaces: reproduction and connection. And I believe there’s something to be said about understanding the natural rhythm of a partner’s body learning cycles, patterns, and timing, rather than overriding them completely. Fertility awareness, or cycle tracking, is one-way couples try to do this. It requires attention, discipline, and honesty about the fact that it’s not foolproof. But it brings both people into the process, instead of placing it mostly on one. It also forces a deeper kind of communication. This conversation naturally leads to something broader: sexual responsibility and hygiene, not just physically, but relationally. The choices we make around sex, protection, and prevention all carry consequences, whether visible or not. So this isn’t about saying contraceptives are entirely right or entirely wrong. It’s about asking better questions. About our bodies. About our relationships. About how we share responsibility. And about whether the solutions we rely on are serving both people equally or just making things easier on the surface.

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What in the mother

Not a lot of music speaks to what I've been feeling lately...

How do you put years of resentment into a song? The kind that grows quietly from carrying a mother wound while trying to make sense of an absent father. The kind that comes from parenting your parents before you ever got the chance to be a child yourself.

No one really prepares you for what happens when you become an adult and realize your emotions matter. That they're not weaknesses to suppress, but the very things that shape how you love, trust, build friendships, find mentors, create opportunities, and move through the world.

When you've spent years disconnecting from yourself just to survive, feeling again isn't peaceful. It's overwhelming. It's grief. It's anger. It's relief. It's mourning the childhood you deserved while trying not to resent the people who couldn't give it to you.

Maybe that's why I struggle to find music that reflects this season. So many songs are about heartbreak or healing, but very few speak to the quiet, complicated work of raising yourself after you've spent years raising everyone else.

There aren't enough words to describe this feeling.

Just a lot of emotion to carry.

If you've felt this too, tell me what you've been listening to or maybe there isn't a song for it yet. Maybe we're all just trying to find language for something we've carried in silence for years.

Is it just about Music? I don't know

Let’s be honest, yes, we mostly talk about music. But yesterday, my partner and I had a conversation that I wouldn’t let go of. We spoke about contraceptives, what they do, what they mean, and who they affect. And I found myself questioning a lot. Not from a place of rebellion, but from a place of wanting to understand what we are asking the body to do. Most hormonal contraceptives don’t “store eggs” as people sometimes think. Instead, they work by preventing ovulation or changing the conditions in the body so that pregnancy is less likely. Biologically, they interrupt or alter a natural cycle that would otherwise lead to the release of an egg each month. And that’s where my discomfort begins. Because even if this interruption is medically understood and widely used, it still raises a deeper question for me: what happens when we consistently override a natural rhythm? The body is not passive. Hormones regulate mood, energy, desire, and emotional balance. So, when those hormones are adjusted artificially, it makes sense that some women experience changes, whether physical, emotional, or psychological. And those changes don’t exist in isolation. In a relationship, especially a committed one, both people feel the shift. The emotional weight, the mood changes, the subtle differences in connection. It’s not just a “women’s issue,” even though women carry most of the physical responsibility. That imbalance is also something worth sitting with. Because while contraceptives can offer control and choice, they also reflect a system where the burden often leans more heavily on women. And in trying to avoid one outcome, we may be creating another kind of strain on the body, on intimacy, and on shared responsibility. Sex, for me, exists in two spaces: reproduction and connection. And I believe there’s something to be said about understanding the natural rhythm of a partner’s body learning cycles, patterns, and timing, rather than overriding them completely. Fertility awareness, or cycle tracking, is one-way couples try to do this. It requires attention, discipline, and honesty about the fact that it’s not foolproof. But it brings both people into the process, instead of placing it mostly on one. It also forces a deeper kind of communication. This conversation naturally leads to something broader: sexual responsibility and hygiene, not just physically, but relationally. The choices we make around sex, protection, and prevention all carry consequences, whether visible or not. So this isn’t about saying contraceptives are entirely right or entirely wrong. It’s about asking better questions. About our bodies. About our relationships. About how we share responsibility. And about whether the solutions we rely on are serving both people equally or just making things easier on the surface.

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Music write-up, 05 March 2026

South Africa is currently carrying my playlist on its back. The music coming out of this country right now is nothing short of incredible. It feels homey. It feels Black, strong, traditional, and rich. The musicality is beyond what I ever imagined.

What amazes me most is that even though South African music carries all these deeply rooted cultural elements, it still commands international listeners to give it a chance. The R&B scene is completely out of this world, the jazz scene is mind-blowing, and the neo-soul scene feels warm, fluffy, and soft. Then there’s house music and its many subgenres, which are simply on another level.

When you look at the upcoming artists in South Africa, you can see the quality of work being produced. As we say, local is lekker. The young kings and queens are putting out music of such high quality that even the OGs must feel the pressure to release their best work.

Take Wav Gardn for example. This band is showing us that groups are far from dead—collectives will always have a place in music. They move freely between genres like R&B, neo-soul, jazz, and storytelling.

Another incredible artist is Filah Lah Lah. Her music feels soft and moisturized. She speaks her mind honestly, yet somehow connects everything she says to her heart. Listening to her feels intimate and sincere.

Then there is Roho, who blends R&B with dreamy rock, bedroom rock, and neo-soul. His sound shows just how experimental and creative the South African scene has become.

There are so many artists shaping the sound of South Africa today that we would need an entirely new conversation just to explore them all.

It’s also no surprise that artists like Thandiswa Mazwai continue to release work of exceptional quality. Her storytelling keeps listeners on their toes. She proudly reminds us who she is—Black, traditional, and unapologetic—because the younger generation is doing the same.

When it comes to songwriting, Wav Gardn stands out. The pen in that band is hot. You find yourself wanting to follow every word their singer sings. She speaks from the soul and even teaches listeners about boundaries and self-respect. A song like “Umzi Watsha” gives you a glimpse into that depth.

Music can be a powerful tool for self-preservation. Artists who create from their souls show us this with precision and gentleness. Their music becomes a form of therapy that travels with you. Through their stories and experiences, you sometimes find yourself in the same emotional space they’re describing. But you also see someone learning to choose themselves—and that’s a lesson you can carry into your own life.

So be mindful of what you listen to, because music feeds both the conscious and the subconscious.

#neosoul #indierock #south africa #south african music #BlackIsUs

Music write up 03 March 2026

Lately, I have felt a shift in the music scene. The emotion seems to have faded, and it is tough to connect with what artists are trying to say. Many independent musicians appear to be searching for shortcuts, and you can hear it in the sameness among neo-soul acts. Their songs often create a mood but lack real depth, leaving nothing that truly stirs the soul or makes you want to dive deeper into their work. Is the drive to stay on the charts causing artists to lower their creative energy? Back in February 2026, Jill Scott, the queen of neo-soul and R&B, showed everyone how it is done. Give her album a listen. Maybe I am partial, but her music genuinely moves you. She explores what it means to be loved right and to be truly free. Are we really free? That question feels more important than ever, especially when I hear what the younger generation is putting out. To me, music should be a sanctuary, a way to pour out your feelings and experiences. When you do that, listeners will find themselves in your story, and there is comfort in knowing someone else understands your journey.

#music #rnbmusic #neo soul #listen #comeletstalkmusic

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