the only change people seem to be okay with characters going through is like, whatever they consider the acceptable amount to be found in a neatly defined arc, some hero's journey shit with a packaged up return to the status quo at the end. nothings fundamentally different. which is why people cant handle it when characters dont have linear growth, or when they seem like theyre doing better and then they get worse and completely backslide, or just go in a direction thats unexpected. and its why ppl are especially so allergic to characters going through the process of unpacking their gender and transitioning onscreen. it almost mirrors the classic transphobic parent "youre taking away my son/daughter" thing. because it turns out you didnt fully know this person in the way you assumed that you could. but they still are the same person. can you accept that?






















