You're Safe, You're Loved, And You Matter

://// Why is androphobia seen as a legitimate fear of men But all of the posts I’ve seen for gynophobia seem more misogynistic.. that tag is full of vore and cannibalism as a warning I mean.. men can be pretty fucking terrifying, the media and every day life situations reflect that perfectly well. Especially if someone was made vulnerable or abused by a male. But I think a fear of women is just as justified. Women can be abusers as well. It’s okay to be afraid of them. I know fear can cause hatred, but they’re not the same thing.. I abhor the things done to me, but I’m not afraid. (of men) You can be afraid and not have hatred. Or you can have both. But they’re not interchangeable. Bluh.. I’m just worried that having a fear of women may be treated as a joke, or those with that fear may be branded as misogynists, when they don’t hate women, they’re just freaking terrified.. Your fears are valid, and it’s okay. Adrophobes and gynophobes.

I just want a kiss

despite always talking about romance and how much i yearn for it in my life i’m starting to wonder if i’m actually capable of romantic love. it’s not that i don’t want it, i just don’t feel like i could be a good romantic partner to anyone long-term. i like my solitude and independence too much to ever be able to compromise that for someone else, even though i genuinely want to try for someone who i feel is worth it. eventually i’d start chafing and either close myself off from them or start trying to overcompensate out of guilt and hurt them and drive them away as a result. i think everyone will be happier, myself included, if i stay alone my whole life.

A person with an abusive nature will always register you standing up for yourself as an act of betrayal. Betray them.

This is so important. As a good person, you may choose to stick around to prove to someone that you’re not a bad person. You have nothing to prove to a bad person. You cannot help everyone. You cannot fix everyone. It’s not your fault.

Mood: having the need to ask for your love and attention 24/7 but instead, keep the distance between us so you don’t have to deal with my clingyness and emotional instability. ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ