She Paints Me Blue

It must be obvious, from the start, that there is a contradiction in wanting to be perfectly secure in a universe whose very nature is momentariness and fluidity

Human beings are works in progress that mistakenly think they’re finished. The person you are right now is as transient, as fleeting and as temporary as all the people you’re ever been. The one constant in our lives is change. —  Daniel Gilbert

“This life of ours, is only shaped by the rattling thoughts inside of our head, by the way we choose to see the world, despite the good and bad. We are only willing to see what we want to see.”

I worry that my friends will misunderstand my silence

Janelle Monae releases a videoclip about the power of pussy, where she celebrates her body as (cis) blackwomen who loves other other women while always making statements about about vaginas(such as “sex sells” relating to the over sexualization of it, “i grab back” in response of sexual assaults) AND JUST A DAY BEFORE

“She was the tide, always drifting in and out of the lives of those who loved her. Eternally indecisive, unable to discern whether she desired the solidity and safety of land, or the wild freedom of the ocean.”

“It is important to remember that true love would never ask you to sacrifice your self-respect. That a partner who belittles you is not interested in your heart or soul, only your surrender and obedience.”

“Even exceptionally powerful and passionate connections require care and attention. Chemistry might bring two people together, but it is quiet, consistent, everyday effort that makes a relationship truly remarkable.”