chris

viewing queer identities as “this is the label that makes me happy and feels most accurate now” rather than “this is who I am, was, and always will be” will definitely take the pressure off, friends. changing your mind is proof that you have one.

Friendly reminder that your understanding of yourself changes and it’s ok to change your labels to reflect that.

it always makes my heart hurt seeing women struggle and agonize over whether they’re attracted to men or not. let me present you with the alternative: it isn’t important. what’s important is what makes you feel good and fulfilled. maybe that isn’t same gender attraction yet (because gods know internalized homophobia is a monster and a half) but if your struggle with being attracted to men or not is upsetting or harming you– here’s permission to let it go. it doesn’t have to matter. you are free. let it fall away from you like rain off a roof. nurture what nurtures you.

literally the most liberating thing ever is understanding that your sexual identity isn’t what you ‘are’ there is no essential lesbian or essential straight woman or anything. it’s all about what you want to do. what makes you happy

it’s national girlfriend day so if any of you got a crush on me you better step up and confess

holding hands with someone is one of the simplest and greatest things on earth. nothing else really matters honestly