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The Top Dozen reasons.

 Note: These are my opinions as to why lesbian lovemaking is best. This list consists of generalities that I believe are only true “on average”.  They certainly do not apply to every girl or every guy. Moreover, this is not presented as the “truth” - only as one lesbian’s perspective. Heterosexual men and women and gay men - please don’t tell me that you disagree. Please don’t even read this!  Instead, please write your own list!  

 Here are my the top dozen reasons why its better for a girl to make love with another girl. These are presented in no particular order:

1.  Girls are so beautiful, soft, and sexy. When you do it with a girl you get to look at, feel, and do things to a girl instead of to a guy. Even straight girls usually agree that girls are so much prettier to look at, so much nicer to kiss and feel, sexier looking, have chests that are inherently sexier than male chests, have no scratchy faces or body hair to deal with, have sensuous curves to feel and admire, etc.

2.  Girls usually prefer more tenderness, romance, and also care more about the setting. Girls like to kiss, cuddle, exchange flowers and other gifts, use candles and music to set the mood, and do other romantic things much more than guys do. (There are of course many exceptions where a girl just wants to have quick sex, but not on average.)  Girls usually make love to a person, not to body parts.  For this reason girls usually want to get to know another girl as a person before sex.  We’re less likely to consider another girl to be just a piece of meat.  All this makes the sex so much better when it does happen.

3. Girls are more likely to get pleasure from giving pleasure to whoever they make love with. This means that another girl will probably try harder to please you, especially orally. Perhaps men are even programmed by nature to penetrate, come, and then to have no more interest in sex, rather than to truly work to please their partner.

4. A girl inherently knows how to please another girl.  Because she’s got her own pussy and breasts, she instinctively knows better what a girl wants and how to make love with another woman. Perhaps for this reason girls are more patient in bed. Because they know that most girls like it slow, romantic and gradual a high percentage of the time, rather than “slam-bam-thank you ma'am”.  So a girl usually is better at pleasing another girl.

5.  Breasts.  Only girls have sexy breasts.  And breasts are so mind-bogglingly beautiful.  A universal sign of sexiness, to both men and women. Most girls would much rather look at feel, lick, kiss or suck a girl’s nipples than a guy’s nipples. And look at, etc. a girl’s breasts than a guy’s hairy breasts. For most girls - even straight girls - its not even close.

6.  The genitals.  Most girls think that a pussy is beautiful and that a cock is not - maybe even that cocks are scary or yucky. Most girls would rather lick or suck another girl until she comes than blow a guy until he comes.

7.  Girls’ sounds, passion, responsiveness, and movement.  Guys usually are silent or moan a bit. But women are louder and more passionate in bed, and often writhe with pleasure.  Naturally girls prefer to make love to someone - a woman - who obviously loves what they are doing to them, rather than to a guy who just grunts a bit or says nothing.  The responsiveness you get from a girl is positive feedback that is wonderful for the active lovemaker.

8.  Stamina.  A guy comes once and then its over, at least for long enough to interrupt the lovemaking.  A girl can come again and again, and after she comes she still has an inclination to please you, whereas often a man often loses interest and sometimes even wants to go to sleep.

9. The emotional connection makes the sex better.  Girls understand each other better and can connect better with another girl. A girl can be closer with another girl than with a guy. Because of the sameness, the emotional connection can deeper, and this makes the sex more satisfying.

10.  Its nicer know you both inherently are more likely to want the same things.  Some men will kiss you as long as you like, suck your breasts as long as you like, and romance you as much as you like.  But you wonder: are they doing it because they like kissing, etc as much as a girl does, or is it just a way for them to get into your panties?  Its nicer with a girl because you know they like kissing, cuddling, romance, etc. as much as you do.

11.  The interactive process that ratchets up your lovemaking. You show that you are passionate and you vocalize move, and react, which turns her on and makes her vocalize and become more passionate, which turns you on even more, etc.  Because a man doesn’t show his passion, move, or vocalize nearly as much, there’s less of this wonderful ratcheting up process.

12.  You start from a position of equality because you’re more nearly equal in terms of size and strength, and another girl can’t rape you with her cock. With another woman you don’t start with a power imbalance, and since both women know this, you both can concentrate more on other goals and values, such as pleasure and love. Often with a man, the women must employ a variety of techniques, both sexual and non-sexual, to make up for this imbalance. With another woman no such games are necessary.

Readers - Why do you think girls are better at making love with another girl? Did I leave any of the most important reasons out?  Are there any changes or additions you can suggest?  Linda  [email protected]