Sugar Start

I want to say I appreciate and value all of you ladies here.

The amount of hustle I read from each Sugar Baby here motivates me. I love reading stories from women who show their struggles, successes, and emotions. When I began the sugar lifestyle, I only knew of the gilded sugar babies the ones who got $10,000 into their bank for kissing, $60,000 deposited into their bank but they would be struggling to pay for their cellphone bill the next month. 

(sips tea) 

I admire you ladies for sharing your highs and lows, and making this a safe space. 

Some more examples:

The Maya invented the number zero which allowed them to have a sophisticated system of astronomy and mathematics and an extremely precise calendar. They accurately predicted solar eclipses up to the present day!

Okay….so I’M a dirty bitch because I like older men with money? I care about them and develop feelings and they adore me and pay my rent and spoil the shit out of me…. but I’m a sinner right? A Ho, if you will?

And you…vanilla bitches… you fuck guys you meet on Tinder after they take you to Shake Shack. Your hashtag mcm is broke as fuck and doesn’t pay for your manicures. You settle for Netflix and chill as a proper date night. Your college sweetheart is an aspiring DJ who smokes pot. But sex with them is fine because of like, your age?

Do you think it’s ethical because you guys are equals?

So with that logic, if you’re an equal to them, you’re thinking, what…socially? Financially? Age wise?

Cuz I’m a broke young girl but I know I’m not equals with guys my age. The difference is I know I have class, intelligence, maturity– and that’s what older men can give back. Vanillas my age don’t have all that! The cash with older guys is just a perk.

I’m not bashing vanilla relationships at all. But if we’re not trying to be broke and BUILD together then I’m gunna let someone who has BUILT help me build MYSELF.

- “I don’t want the relationship to feel too transactional”

- “No hookers, whores, or professionals”

- “I need to see bikini pics/nudes/lingerie pics first”

- “We’ll need to test our chemistry before discussing an allowance”

- “I feel like you’re only talking to me for money”

- “I can only send your allowance through your bank, so I’ll need your login information”

-“I don’t want to feel like an ATM”

- “I can pay for an Uber/hotel room, but it’ll have to come out of your allowance”

- “I don’t need to pay a woman for her company”

- “I can’t afford your allowance AND a hotel”

- “I’m going to need some sample nudes to make sure you’re worth it”

-“Can you host?”

Went makeup shopping today with Lawyer! I can’t believe he let me buy all of this. Srsly, I told him I was done at one point and he goes “why?” And I’m like…okay zaddy so I filled up the baggie some more, and he held it while I carried more stuff in my hands. Such a wonderful guy. I never in my life thought I’d ever spend $850 at Sephora alone. This makeup/skincare is worth almost everything I bought when we went clothes/shoes/accessory shopping. I literally revamped my entire makeup collection (besides palettes, which I have millions of already) & got the skin care I’ve been dyingggg to get! Glamglow FTW! I was too scared to pick up the $90 Drunk Elephant mask but I probably should have *sigh* next time.

I can’t wait to see what he’ll get me for Christmas! I’m going to formulate a wishlist and share it with y’all soon. Gonna give half of it to one SD and the other half to the other SD so whatever they choose to get me is not a duplicate! Also let me know if you guys want product info or reviews on anything you’ve never tried that you see here (I’ve tried almost all of these products, just rebought most of them).

Oh btw, I’ve become an absolute spoiled brat. 🤷🏽‍♀️