George Russell 8x Race Winner Apologist

Firstly, it's totally normal to be nervous, stressed, embarrassed, anything you're feeling. Even people who had done a million job interviews get nervous; it's human. More so when you haven't done it before! New things are always scary...it's the unknown. As hard as it is, remind yourself that the outcome of one (1) interview does not define you and will not define your life. I understand there is a lot of emotional weight on this for you so I'm certainly not saying its wrong to feel this way! But also hold some grace for yourself at the same time <3 Trying to sway your mindset even a little can make all the difference.

I mean, your mindset is already on the right path in telling yourself and acknowledging that "want to live and have a life". That's a HUGE step! Huge huge huge!! Keep that energy going 🥳 even if there is a setback, remind yourself over and over and over that setbacks don't define you! It's the picking yourself back up that means all the more. Even from this little ask, I can feel that in you <3

For what to wear (my favourite part lol), you're always better to be overdressed than underdressed. I'm not sure what your options are and what your wardrobe looks like, but your best bet is to keep away from jeans or leggings etc. A comfortable pair of slacks goes a long way. If you don't have any slacks and it's not in your budget to pick up a cheap pair, if you only have jeans, go for either a very dark blue/black or a light wash/white.

Even a modest skirt (pencil skirt or a-line are my go-tos) or modest dress (no spaghetti straps or too-low neckline, ideally knee-length) would work too! But slacks are often the most comfortable. Paired with either a plain t-shirt (tucked in) or a blouse. Simple white button up is a great choice. Ideally with heels or flats (not sneakers, if you have other options, although a neutral tone might be okay).

Here are some outfit inspos from Pinterest (searched 'simple interview outfit'):

For the actual interview itself, the best advice to give is to be prepared and be honest. Since this would be your first job, you likely don't have a resume, but I suggest making one anyway! Even on a Canva template for now, including your educational history, any volunteering, extra curriculars, hobbies, and your skills you can bring to a position. Even though there won't be 'much' to share, having this prepared will show that you want to be able to add more to it!

Make sure you know enough about the store and the position. Come into it knowing a bit about the store's history and offerings so you can sound like you're a fan of the store haha. Butter them up a little, make it sound like you really want to work for them because xyz. Also be aware of what the position is for and what you'd be doing. It's fine to come with questions too! If anything on the posting was unclear about what your role might be, questions are always a great way to appear interested.

LinkedIn has some great articles that you can find with a quick google search on interview prep, giving you some example questions that might be asked so you can have your answers in your mind ahead of time. There will likely always be a question the interviewer asks that you weren't anticipating but that's okay! There's nothing wrong with saying "Hmm, I'm not sure, let me think about that for a moment" or "I haven't had experience in that but I'm very willing to learn" type of things. You're still human, you're not going to know everything or have an answer for everything. Being honest about it will really make you stand out!

And, afterwards, within 24-hours of the interview, make sure to send an email to your interviewer to thank them for the opportunity and expressing that you're looking forward to hearing from them about their decision. That really bodes well!

I'd say tell your best friend! It's always good to have someone in your corner...and maybe even after your interview you can go out for a little sweet treat together as a reward 🥰