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Want to know what makes sex truly amazing?

Genuine emotions…and two people who both feel it.

Anyone can learn how to be technically proficient…and be very good in bed.

But unless there is strong emotion to correspond with that..you might as well be in bed with a sex machine.

Society as a whole, has brainwashed people into thinking they need to be sex Gods and Goddesses.

When all you need to be, is thrilled to be with one another.

I think that many women feel inhibited the first few times they are with someone.

And that inhibition can take the form of either trying to prove how very sexy you are and wowing him with every move you might know, or that inhibition might cause you to not climax, because you are concentrating upon everything else, except getting lost in the moment.

I think that many men, who might not want to admit it, also feel a bit self conscious the first few times they are with a woman. Perhaps wondering how they might compare to other men she might have been with, or wondering how they will ‘measure’ up.

I think we need to banish a lot of this stuff.

You don’t have to be a sex God or Goddess.

What you do have to be is overjoyed with one another.

You don’t have to try the most exotic or tantric positions.

What you do have to do is fall together most naturally.

You don’t have to think of sexy words to say in bed.

What you should do , is let every feeling flow.

There should be no pressures, no worries, no stresses, no inhibitions.

Instead there has to be emotion.

Love, Lust, Desire, Like, Joy, Thrill, Happy, Comfortable.

Good sex is simply two people who find each other amazing.

The rest of it will fall into place..naturally.

I see a lot on tumblr lately regarding the defense of underage participants in a certain community, as well as the underage participants expressing anger that they are not welcome on NSFW blogs. As a NSFW blogger, as well as someone who has come to know various sex laws due to their career, I thought I would clarify some things:

1. It doesn’t matter what the age of consent in your state is. Age of consent refers to the age that you are able to consent to sexual activity only.

2. Even if you are able to consent at age 16 or 17, by law you are still a minor. Pornography cannot be sold or viewed by minors.

3. If you are under 18 and you post explicit photos of yourself, you can be charged with creating and circulating child pornography, as the images contain a minor.

4. It is normal to have interests in sex and kink, regardless of age. There are safe spaces on the internet to seek these out and ask questions regarding your interests. Spaces where you can communicate with other teens, that are well moderated and do not allow adults to freely graze and prey. Scarleteen.com is probably the greatest example.

5. As a minor, showing purposeful disregard for another blogger or a website’s request that no minors be present on the site (and for some explicit material, 21 is the age for legal viewership) puts the owner of that blog and/or website at risk. No one wants to see awesome sex bloggers get shut down or sex friendly spaces on the internet get hit for having underage members. Think about more than just yourselves.