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I'm ngl the recent need to assign every woman an "aesthetic", to put her into a box and label her as a specific "type" of woman (a clean girl, an alt girl, a cottagecore girl, or most obviously, a goth girl) is reminiscent of how women are labelled in porn; infact I'd argue it's pretty much identical. Men use these "aesthetics" to describe a type of woman he wants, as if we're a dog breed. When he says he wants a "goth girl", he means a specific type of woman portrayed in a pornographic light; kinky, bossy, big tits. When he says he wants a clean girl, he's also describing a porn category; he wants a woman who is unnaturally hairless, face caked on with makeup to hide any form of "blemish" but in a way that looks "natural" so he can continue living in the lie that porn has promised him, a woman who appears simple and won't cause much of a fuss, and so will bend to his will. Aesthetics are capitalistic by nature, but they are also deeply embedded into patriarchy; they convince you to focus on becoming a type of woman, while also robbing you of your money and your thoughts at the same time. The men are fucking us over twice with the same idea. Two birds, one stone.

i love when my mutuals are mutuals with each other #myecosystem #myenclosure

my blood is glitter btw

‘am i right ladies’ is the best way to end any text post am i right ladies 

Ain't it awful that when a woman misses her period, it's always "are you pregnant?", and never "are you alright?"/"you takin care of yourself?"