Cindy Sinn

Chastity Rules

Basic Rules for beginners. The key is to be very strict and follow every rule.

1. Take control of his orgasms • He must wear a chastity device 24/7. • You should lock his chastity cage and only you should be the “KeyHolder”. You can also use a numeric padlock. • Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing. • Emphasize that he will never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm OR erection! without your permission. • He must experience ruined orgasms.  This emphasizes your control and stimulates his frustration. • He may only cum when wearing a buttplug and your panties. You may also gag him. • Peg him, make him cum like a real sissy • Milk his prostate • Always restrain his hands(handcuffs or rope) when letting him out of his cage. Many guys will resist after an orgasm or take control when you edge/ruin them.

Everytime you let him cum, you must ruin him. After that you make him eat his cum. You can edge him and forbid him to orgasm. You have to learn him that he may not orgasm. If he does then you have to make him eat his cum. 

Ruined -> Eat it Accidently -> Eat it

Only tease and edge! Edge every day!

2. Chastity devices • Make him buy secure permanent devices like the jailbird, holy trainer or metal cages with urethra plugs. Make sure you get the right size so he cannot escape. You can make many devices escape proof with medical glue. The best option is a PA. It is recommended to glue his foreskin with superglue so he won’t attempt to escape. This does not damage the skin but lays a sticky layer for 1 week. • The best devices can be worn 24/7 and only need cleaning every other day. He can clean it in the shower by putting soap in his cage and apply a full jet of the shower head right in the cage. it will clean his penis thoroughly. No need to take him out • Shaving can perfectly be done while wearing the device. Just move it a bit to reach the hard to reach spots. • If he has to clean his penis manually for a reason. Do it under supervision or tell him that only you may touch his penis. He is not allowed to play by himself. • Draw you name on his dick before putting him in the cage. That way you can check if he cheated or not! For him it is mind boggling not touching a body part for over a month when he used to touch it every hour.

3. Get into his head! • Learn his fantasies and what turns him on. • Tease him with his fantasies whenever possible. • Make him wear your panties all the time. Skirts, stockings, socks everything to make him remember he’s your slut at work or wherever he goes. • Make him sign these rules without letting him read it. He may experience the joy of chastity. • He must promise he will follow the rules strictly. You may threaten to leave him if he doesn’t. He will make up his mind soon enough. • Explain to him that he will only receive prostate orgasm. Sissies should cum like real girls. • Make him shave his WHOLE body! Nothing better then feeling a soft body next to you in bed at night. It will grow back so he has to maintain it.

4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible. • Taunt him.  Dress sexy • Talk sexy and dirty to him. • Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating. • Fondle him or let him fondle you. • Make him wear a buttplug or prostate massager everytime you go out. • Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual. • Make him give you orgasms frequently. • Edge him • Milk his prostate

5. Make him do something humiliating and learn when he will do anything for you. • Tease him to the edge then command the most humiliating activities.  He will do them. • Make him wear a butt-plug for a time. • Train him to submit to your strapon.   • Make him be naked when you are not. • Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum after your ruin his orgasm no matter where it is deposited. Sit on his face after a creampie or feed him off your hand or french kiss him!

6. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to taunt him. • Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private). • Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear. • Make him shop for lingerie or toys for you. • Leave notes with instructions like: “I want to see you caged and plugged with these when I get home”

7. Control your own feelings of guilt.

• He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your    permission. • If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it! • Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one. • Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).

Extra sissy rules:

• A sissy must wear panties. He does not own any male underwear. Take away his underwear and replace it. • A sissy may wear a bra and pink or brightly colored tights or leggings. Leggings and nylon are mandatory! • A sissy must sleep in lingerie. If he does not have any, he must sleep naked. • When alone, a sissy must dress as a girl. Good sissies wear lipstick while alone. • A sissy always keeps himself free of facial hair, and is otherwise well groomed. He must always be presentable, ready to please.  • Good sissies shave their legs • A sissy must never touch himself sexually without explicit permission from his Master or from his Muse • A sissy must wear as many lovely pink girly things as possible • Sissy must be in panties and a bra minimum at all times. • Sissy must keep shaved clean below the neck at all times. • Slave is not to masturbate with out permission, and when permission is given, it must be done in a slutty humiliating sissy way that reinforces my position.   

Some text to make him horny:

‘I love thinking about your cock in that cage

I’m thinking about you inside me right now, maybe I’ll let you tonight

Fancy a blow job? He replies yes. Shame you’ve got that cage on.

How are you going to convince me to unlock you tonight honey?

I’m really horny. Come and give me an orgasm, at least one of might as well

a list of tasks with ‘unlock cock’ as the final one lol

It's life changing 🤭🩷💕

Keeping class simple for you dumb bimbos 🤭

“What?!  Sweetie!  You know I’d never want to cheat on you!”

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Chastity - Lock & Key 🔐

This seems like the right time to discuss and get informed about chastity. 'Loctober' has been trending on social media, for more than one reason. Some may not know that this term originates from the sex industry, although there is a new vanilla definition referring to 'locking in' to ones goals in the last quarter of the year. Loctober in the sexual sense refers to Chastity and the use of chastity cages for male genitalia, belts for female genitalia. Both the cage and the belt can be locked with a key, hence the play on words with 'locking in' and if the person wearing the cage has an agreement or arrangement with someone to 'hold' that key, which hands over control, that person is called a key holder. Usually only one person wears a device while the other has control over the device. Commonly in a sub domme dynamic the submissive person practices chastity while the dominant person holds the key, thus controlling the subs freedom.

Chastity is associated with abstinence (restraining oneself from indulging) and is practiced by a plethora of individuals and couples alike in order to enhance their sex life and' or other areas of their life by focusing attention and energy elsewhere. In the world of BDSM is a form of orgasm control. The psychology behind this can be quite intimate as it involves trust, surrender and experience at least in terms of what one another need from this arrangement. This can range from occasional wear to pretty much permanent wear. Those who participate in this long term, with the use of a cage or belt are 'chastity lifestylers'.  

It has become increasingly popular for subs to pay online/ virtual dommes to hold a digital key (there is an app for this) or to send the physical key through the mail. If the domme does not physically possess the key then strict rules for the times that the restrictive cage is worn will be discussed and agreed upon. For example, the sub might be given the freedom to open the cage 2-3 times a day for 5-15 minutes for hygiene purposes. The domme may check-in with the sub, possibly taunt, tease or even humiliate the sub while they are locked-up either through text, voice/video call or in person. Some subs enjoy the presence of a domme actually physically handling them and placing them into the cage and locking it. The entire process from start to finish is one of commitment from both parties. Regular communication is important where in person meetings are not possible. 

While the chastity device is worn, that person is unable to masturbabte, experience oral sex or intercourse. It has been studied and there have been claims made that chastity can help break ones addiction to sex by forcing them to learn self control, some experience clarity, increased focus and higher productivity. As one's hormone levels decrease and stabilize over time these results increase. In an old edition of Men's Magazine there was an article that explored the appeal of chasity from men's point of view. Tom explained that he preferred a more submissive role and found the relinquishment of control to his wife a huge relief. For a lot of men gender norms can lead to a huge amount of pressure, this kink provides a safe way out so to speak. Christian stated that other erogenous zones such as his nipples had become more sensitive, leading him to explore arousal with his entire body, not just his penis, sex as a  result of chastity became a lot more interesting.