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Collars are very special things. Sacred. Important. Special. And NEVER something that should be given without a clear understanding of what it means, by all parties involved. This is all said with the pretense that myself and @mrkristoferweston are better than ever, this is not an issue with our relationship but a reflection of why our relationship works versus recent issues in the community that continue to pop up.

If you EVER give a collar to someone you better be completely clear on what it means and hold yourself responsible as the one who gave it to THEM. Yes the receiving end is equally responsible of being communicative of needs/want/expectations. But recently, I’ve had the horror of hearing of at least 4 individuals coming forward to speak on the emotional abuse they went through because they were mislead about being collared. From the same exact person.

It frustrates me to no end to see people taken advantage of: emotionally, physically, psychologically. I will be the first one to tell you, someone who collars you should show you the MOST respect, love, compassion, understanding and time; not dismiss you for needing a second of their attention or voicing a concern about your relationship.

It’s why I don’t let anyone other than those collared boys call me Master. 

It’s why there’s only ever been five of them in 24 years of doing kinky things, including @manokiller, @pupzathin, and @puppyaero. 

The collar is extremely important to me, and I don’t give it out or take it away easily. It is an accomplishment, a prize, a symbol, and a contract. 

Been locked for one week now, so going to take my chances with a small challenge here!

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