cgl criticism

I try not to kinkshame, I really do. For me, whatever goes on between consenting adults behind closed doors is none of my business. But when you bring your fetish into a public setting where I’m forced to see it, it becomes my business. I wanted to share what I just witnessed in hopes that my experiance might enlighten others and maybe even change how they conduct themselves.

In context, I work at an amusement park. So needless to say, our main customers are families with kids. I was working a normal shift, when a young couple came up in the line. The girl was wearing a pink collar. Red flag. While explaining how to play at one of our interactive attractions, she started getting excited by jumping around, screaming loudly and talking in childish gibberish. I’ve been on tumblr long enough to recognize it as a form of age regression.

If you use it as a coping mechanism, do whatever floats your boat. I really couldnt care less. I know that age regression isn’t necessarily sexual in nature, but its common in caregiver/dom/little relationships which are known for being sexual. Anyways, I explained how to play the game when to my disgust, this woman litterally starts GRINDING on this man and both began saying sexual things outloud in the middle of the damn lineup!

Are you kidding me?!

The parents were mortified while the kids in line were visably frightened or confused. We obviously kicked them out -but seriously? They should be ashamed! Everyone, doms and littles included, should know better than to act that way in public, especially in front of CHILDREN. Having a kink is no excuse.

Sexualizing things meant for kids and then harassing those kids when they say they don’t like it.

1. You kept it off tumblr. 2. You didn’t roleplay it 24/7 (and by extension exposing other people to it)

“Dd” literally stands for daddy dom

By continuously saying that it’s not a kink, this is endangering minors and could make them want to be in a cgl/ ddlg relationship too, seeing as it’s ‘not a kink.’ Like I’ve had countless underage littles tell me that isn’t not a kink, y'all have minors in the shitshow you call a community not even knowing what they’re a part of.

okay then why do you reblog things onto your nsfw kink blog that have banners stating they dont consent? why do you reblog selfies and pictures of people without asking consent from them first? why do you post in sfw tags and avoid flagging your blogs or posts which results in people seeing it without consent? why do you bring your kink into public spaces?