Pampering
With the growth in the standard of living and increase in prices of commodities, it is a common factor to see that both the parents go to work . This has resulted in the kids being put in creches or a nanny appointed to take care of them. Parents love their kids a lot, there is no doubt about it. Parents start feeling guilty of leaving their child with a nanny or in a day care center. Also, kids being cute, parents get carried away. Since many parents had limited resources while growing up, they want to give the best to their children. The result is they start fulfilling every wish of their child. This is not a good thing.
Pampering over a period of time, results in spoiling the child. All parents want happiness for their child. Yet, they do not realize that pampering their child will not help them in growing better, till it becomes a problem which they will not be able to address. Satisfying a child's needs is not wrong. One must just draw a line to determine if the child's wish is a necessity or just whims.
Pampered children usually show hostile behavior. They start using bad language which is never acceptable. Parents should learn to say βNOβ when it is needed. No parent wants their child hurt,so please explain to your child why his/her wish cannot be fulfilled. This will help children to understand the difference between good and bad, right and wrong, need and pleasure. Pampering a child is not bad as long as it is done in moderation.












