The VA is a Joke
I am beyond disgusted with the way the VA has treated my mother in regards to my mentally ill stepfather. My stepfather is a paranoid schizophrenic with Alzheimer's and he has been having a psychotic break for the past two years, his delusions have been about me, unfortunately. He is convinced I owe him over $38,000, which is not true. My mother and stepfather were told about a year ago by his mental health PA at the Robert Dole VA in Wichita, Ks that it was time to go into a home.
This is due to his schizophrenia and Alzheimer’ s, this past weekend everything came to a head and my mother received a call from a social worker at the VA telling her to bring him in. My mom was relieved and thought she was going to actually get some help, it was a weight lifted off her shoulders especially since she is afraid of him and what he could do. They admitted him into the hospital over the weekend, but a psychiatrist who knows nothing of his history did not bother to talk to the PA who has cared for his mental health needs for the past 25 years spoke to my stepfather and said he was fine and could go home. Are you kidding me? She even said that he did not have Alzheimer’s because the disease is not progressing as it should even though a neurologist who did actual tests on him years ago diagnosed him.
They were trying to also say he was not mentally ill, what kind of psychiatrists makes this decision without checking into his history? My mother told this woman she was afraid for her safety and it was said well that’s a domestic issue...WHAT?!? I had my mother tell this woman and the social worker if they sent my stepfather home and he hurt or killed my mother I would sue each of them individually and the VA hospital. The psychiatrists laughed and said, “that is why I have malpractice insurance”. Are you kidding me? This is your response? This shows me that not only do you not care about my mother’s safety you do not care about my stepfather. I am so frustrated with the entire VA system, aren’t they supposed to be there to support our veterans? This is the reason why so many veterans are on the streets because of people like this psychiatrist.
These are men and women who have fought for our freedom but get nothing back in return. The VA is supposed to help veterans, but it is so obvious that they do not care not about the veterans or their families/caretakers. It makes me sick that the only thing the VA did for my stepfather and my mother was re-diagnosed him with the wrong diagnoses. They have sent him home and now so my mother can feel safe while sleeping will be sleeping on a cot in their spare bedroom with the door locked, which she told these people she would be doing, but I forgot that’s a domestic issue.
The VA is a joke!














