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you need to ignore what everyone else is doing and achieving, Your life is about breaking your own limits and outgrowing yourself to live your best life. You are not in competition with anyone else.

take pretty pictures, read a book, light your favourite candle, listen to your favourite song, treat yourself with gifts, go on a hot girl walk, take a relaxing bath, enjoy nature, watch your favourite film, do whatever makes you happy

in order to become a better version of yourself you have to be confident, being an it girl is not just about looks! here are some tips which can help you become more confident

💗stop comparing yourself - someone else's beauty does not take any away from yours

💗stop taking things personally - basically stop caring about other people's opinion, we literally live on a floating rock in the middle of space, why should you care about someone else's opinion about you?

💗accept that not everyone will like you - there will always be people who are going hate you for some reason, no matter how much you change for them, so instead of constantly changing yourself for these people, don't acknowledge them at all

💗understand that the way you think of yourself is the way others will think about you - if you keep on calling yourself ugly and insecure, you will give of that energy to other people

💗stop asking for people's opinion on things you like - you like that dress ? buy it. "but Emily thinks it looks bad" so ? you don't like everything she wears but she stills wears it. nothing make's you more hotter then doing whatever you like without asking for other people's approval

thank you for reading, I hope this helps you upgrade your confidence

Rory Gilmore is known for being an academic it girl, these are some habits Rory uses to achieve good grades

💗start your homework/assignments as soon as you get them - in an episode Rory said how she completes her assignments on Friday so she can spend time on Saturday doing extra credit, this shows how Rory does not procrastinate over her assignments, instead she tackles them first so she wont fall behind

💗make use of flashcards - Rory is seen throughout different episodes using flashcards, this is a form of active recall recall which helps her memorise information

💗pay attention in class - Rory does not daydream or get distracted during lessons, instead she is always seen paying attention to the teachers and taking notes

💗ask questions in class - do not feel embarrassed to raise your hand up in lessons even if you feel like you should already know the answer to your question, do not risk your grade by being anxious to raise your hands in class, Rory never felt embarrassed asking questions, so you shouldnt as well !

💗do not let a bad grade hold you back - Rory once got a D in one of her exams, she did feel sad about it however she didnt give up, instead she used this bad grade as an opportunity to find her weakness and improve

thank you for reading, I hope this helps <3